THE LIMIT OF MAHANTA- new mahanta of Gauri - Page 11

Originally posted by: vivacious_priya

amazing some people have time to write such such big posts n dont have time to highlight😆
well does some one ask here to read d posts😲? den wat r discussion forums meant for?😉

Originally posted by: woman11

@anmol: I guess it goes without saying that the posts referred to were not only between you three discussing your private lives---there were plenty of references to many of the other discussions or posts in the forum. If you want, I can cite these statements and quotes line by line, but I don't think you will have the patience for that, nor do I want to waste my time on that.😛

Regarding victimization, when a person states things like "I don't care what people think about me" or "people can't judge me and I will just believe what I believe" or " anything we write about Anandi gets warning" , I understand that the person is taking the criticism of a fictional character on a very personal level. Sorry to say but your understanding in this case is wrong...I dont feel any such thing...arrey I dont get time to watch BV properly, let alone take things personally and feel bad if people bash Gauri...my problem is people jump on me if I say even a thing against Anandi...and I seriously cannot give explanations every time or justify why I feel and write the way I do...😊 ...Hence the point about victimization. I can give you a concrete example of that---a few days back I had commented on a post that certain people do blame the rape victims too with certain derogatory comments. The immediate retort was "don't judge us, you don't know us"!!!! - I dont know if it was you...but one of the person did write "GaGa supporters" think so...and since me being a GaGa supporter didnt take it lightly...coz I still say it...no one can judge other person based on their view on fictional characters and moreover without knowing that person personally... Yeh lo! Did i say you people think so? It's absurd for me to comment on what you think about rape victims since you have never spoken about rape victims. And yet you took it as a personal attack on you.

There are plenty of examples like that. But anyway, my point was you can't stop anybody from commenting on certain characters no matter how hurt you feel or how angry you get. - Again I am not into that category...so I am not sure who feels hurt here... Just as nobody can stop you from commenting on Anandi. So join the discussion and enjoy the forum. Wish I could...but unfortunately I cannot... Please don't take these things personally and say people are judging you.😃

And yes divya have a great 4th of July weekend 😛 - Thanks to you too 😊

Originally posted by: divmath

Frankly Anmol...Gauri bashing posts..."doesnt" affect me one bit...I dont know why people have this notion that it does...😆😆... victimized and me?? victimized and you?? 🤣 hai la...yeahhh kab hua??? anyways...dont give a damn...we will discuss what we want...baaki just IGNORE karo...chalo...me going...4th of July weekend...and its party time 😛 have fun !! hey kabhi kabhi tho facebook pe aao yaar...idhar IF mein bhatak te rehte ho...its more fun there 😉

@woman 11- leta talk abt facts , from the time i have come to this forum,i have never gotten a warning ,even while bashing a , we never got a warning, divs got warning just once or twice when she just called a dumbo

Originally posted by: vasuja

🤣🤣 Well said. Antara of the lot "My POV" is the best. It is sort of an ultimatum 😆😆.

Originally posted by: woman11

GAGA supporters, nobody is questioning your choice. The only post that seemed to ask you WHY you support GAGA has been given warning and blocked. Karo na tumlog support jisse karna hai, nobody is stopping you. You criticize Anandi, we critique Gauri-----bas hisaab barabar. Nobody has stopped you from expressing your personal choice. And yes, there will be responses to the posts, there will be arguments and counterarguments, so what's bad in that? You should be ready to take the debates sportingly. Tum bhi participate karo na, give your counter arguments, that's what makes the forum so lively. Who's banning your posts?

You don't have to declare yourself as the minority in the forum and portray that you are victimized. I have seen several statements like-------Comments against Anandi are banned in this forum, I will keep believing what I believe, I don't care what people think about me, no one has the right to say we are wrong, we are the ones to get all the warnings, it's my POV, I dont want to justify my stance...etc etc.
Absolutely-------------u really don't have to justify yourself, it's absurd to think that you have to write a preface to justify your views before every post. - I said minority in the context that its just a handful of us...let me see I guess 3 or 4...thats all...please dont take this to some other level...I am not giving any preface to you or anybody here...I was just talking to Anmol...and hence I wouldn't prefer someone using my sentences and jumping the guns and drawing baseless conclusions !! and if you think its absurd thats your problem...but I dont need a discourse on what I should do and what or how I should write...

Sounds like the forum is a Talibani site where GAGA supporters are tortured and fined for expressing their views !! Nobody is punishing you and nobody is controlling the forum. Bashing posts against Gauri also get warnings, Anandi is thrashed left right and center not only by GAGA supporters but often by Anandi supporters too if she does something too dramatic. Nobody takes it personally, so why are you taking Gauri's critiques personally and thinking people are attacking you? Everybody expresses what they feel, please don't bring in issues of marginalization here and make Anandi supporters look like blood-hungry bad wolves preying on helpless GAGA supporters and censoring the forum. - I never did...but if you feel that way...then I cant help it ! and one last time...stop saying we take things personally if you bash Gauri...I DONT ! period. lets not discuss further on this issue...go ahead bash Gauri as much as you want, as I said several times...I dont give two hoots (which means it doesnt bother me!)... and I'll do my work of bashing Anandi...hisaab barabar...have fun !

Originally posted by: woman11

agree with you Rach1. Even I haven't seen any posts---except the one that you mentioned-----that bashed the supporters personally or judged them as people. But it's really sad if there's so much of a defensive attitude, it's like treading in a field full of land mines---------u really don't know what will hurt people.😭😭 Even criticizing the characters seem to be interpreted as personal attacks😕😕

Originally posted by: intruderfast

... from the time i have come to this forum,i have never gotten a warning ,even while bashing a ,