Viewing our value through the eyes of others - Page 2

Hi everyone, I really appreciate your insights - but this is turning into another thread on why jagya did what he did, and why gauri did what she did ---

vasu jagggua a trophy husband🤣jeej man god spare us the horor, where is she gng to flaunt him?😲 Shifty eye EXHIBITION😆

I felt gauri was nt in hury to marry .the situation was tensed for jagat .may be fear of anyone ds may force to come back her akri kwaish if u r maried then no one can force u .gauri parents also came to know .no one had objection. so gauri agreed to marry.she thought that problem wud solve once they maried.explain that they wer right.in a way they did was better otherwise ds ,other members,anandi wud stil hope jagya to come back.

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

vasu jagggua a trophy husband🤣jeej man god spare us the horor, where is she gng to flaunt him?😲 Shifty eye EXHIBITION😆

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I felt gauri was nt in hury to marry .the situation was tensed for jagat .may be fear of anyone ds may force to come back her akri kwaish if u r maried then no one can force u .gauri parents also came to know .no one had objection. so gauri agreed to marry.she thought that problem wud solve once they maried.explain that they wer right.in a way they did was better otherwise ds ,other members,anandi wud stil hope jagya to come back.

Ok so Gauri married becoz

Situation was tensed for Jagat

Worried about DS ka akri kwaish

To stop the hopes of ds, singh family and Anandi about Jagya

Ok If she married for the above reasons then all I can say is they need to maake a statue of Gauri near Anandi because she is mahan devi...

vasu jagggua a trophy husband🤣jeej man god spare us the horor, where is she gng to flaunt him?😲 Shifty eye EXHIBITION😆Cutie🤗

That was a good one

I magine Gauri going back to Kunda thai and flaunting," my Jaggu is so sweet, he sold dadisa ka ashirwaad, left his parents and insulted them, ditched his wife for me...He loves me" kunda thai will so appreciate gauri. I think Kunda thai's husband left her for another woman. Kunda thai will just love Gauri after knowing GAGA truth.

Originally posted by: vasuja

[I magine Gauri going back to Kunda thai and flaunting," my Jaggu is so sweet, he sold dadisa ka ashirwaad, left his parents and insulted them, ditched his wife for me...He loves me" kunda thai will so appreciate gauri. I think Kunda thai's husband left her for another woman. Kunda thai will just love Gauri after knowing GAGA truth.

Kundatai will first ask in shock after hearing about j selling the locket -- Did J sell the mangalsutra i bought?? he still hasn't paid me back for it yet.

Can you imagine an exhibition of shifty eyed husbands 😃

Originally posted by: tinoo

Hi everyone, I really appreciate your insights - but this is turning into another thread on why jagya did what he did, and why gauri did what she did ---

and really my question was how to become like lal singh? someone who doesnt care about others.

Yes, I want a trophy husband. 😆😆😆.

I understand u tinoo... i agree with u.

Its not tough to be that way... See most of the normal people think about all that before marriage. Only in films does a rich girl want to marry a chaprasi. In reality it does not happen. Once u make ur choice then you need to stick to it. Every married couple go through periods of dissatisfaction...looking for more is normal in human beings.

People having rich pati may complain that her pati does not have time for her.

People married to a middle class man may think that her husband does not earn enough.

A woman who has a pati with lot of money and has time too may think that he is too chipku.

Their cannot be one woman who has not complained about her husband and marriage. but with time you learn to respect each other and also start understanding our own weakness. In marriage the good, bad and ugly realities of the couple come out and the acceptance begins. One starts to appreciate the good of their partner and accept his/her faults and that makes a relationship. that is why people marriage needs a lot of work.

People like Lal Singh are common. People like Jagat are not. One always put a lot of effort to raise their partner to the level they wish them to be and do it enthusiastically when their partner is ready to make the change. Not everyone walks out of the marriage for petty reasons.

Tinoo everyone looks for a trophy husband and marries thinking they got one...After marriage one may realise that everything is not what they expected but even then most of them will not want to exchange it with another one...After marriage one understands that their are many things that determine a relationship than the honours attached to dear husband.

So don't worry you will be like lal singh. Even if you marry a trophy husband you will love him a lot and continue doing it not because he is a trophy husband but becoz you know the real person who is much better than the trophy and realise that he is custom made by god for you.