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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: groucho

Ankit...I agree with some of what doyelpakhi has said...I know you may disagree with me...but my opinion is in respect to this particular serial and not with reality (because we are now discussing what the CV's perception is).

Arranged marriages today are different but even if they are not...we are talking about adult marriages. Here in BV it is about children...where growing up together there is an overlap of friendship and affection which can be mistaken for love because they have limited choice and it becomes a habit.

I do not in any way or form condone Jagya's treatment or behavior with Anandi but even if you feel he loved Anandi...people do fall out of love...that is the truth...it could have been handled sensitively and without this excessive drama...

Going for a honeymoon does not necessarily mean you have to be in love...that is just the physical aspect of a relationship...but here Jagya's character has not been shown as one of integrity or reliability and so we have reached this point.

You could be right Jagya may go abroad and fall out of love with Gauri too...that is his character as portrayed here and believe me there are men like him in this world. It does not make it right...but in the case of A vs G...I think J felt something different for G which he believes is love. Because he thinks it is love, he believes what he felt for Anandi was just friendship.
As for sacrifices...I don't think anyone can beat Anandi in that department.😉

This is exactly what needs to be addressed in this serial so that things like this can be avoided if not stopped altogether.

@Bold 1. i hv been saying tht i never opposed breaking a marriage (divorce, if u r not going along) or remarriage, but there sd be a proper way. u cant continue two relation together. If Jogia wd hv first broken his relation with Anandi, and thn started his adventure, i wd hv supported him. but he was cheating both girl at a time. how can we justify him on the name of friendship, love, BV or anything. whn i justify or criticize any character, the base of my logic r INTENTION. if intention is good, people can do mistake and we can forgive thm. but in Jogia case his intention was wrong. he was thinking selfishly and his only motive was his personal interest. HIS INTENTION AND METHOD BOTH WAS WRONG😡 so i cant find any justification of his deed, whtever he say dosnt matter for me.

@ bold2, today he believe he loves G and with A he hd only friendship relationship. Yesterday he believed he loved A. tomorrow he will believe his relation with G was just flactuation of his twisting mind. we cant justify on the basis of wht HE believe, we can only analyze WHT HE IS DOING AND WHT HE HD DONE.

I only analyse on the basis wht hv been shown and not on the basis of how a cheater is justifying himself😆

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groucho

@groucho

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: ankit111

@Bold 1. i hv been saying tht i never opposed breaking a marriage (divorce, if u r not going along) or remarriage, but there sd be a proper way. u cant continue two relation together. If Jogia wd hv first broken his relation with Anandi, and thn started his adventure, i wd hv supported him. but he was cheating both girl at a time. how can we justify him on the name of friendship, love, BV or anything. whn i justify or criticize any character, the base of my logic r INTENTION. if intention is good, people can do mistake and we can forgive thm. but in Jogia case his intention was wrong. he was thinking selfishly and his only motive was his personal interest. HIS INTENTION AND METHOD BOTH WAS WRONG😡 so i cant find any justification of his deed, whtever he say dosnt matter for me.

@ bold2, today he believe he loves G and with A he hd only friendship relationship. Yesterday he believed he loved A. tomorrow he will believe his relation with G was just flactuation of his twisting mind. we cant justify on the basis of wht HE believe, we can only analyze WHT HE IS DOING AND WHT HE HD DONE.
I only analyse on the basis wht hv been shown and not on the basis of how a cheater is justifying himself😆

😔😔...I agree with you that the way Jagya has gone about it is wrong...I said that didn't I?😕😕

I also agreed his character is such that he may well move on to another girl...that is also based on this serial...but what I was saying was that this could have been handled better to make it more acceptable...by the cv's.

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

@Aditi jii, i m saying the same thing. If CVs wd hv portrayed it otherway, we cd hv understand Jogia position. If they wanted to show the problem of BV, they sd hv shown incompatibility of J and A and thn falling J to other girl. but they showed they were very comfortable with each other and suddenly whn J went to Mumbai and found other girl he is seeking justification in child marriage. on the same time he is justifying his child marriage with G. so the way it was portrayed, its absolutely not Child marriage issue but adultery and all child marriage things r just a excuse for it/

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jyothi

@pjyo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

In a way he has even manipulated gauri's feelings because he cofesssed his love to her only when the NRI turned up,until then he was happy with no commiment waali flirting..but seeing he NRI he got scared"what if gauri finds a better match in him,thats why he chased after her and confessed love" and in doing so he eliminated any further competition with that more suitable guy ,she moved in with him trusting his every word..

he kept dangling 2 girls for 5 years,there is no honesty,courage or integrity in this character-sadly both these girls still are nuts over this loser👎🏼

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Jagya is basically a man with low self-esteem. It is only people with low-self esteem who feel the need to have flashy 'accessories' because they inherently have no sense of self-worth.

