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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja

Agree with u suchi...In India most of us are taught to put ur in laws before ur own parents...and in Anandi's case it was done in childhood itself...Its very hard to throw the believes we form in childhood... She is very responsive to the good done to her, the support given to her...She knows the entire family supports her and threw jagya out for her. So she will not leave Singh family now

In the practical side it is better for her to stay because

1)Now the entire village knows the situation and they all love her, so will not hurt her with taunt remarks

2)Singh family is financially well off and can take care of her better... Bhairon is better than kajan singh to help her and guide her in studies

3)it is good, becoz after knowing Anandi is here gauri will keep Jaggu away from haveli, which is what I want.




IN AN ADULT MARRIAGE, BAHU NEED NOT LOOK AFTER HER IN-LAWS AS, TO HER ,SASUR KA GHAR MEANS HER HUSBAND ONLY!HOW EVER IT IS THE OBLIGATION OF THEIR SON TO LOOK AFTER THE PARENTS! PLEASE KEEP THIS IN MIND FOR ALL THOSE GIRLS WHO WERE MADE TO STAY @ IN LAWS AND HUBBY GOES ABROAD & SETTLES WITH SOME OTHER GIRL!
HOW EVER IN A CHILD MARRIAGE AS THE BRIDE will be SENT TO THE CUSTODY OF BHAIRON,AS J WAS A MINOR,IT IS BY ALL MEANS, BHAIRON WHO MUST LOOK AFTER ANANDI(LEGAL OBLIGATION) WHETHER BHAIRON/ANANDI LIKES IT OR NOT.

BHAIRON IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ARRANGING ALIMONY TO ANANDI TILL SHE REMARRIES!

BUT SINCE JAGYA HAD CROSSED THE MANDATORY AGE LIMIT PRESCRIBED FOR APPLYING TO ANNUL HIS MARRIAGE WITH A,IT IS HE WHO HAD TO LOOK AFTER A,PROVIDED THAT HE EARNS ON HIS OWN.TILL HE STARTS EARNING IT IS BHAIRON WHO MUST LOOK AFTER A.



Edited by sreevask - 14 years ago

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