Gauri's arguments-----what is the real one?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Today's episode was such a good match of arguments between Gauri and Bhairon and i must say, in the game of logic, Gauri is no match for Bhairon.

1. Gauri argued for sympathy-----saying she was a victim of child marriage and that she did not know about Jagya's past in the courtship period.
Bhairon's retort: I would have sympathized with you if you had left Jagya after knowing his truth, like any other sensible, self-respecting girl from a good family👏. But u went ahead with the marriage as if to avenge the childhood trauma.
This is exactly what we had been talking about, Gauri stops being a victim the moment she took a conscious decision to marry Jagya. How can she still claim sympathy for a mess she has herself chosen?

2. Gauri blamed Jagya------saying J had convinced her to get married, claiming he would never go back to Anandi.
Bhairon's retort: So did u think he would never come back to his family also?
Excellent point Bhairon. Jagya could have said anything, but it was up to Gauri to verify those statements. Also, the tensions were inevitable, there is nothing to be surprised. Gauri is acting as if she never foresaw any of these!

3. Gauri blamed Jagya again------------saying J had said he has left his family and will never go back to them
Bhairon: [This is the best answer] Then why are you here in the first place?🤣👏

Bhairon's answer was like a slap🤣. If you had indeed decided to go ahead in life without Jagya's family, then stand by it, why are you pestering them for acceptance??

4. Now Gauri begins playing with sarcasm-----------I didn't know this family values the daughter in law more than the son, i didn't know they love Anandi than Jagya
Bhairon: It's not a matter of loving someone more or less, it's a matter of supporting what is right and objecting against what is wrong. In this case, you two are wrong and you will never be able to convince us in accepting your deeds.
So Gauri still thinks it's about Anandi. It's just because of Anandi that the family is not accepting her--------not what they have done. I can't believe Gauri doesn't see the real reason why the family has shunned her!!!!!! 😲😲
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Gauri is becoming more and more confusing as a character now. The more I hear her arguments, the more she appears to be just manipulative with her words, what exactly are Gauri's real thoughts?

1. To dadisa she says, she was dadisa's choice and the rightful beendni of the haveli--------So the rhetoric is playing on dadisa's belief in old customs
2. To Anandi she says, she would have left Jagya if he were just a married man, but she remarried him because he was her child groom------------So the rhetoric here is playing on Anandi's belief in the sanctity of marriage
3. To Bhairon she says, she married Jagya out of love. This time it is an appeal to Bhairon's sense of logic and practicality because she knows Bhairon doesn't give too much importance to the rule of old customs
4. To her mother she says, she will fight for her lost rights in the haveli, that's her only goal. This is certainly a part of her family's idea of getting back their lost prestige.
5. To the Sarpanch she says, her marriage is legal since it is an adult marriage. Here Gauri is arguing in terms of legality, keeping in mind that the Sarpanch is a law keeper in the village.

It's just different reasons and different arguments to different people, changing the statements according to what would appeal most to each person. I am really not sure about Gauri's real thoughts now, all she is doing is manipulating people to accept her marriage by hook or crook😕.


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shamil thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very well written antara
loved watching today's episode only for bhairon. G was repeating her dialogues as usual
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Posted: 14 years ago
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lovely post antara!👏
gauri doesn't want to see what is right or wrong!
she just wants the right of haveli's DIL...anyhow...!
and the sarcasm......
sote hue ko uthaya ja sakta hai but jo sone ka dikhwa kar raha hai use kese neend se uthaya ja sakta hai...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lovely Analysis!👏

Truly Brilliant!!!!!!!!!!👏 Gauri has no argumenative basis...she's just selfish and wants to be accepted to get her lost childhood!🤢
Her character has so many flaws it's now hard to even keep track lol.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very brilliantly written.. I loved today's episode. Bhairon has spoken wat we all wanted 2 ask n say to Gauri.. She as usual is confused n is confusing all of us with her circuitous talks!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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"IF CHARACTER IS LOST,EVERYTHING IS LOST!!"

She'z doin' all this because she does not know what her fault is!

(1) Her parents never bothered to save her.
(2) She has no other class mates/ friends to advice her.
(3) She didn't consult bade papa before taking such an important step of
marrying this useless stuff J.
(4) At least she never made an attempt by her self to give a second thought
before entering into a marital relation with an already married guy.

As such she'z an ignorant woman & needs enlightenment regarding where exactly she went wrong.She'z totally unaware of the legal & emotional implications of marrying a second hand hubby!If at all she knows the answer,she'd not have asked the same question again and again in spite of repeated slapping s by every one she contacted!!Hope Bhairon's answer may help her reconsider the decision.If J did no mistake leaving his first wife for the sake of marriage,then it is equally no mistake for Gouri to leave her first husband for the sake of the same happy marital life which she might enjoy with some other guy!

On the other hand,the natural strengths of "MATHA,PITHA,BANDHU(suguna,Shyam)&SAKHA(phooli)" have turned into CURSES,for J. Just as saint Prahlad said "IF CHARACTER IS LOST,EVERYTHING IS LOST!!"

It's high time 4 Bhairon to reveal the legality of their marriage & leave the decision to Gouri whether she'd like to build her marriage on the curses!
When Gouri is convinced that J had cutoff every relation to marry G,then they should expect nothing naturally 4m the family! but both Jagya & Gouri are greed of the Haveli assets!
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