Today's Gauri: Who is to Blame the MOST - Page 2

😳gauri for sure 😲because knowing the fact that he 😕crack is married she should punish jagat not to marry him but😕 she married him with no brains not asking😔 badaepapa whom she ask suggestions 😲and second wrong thing she did knowing that she is second wife she want to be accepted by his family 😡what a shameless lady😒 and being selfish of anandi😔 and not asking her feelings 😭the third thing 😡and fighting with jagat😉 the fourth stupid i think she is one mental case🤣 and listening to her mother🤣 who has no dimaag is fifith .being a highly educated doctor 😊and acting like gawar🤪 not understanding the situation🤪, people around her the sixth mistake she has done and she deserves to be blamed🥳🤣😆

Gauri herself...

gauri herself

I would say Dadisa - but she is just following society rules and that was the way she was brought up, so i can say it is the society that is to blame for her condition. for abandoning her when she and her parents were cheated by dadisa was the 1st step in that direction. she wants acceptance from the singh family coz only after their acceptance wil she gain acceptance and respect in society.

Gauri herself because she come between Jagat/Jagya and Anandi no the turt of Jagat/Jagya he is all ready married and he has alread

Undoubtedly Gauri has no control of events that took place in her life as a child. But in the current scenario, she is totally repsonsible for the pathetic state she is in, as someones illegal wife and begging for eveyone's affection and attention.

If Gauri was practical and sensible enough she would never have married Jagya in a haste without the presence of his parents.

When she didnt think it was important that J's parents be present at the time of her marriage it definately seems to make no sense now craving for their attention and affection having insulted them by ignoring them in the marriage.

This could be a topic starter but it qualifies somewhat in this thread too :

GAURI : A case of Psychosis or Base Emotions (revenge/ambition)

I'm divided about the whole psychological twist because I think it's a bailout to redeem Gauri in the viewers eyes should it be required. Another poster, I think it was Ankit111 who touched on 'Ashirwaad to Adhikar' and that also reaffirmed my train of thought that the CV's are slowly sneaking upon us more and more of the negative Gauri by her choice of words and deeds. Perhaps they are testing the waters to see our reaction before changing her into a full on villainess or perhaps they are slowly shaping our mindsets against her so that she is gradually accepted as a negative character. I read so many posts that state 'I liked Gauri in the beginning but what she is doing to A, I no longer like her'.

Generally, children are very resilient and can rise above very traumatic situations. I find it really hard to digest that the one event in Gsuri's childhood has left her so scarred that years later she cannot function like a bright, intelligent woman. If her parents behavior or Singh family is cited as contributing factors then my counter is this :

* Her parents are shown as very loving and intuitive with her now. She never takes a decision without their or bade papa's input. It does not seem like she has been tortured by her parents for being rejected by Singh family. In fact, it seems like she has been protected and coddled since that incident.

I think she just want pure revenge for the humiliation her father had to bear when begging the Singh family to accept her as the beendhni. Remember the look of hatred in her eyes when she was led out of the haveli as a child.

Her need for revenge and perhaps ambition, seeing the affluence of the Singh Parivaar just sweetens the deal. The CV's are showing us her shades of grey that will soon turn black.

So to sum up, I think Gauri the character is consciously choosing to dig her own grave.

she is a mental patient...she gets angry very quickly and keeps blaming everybody that they misbehaved with her. her beloved shocked and lost in his own world husband should give her some some treatment and our dadisa is no less than a psychiastrict doctor...the entire family can question her and make her go even more mad!!!! hahahaha...at this rate m sure she will end up in some store room of the haveli where dadisa used 2 lock up young anadi...!