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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ok after the action pack epi yesterday it was just a drag today.

Just waiting for the leap now.

Anandi shows her conditioning very well as the bahu of the house. This is the reality of many girls. THey will take all the c#*%& thrown at them and yet remain in their sasra just to maintain the respect of their in laws

But I understand Anandi's side because , really Sumitra, BHairav, Gehna, Basant and now DS have supported her and thrown their son out and at this moment to leave them and desert them would be wrong.

So what Anandi did according to my POV was right, by not deserting them after the whole asking session of Bhago.

If should would have left, then it would mean that bhago was right in blaming them when they were partially responsible not fully and when time came they did side by the truth and not by falsehood.

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Gauri maharani, all I can say is

your downfall of your dreams is near ,...very near

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Kamalika

@KamalikaG

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Posted: 14 years ago

So kya aaj firse Gauri ne Chilla ke sab ke dimaag ka dahi banaaya?😆 I am in Univ so could not c the episode yet..

And As you said Gauri ka Perfect Beendhni banne ka jo sapna hai woh bahut hi jaldi tootne wala hai!

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

no in precap she was telling anandi that , she is studying Medicine to win back Jagya

WOW what a dim wit

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chulbuli7

@chulbuli7

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: KamalikaG
So kya aaj firse Gauri ne Chilla ke sab ke dimaag ka dahi banaaya?😆 I am in Univ so could not c the episode yet..

And As you said Gauri ka Perfect Beendhni banne ka jo sapna hai woh bahut hi jaldi tootne wala hai!

May be Gauri ka sapna tootne wala hai, but did anyone notice the faint devilish smile and the spark in her eyes when Bhago was dragging Anandi out of the Haveli?? 👎🏼 Gauri andar hi andar khush ho rahi thi ki challo ab to Anandi yahan se niklegi and Gauri ka Raj chalega 🤣

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vasuja

@vasuja

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Posted: 14 years ago

Agree with u suchi...In India most of us are taught to put ur in laws before ur own parents...and in Anandi's case it was done in childhood itself...Its very hard to throw the believes we form in childhood... She is very responsive to the good done to her, the support given to her...She knows the entire family supports her and threw jagya out for her. So she will not leave Singh family now

In the practical side it is better for her to stay because

1)Now the entire village knows the situation and they all love her, so will not hurt her with taunt remarks

2)Singh family is financially well off and can take care of her better... Bhairon is better than kajan singh to help her and guide her in studies

3)it is good, becoz after knowing Anandi is here gauri will keep Jaggu away from haveli, which is what I want.

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Swetha

@swethasyam08

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Posted: 14 years ago

@suchi - Very true. i agree with u. A has done what she has to do. 2moro any way JG will know their legality of wedding. then lets c what she will say 😊

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angelic8219

@angelic8219

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: chulbuli7

May be Gauri ka sapna tootne wala hai, but did anyone notice the faint devilish smile and the spark in her eyes when Bhago was dragging Anandi out of the Haveli?? 👎🏼 Gauri andar hi andar khush ho rahi thi ki challo ab to Anandi yahan se niklegi and Gauri ka Raj chalega 🤣

Yep I noticed Gauri's expression as Anandi was being dragged by her mother she was think if Anandi goes she would have no more problems and now that Anandi has stood her ground saying she is stay it has annoyed Gauri so much to make such a comment as shown in the precap. I also think Gauri was kind of jealous of the relationship Anandi has with her parents considering they were willing to fight for her and even take her back home where as Gauri's parent abandoned her after the child marriage went wrong.

Gauri seems to put up with the lies jagya tells her just because shes married to him but to be honest I think she might go into denial about her marriage being illegal and become even more possessive of Jagya when her mental state deteriorates after finding out she has been kept as a mistress rather than a wife considering the marriage is illegal.

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redapple1

@redapple1

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hmmm... I am speechless... Anandi didn't go with her parents. Now that she gets money deposited in her account, why does she still want to live in that haveli. Instead of giving it to Jagya, she can fund for her own education and live with dignity with her parents. I guess this is the way they want to bring the legal issue of the marriage.
After watching all this, I guess it is high time people in India learn to teach their girls not to put up with injustice at in-laws. If the in-laws and/or husband are wrong then voice it and the girls have to have the reassurance from parents that their house is always open if they choose to call it quits...

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

I dont understand anandi quite frankly. If she wants to stay in the singh haveli, that is fine. But she need not throw her mother's words in her face to justify her wanting to stay there. She should just say "I like this place, I want to stay.

Her mother said those words in a different context years ago, and in a different framework - assumign there would be a husband. Now if the husband is not there, the context, and framework has changed.

I hope that anandi has a game plan -- though at this point she has the empathy of the household and the villagers -- as time goes by, this will not be a long term option -- she does not understand the implications of this arrangement.

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vasuja

@vasuja

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: redapple1

Hmmm... I am speechless... Anandi didn't go with her parents. Now that she gets money deposited in her account, why does she still want to live in that haveli. Instead of giving it to Jagya, she can fund for her own education and live with dignity with her parents. I guess this is the way they want to bring the legal issue of the marriage.
After watching all this, I guess it is high time people in India learn to teach their girls not to put up with injustice at in-laws. If the in-laws and/or husband are wrong then voice it and the girls have to have the reassurance from parents that their house is always open if they choose to call it quits...

i agree that anandi staying back is not a very rational decision. but i think she respected, loved and is overwhelmed by the fact that her in laws more because they decided to kick their son out for her sake.

in real life to their are many women who stay back with the in laws after husband's abandonment just becoz their in laws love her and treat her like a daughter... Their are also cases where the in laws themself look for a good partner for their bahu.

Edited by vasuja - 14 years ago

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