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Although today's confrontation between Anandi and Gauri was powerful but I don't think it got the point through in Gauri's head that Jagya and Anandi loved each other. That Jagya was madly in love with Anandi before he went to Mumbai. CVs need to do revelation on this so that Gauri sees where Anandi and the rest of the family is coming from. I am really tired of Gauri saying I was destined to be Jagat's wife. That the child marriage brought them together.
Honestly what brought them together is the situation they were in . When two people spend a lot of time together they become each other's habit and for every little thing they need each other. Since Jayga and Gauri were studying in the same school, class, and same profession, for every little thing they needed each other. This started with friendship then went into comfort zone where they both started being comfortable with each other and then depending on each other. What Jagat and Gauri have for each other is not really love, its comfort. Its more than a friendship but not true love. I think that by spending five years with Gauri, Jayga started seeing her as a confidant, he started seeing her as the person who is most close to him at that time. He got used to her and at that time being without her seemed quite impossible because she became his habit. She is his best friend in true manner and he took this as love. The fear of losing his best friend made him say that he loved her. He didn't want to be alone in an unknown city that's why he started to mistook this as love. The saying that a girl and guy can never be friends is true in this situation.The dependency on Gauri made Jagya degrade Anandi as his wife. Jagat and Gauri's relationship is based on lies and any relationship whose base is lies is bound to fall apart.
By saying this I don't support Jagya or his actions rather I want CVs to focus on this part. I want them to have a confrontation with Jagya and Anandi where she asks why he did this to her. I want her to ask him what happened to that love. Even if he said that they were forced into this relationship and it wasnt love then why did he wait patiently for 5 years when she was sent to her mother's house. Why did he show up to her village every anniversary and secretly watched. When she came back he loved her so dearly. He kept her on a pedastal. When he was being raged by the seniors at his school, that night he sat in his room looking at Anandi's picture. He did love her and he still loves her it just that as of right now is habit, his comfort, is taking high priority. I want Anandi to ask these questions to Jagya and tell him that she still loves him.
Many of us say that we want Jayga and Anandi to be separated. That Anandi should never accept him again. But the truth is she loves him and only him. Even if she got an education and became a doctor, a part of her will still be earning for him. It will be waiting for him. There will be a big hole in her life and that can only be filled by him. I want Anandi to get education, I want her to see the world and be able to stand on her own two feet. Many have said bring a new guy in her life but she is not one of those people who will be able to forget her past, her Jagya, and have a fresh start. She has invested lot of love and patience in this house and him that to let go is merely impossible.
Whatever happens at the end is up to grabs but I want CVs to answer this question about Jagya and Gauri's relationship, I want them to have a hear to heart talk with Jagya and Anandi. Jagya needs to man up and talk to her.
If the CVs show that that Jagya and Gauri end up together at the end then they are promoting infidelity. They are showing its ok for village boys to go to city and find a girl there and break all the ties with his family on the name of modernity. This will be torture to the village girls. This will be a support to the other women.
If Jagya and Anandi can't end up together then Jagat and Gauri should most certainly not end up together. It will be nice to see both the girls have an united front and support each other instead of fighting over a man. They are both victims for bal-vivah and if this show is trying to prove a point then all the ties with bal-vivah need to be broken. Any relation started as bal-vivah need to be voided. Is it really necessary to have a man in a girls life? Is so necessary that women fight among themselves over a singly. lying, ill-tempered man?
I am a Jagya and Anandi fan and I want them to end up together at any cost but if we are trying to stop child-marriage then both these marriages need to be voided.
This is my opinion I would love to hear from you all but don't let your emotions get in the say. Think logically and think for the betterment of our country.