Does anandi really want to study?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am sorry. I find the "excuses" that keep coming up a sign of the fact that anandi herself is happy with doing tel maalish and adrak chai duties at the haveli... and she really doesnt want to study deep down inside.
I am of the firm belief that if someone is committed to doing something, then it can and will be done.
I first formed this belief and have started losing any sympathy for anandi after dadisa gave her money and her blessing to buy new books. Bhairon enthusiastically got her forms for the medical tests etc.
However, the very next scene was anandi doing aarti enthusiastically and then telling sasuma, I will cook your favourite dishes today. Next again was taking out oil and a towel to do massage for dadisa's feet. Dadisa had to tell her to stop.
If a repressed girl had really been given the blessings of ds and family to study, I think she would have jumped to action.
Also, the fact that anandi stopped her education after 12th std because there was no "kaalej" in jayetsar is also ridiculous. I mean they could have done IGNOU degree or something, where she could have done home-study and gone once a year to Jaipur and given exams. By now she would be a graduate.
I am really thinking that anandi has no desires but to be a housewife. There is nothing wrong with that, but then I think she needs to be honest with herself first.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anandi gets this burning desire to study only when the writers run out of issues to create conflict and tears for Anandi. Few episodes later everyone forgets abt studies completely. Looks like the makers and channel have no guts to show Anandi as an educated woman and a good housewife as they would lose one of their 'issues'. There are lots of conservative families who dont like women working. But in lots of these education of women is still supported as everyone understands how important it is.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Studying and working in ur home are not at all related...I know many people who are good in studies as well as housework...many working women handle job and home.
Infact its an added advantage she is good at multitasking.
Just because she does tel maalish,does pooja and cooks dosent mean she is unambitious.
She has been conditioned to be like tht since childhood but she has always been a good student.
Even if she wants to remain a housewife her academic ambitions should not be discouraged.So she should be allowed to persue her studies wether she wants to go out and work thts her choice.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: niharika_n

Studying and working in ur home are not at all related...I know many people who are good in studies as well as housework...many working women handle job and home.

Infact its an added advantage she is good at multitasking.
Just because she does tel maalish,does pooja and cooks dosent mean she is unambitious.
She has been conditioned to be like tht since childhood but she has always been a good student.
Even if she wants to remain a housewife her academic ambitions should not be discouraged.So she should be allowed to persue her studies wether she wants to go out and work thts her choice.

Niharika - my mother and grandmother are both working women - a professor and doctor respectively and both have handled housework. So I have no issues with doing both. I also am a working woman and can cook and do housework. I also feel that if she wants to remain a housewife, her academic ambitions should not be discouraged - and that it is her choice.
However, my question is does she have academic ambitions? If not, that should be laid out upfront to the viewers - and this need not be dragged anymore.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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YES anandi really want to study !

(that's y she took the decision ASAP after the cheating revealation)

She always wanted to study and now also but sometimes her motive was different!

In childhood , study was her passion but at that time lots of problems,politicts,hurdles,head injury diverted her from her real passion…!

It is partially her fault and mostly bhairon…he didn't take much effort to convince anandi!

But She was a kid at that time so lets forget it..!

After the 5 year leap….she turned out to be a typical submissive beendni as ds want.

After her 2nd entry in the haveli…she just wanted to be like good beendni ….she just forget what she is actually…..and gehena and chhoti anandi show her the fact that "acchi beendni banne ki koshish main anandi apne aap ko hi bhul gayee"….after that she get a life and again raise her voice on injustice but didn't give priory to her education..

Then she got a big set back of her life when she came to know her husband was ashamed of her . so she tried to continue her education. But this time just to match up with jagiya. In a sense she wanted to remain a housewife but as worthy to be called as a dr's wife .

That's it!

She was still in a dream land at that time and stopped after 12th😡(this the big let down from anandi's side…no excuse for it…atleast I cant convince myself with any excuse…for me it is anandi biggest mistake )…and result is jagiya' s words to bhairon in Mumbai…"anandi is a gawar,main kahan se kahan aagaya but anandi wohi ki wohi..5 saal peeche".

Then anandi got the biggest shock of her life "another girl in jagiya's life". Then she accepted the fact that she was been in a dreamland. She was crazy. She accepted the fact without any excuses.😊

As we know in a hardest crisis the reality of a person comes out…!

So we all r watching a dignified anandi who accepted the truth 1st and doesn't want j anymore and more importantly she quickly took the decision to study further but this time not to match up with anyone. This time she wants to be a self independent person .

It is other thing that there is very unpleasant drama happened in haveli. But that force anandi to rethink about her career choice which is a positive thing.

She rediscovered her passion.⭐️(atleast i think so😃)

I think this time anandi wont let herself down.

2 min ofAnandi-gauri face off will gain more trp than 2 min of anandi's studying in her room

(just kidding …excuse me for that!😆😆😆)🤣

Joking apart…melodramatic situations r created to gain TRP. They don't show anandi preparing for medical entrance coz anandi wont take that medical career and I am sure next week we will get a clear picture on that!😛

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great answer Khusi -- I like your analysis on the various evolution of intentions behind anandi's wanting to study.
I didnt see it that way. and yes, one more evolution since the doctor couple and their scary smiles nightmare has been more clarity in her decision of career.
I like the explanation - that she is sifting through 'data' which is why it is taking so much time -- and that finally the decision is based on her own desires - not to compete with someone, or to be Mrs. Jagya worthy of a doctor's wife.
Thanks.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

Niharika - my mother and grandmother are both working women - a professor and doctor respectively and both have handled housework. So I have no issues with doing both. I also am a working woman and can cook and do housework. I also feel that if she wants to remain a housewife, her academic ambitions should not be discouraged - and that it is her choice.
However, my question is does she have academic ambitions? If not, that should be laid out upfront to the viewers - and this need not be dragged anymore.

Of course she wants to study...she has always expressed her desire to study...CVs has always shown her ambitions to study...She has gone against dadisa to give her boards.
it was just repressed after 5 year leap coz tht time she was more keen on romancing Jagya but thts pretty normal behaviour for a teenage girl😉
So she shld definitely be encouraged.

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