Gauri is just another 'accessory' on his arm. He thinks that she enhances his identity in society. Who he is, is currently not enough, so he needs a pretty doll.

He is not in love with Gauri, because at no time has he mentioned why he has such deep feelings for gauri. On the other hand, he justifies his love for gauri by giving anandi derogatory labels "anpadh and gawar and mitthi ke ghade".

If one likes coffee, then one can talk about the aroma, one can talk about the flavour to justify coffee.

But if one keeps saying "I want the coffee because the tea is yucky, it tastes terrible, it doesn't smell good"... then that is not love for the coffee. If it were love for the coffee, then Jagya would be describing what about the coffee is so good...not why the taste of the tea is bad.

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

i hv never seen any love bonding between these two JAGO. whnever they were together in J eyes always chor, becoz he always hiding something. they were never comfortable. in todays situaton there r absolutely nothing between thm. Jaguu is remembering A in flashback and G is very much insecure. where is love between thm😆😆 Only becoz Jagu dada saying it????

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: ankit111
i hv never seen any love bonding between these two JAGO. whnever they were together in J eyes always chor, becoz he always hiding something. they were never comfortable. in todays situaton there r absolutely nothing between thm. Jaguu is remembering A in flashback and G is very much insecure. where is love between thm😆😆 Only becoz Jagu dada saying it????

Yes. I completely agree. Either pre-marriage or post-marriage - the only thing gauri says to him is "Jagat tum mujh se kuch chhupa rahe ho".

Pre-marriage she would always tell him -- it's okay, I dont want to pressure you into telling me. Tell me whenever you feel comfortable. But she knew there was something he was hiding. Even when the phone would ring in front of her, he would not answer it. She would ask him "tum phone kyon nahi utha rahe ho?"

Post-marriage, she just keeps asking him "are you thinking about anandi?"

😃😃😃😃😃

They have never been comfortable together.

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jyothi

@pjyo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ankit111
i hv never seen any love bonding between these two JAGO. whnever they were together in J eyes always chor, becoz he always hiding something. they were never comfortable. in todays situaton there r absolutely nothing between thm. Jaguu is remembering A in flashback and G is very much insecure. where is love between thm😆😆 Only becoz Jagu dada saying it????

but with jaggu thats always been the case-obsessive love🤔 ,he gets obsessed with new things and people in life and pursues it with complete determination be it running after anandi,then after gauri... ,but when he gets what he wants he gets bored -for him the chase has always been more important than the catch...

.😉and lying is his trademark style be it for gambling money, stealing for his playstation obsession,forged report cards,lying to family,girlfriend ,wife...only time will tell how true is his"true love" for gauri ,this is a decision he has taken and whether he stands firm on this marriage of his own choice remains to be seen -🤔atleast this time he wont be able to shift the blame on everybody else as it was entirely his choice ...

Edited by pjyo - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: pjyo
but with jaggu thats always been the case-obsessive love🤔 ,he gets obsessed with new things and people in life and pursues it with complete determination be it running after anandi,then after gauri... ,but when he gets what he wants he gets bored -for him the chase has always been more important than the catch...
.😉and lying is his trademark style be it for gambling money, stealing for his playstation obsession,forged report cards,lying to family,girlfriend ,wife...only time will tell how true is his"true love" for gauri ,this is a decision he has taken and whether he stands firm on this marriage of his own choice remains to be seen -🤔atleast this time he wont be able to shift the blame on everybody else as it was entirely his choice ...

I am dying to see whom will he blame this time😆maybe gauri and say that she trapped him into all this, this guy can stoop to any level

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jyothi

@pjyo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

I am dying to see whom will he blame this time😆maybe gauri and say that she trapped him into all this, this guy can stoop to any level

😉gauri se bolegaa "tumne bus ke upar daako se ladaii naa ki hothi to main tum par lattoo nahi hotha,🤪 sab tumhari galthi hai gaurii"😆..

😉or he will blame lal singh or even makhan kaka😆

Edited by pjyo - 14 years ago