in the behalf of gauri... - Page 2

@Anmol, I don't think tht anyone here giving credit to songh family for her being Dr. As I know most of member saying tht she sd thank her fate tht she was saved tht time and tht helped her to go ahead in her life and achieve something. Imagine wht if she was accepted tht time, for which now it seems she is very eager. She wd hv do here seva of DS. Everybody agree tht wht happened tht time was unfortunate but it cd hv even worse if she wd hv been accepted tht time. So just a big mistake was corrected on rit time. Tht time she was also happy with it but now it seems she was very eager to become second. Beendani of Dadisa and so her seva. For me this is only manipulation to prove her point.

And also imagine if after living with J 10 or more yrs the same wd happened (and seeing J character it wd hv been)
Thn both A and G wd hv been on same boat. Don't say tht J wd hv been fall for her soon after being accepted by singh family and his city girls adventure wd not hv been started, becoz they were made for each other 😆 😆

Yes no doubt Gauri has gone through lot of trouble...her troubles cannot be trifled. My anger with character of Gauri is just one thing: Other than being a daughter, lover, wife, mother and sister the first thing that we need to remember is that she is a woman. All other responsibilities comes next to that...My anger with her is that she let a man walk over another woman's life...To take side of your own mother or husband or son to cause pain to another woman cannot be accepted. Why should women sacrifice everything for man?? I am not able to put my thoughts properly in words- It is not falling in love with Jagya or marrying him or even seeking acceptance from the family that troubled her but with Gauri's decision to marry Jagya because Jagya said he will not go back to Anandi...Why is the right to nullify a marriage given to the man?

Gauri decision just enforced the fact that in spite of education and worldly exposure women are still puppets of men. To close your eyes on mistakes of the man against another woman is very painful. The character sort of let down the substance of being woman. The whole sas-bahu tamasha in every house is because we women do not respect each other. And Men marrying another woman without bothering about the women he is already married is also because we women do not respect each other.

That is my complain about Gauri: she forgot that being a woman has equal may be more responsibilities than being a daughter, lover, wife, mother, sister or grandmother.

i am not saying that, there could have been a proper solution at that time
well i dont believe g and a would have been in the same boat, we cant junp to conclusions,.
a got many opportuniteies to study but she herself refused to do it
shayad g aisa nahin karti toh phir jagya uske peeche hi rehta😛😆😆😆
(oh god mein kyaa baat kar raha hoon, its so hypothetical 😆)
i believe singh family should have done everything for gauri, support her, ds always gets away with everything, she was the main culprit, ek heartattack ke baad sab ek ho gaye aur bhool gaye
bhairon said he would do something for them but i believe he did not, and even if he did , g is unaware abt it

Why are Gauri's parents getting away with the whole thing. DS took advantage of their poverty and they sold their own daughter as bakri. Then left her outside in the same haveli and took off. generally in such cases the victim is more upset and irritated with her own parents than anyone else. here the case is reverse...No excuse can be given to sell their own kid to someone else for money.

For me Gauri marrying Jagat is unbelievable.. I just cannot understand the thinking behind this decision of Gauri. Inspite of her loving Jagat but knowing that he was married to Anandi when a child.. this single point is enough for her to think and think and more think. What would happen if she marries him now. There is a lot to think about. Just Love does not make the life move ahead peacefully.. there are so many other issues to be taken care of. On top of that she goes to the haveli to seek blessings.. I mean seriously what was she thinking.

What was the major hurry to get married now itself. Cannot they have waited till they have completed their Masters or even later on. Why the hurry in marrying. If you love each other and you both are pretty young too so why not wait for few years and see how the things on the family front go.

For me I just cannot understand Gauri need to get married to Jagat knowing all the facts about him especially when she herself had gone through the trauma of child marriage.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

i am not saying that, there could have been a proper solution at that time
well i dont believe g and a would have been in the same boat, we cant junp to conclusions,.
a got many opportuniteies to study but she herself refused to do it
shayad g aisa nahin karti toh phir jagya uske peeche hi rehta😆
(oh god mein kyaa baat kar raha hoon, its so hypothetical 😆)
i believe singh family should have done everything for gauri, support her, ds always gets away with everything, she was the main culprit, ek heartattack ke baad sab ek ho gaye aur bhool gaye
bhairon said he would do something for them but i believe he did not, and even if he did , g is unaware abt it

Anmol I feel tht u don't know the real village situation of such family. I m sure if G wd hv been accepted she wd hv been either doing chulli chakka in haweli or she wd hv been kicked out from there by DS and nobody can do anything. A example is before u. Its not tht she was not talented, she was better thn J and most probably G, but her talent was crushed by DS and even Bhairav or J cd not do anything. If G cd not stop her child marriage, how cd she stand before DS. Its only hypothetical thinking. In G case only guilty were DS and her own parents. Other Singh family did exactly wht they sd do. They were rightly against tht time and now too. But surprisingly G is happy with her parents and DS but hs problem with A and other members. Usko bolte hain AA BAIL MUJHE MAR 😆 😆

Originally posted by: vasuja

Why are Gauri's parents getting away with the whole thing. DS took advantage of their poverty and they sold their own daughter as bakri. Then left her outside in the same haveli and took off. generally in such cases the victim is more upset and irritated with her own parents than anyone else. here the case is reverse...No excuse can be given to sell their own kid to someone else for money.

yeah she is totally suffering from selective amnesia,remembers everything dadisa did but conveniently forgot that her parents sold her😲,remembers bhairav not letting her live in the house but doesnt remember anandi bringing her food when jagya wanted to kick her out of the haveli...i totally liked her character in mumbai when she gave a good tounguelashing to jagya at his fake friend's wife girlfriend predicament-there was so much honesty in her when she spoke on behalf of the abandoned wives who suffer when husbands find new wives.🤔...but look what she did after realising the truth about jagat's lies😲-no concern at all for that very abandoned wife,didnt even fact check his lie stories,didnt wait for her favorite bade papa's opinion (who she trusted more than her parents ) and jumped in getting married,why this much hurry?😲...now she cant even stand jagat saying one sorry to that abandoned wife..🤔

I didn't know Gowri's parents sold her off when she was a little child 😡 I haven't watched BV when Anandi and Jagya were children. It does n't matter how poor you are, it is not acceptable to sell your children. Is Gowri even aware that her parents sold her off?

yeah she knows that!!...