in the behalf of gauri...

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hi frens...as gauri says that she have not done anything...she luv jagya from the beginning without knowing the truth of jagya...jagya hide the truth of his mirraige...she dont know anything about it...she says she is innocent...when she knows the truth she was angry with jagya but jagya convinced her to marry with him...she thought that this is the takdir of her and same guy is marring with her again...so she also accepted that...from childhood days only she had got many pain and humiliation...not only she but her whole family...due to that her grandmother also died...so she also says that doka to muja vi whowa hai ...but i accepted it as my tekdir...What is my fault...why every family is treating me like this...i want to talk with them properly and nicely but their behavior made me so irritating...they always insult me...so WHAT IS MY mistake?????????????

here i am writing the view of gauri...which she think that she have not done anything...its not her mistake...and she want to convince to everyone that she have not done any mistake and its her takdir...
so what is ur view on this???????do u think gauri is saying right...just think in the behalf of gauri...and give ur view😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PKYEK100

hi frens...as gauri says that she have not done anything...she luv jagya from the beginning without knowing the truth of jagya...jagya hide the truth of his mirraige...she dont know anything about it...she says she is innocent...when she knows the truth she was angry with jagya but jagya convinced her to marry with him...she thought that this is the takdir of her and same guy is marring with her again...so she also accepted that...from childhood days only she had got many pain and humiliation...not only she but her whole family...due to that her grandmother also died...so she also says that doka to muja vi whowa hai ...but i accepted it as my tekdir...What is my fault...why every family is treating me like this...i want to talk with them properly and nicely but their behavior made me so irritating...they always insult me...so WHAT IS MY mistake?????????????

here i am writing the view of gauri...which she think that she have not done anything...its not her mistake...and she want to convince to everyone that she have not done any mistake and its her takdir...
so what is ur view on this???????do u think gauri is saying right...just think in the behalf of gauri...and give ur view😊

thanks yaar,appreciate that u have tried to see the good side of hers
u have exactly said whats in gauri mind(accto me)and i dont find her guilty at all
i just hope her attitute towards anadi changes , but now with ds manipulation , hopes r less😡
i she wanted she could very well take revenge, but no she wants to start afresh
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

thanks yaar,appreciate that u have tried to see the good side of hers
u have exactly said whats in gauri mind(accto me)and i dont find her guilty at all
i just hope her attitute towards anadi changes , but now with ds manipulation , hopes r less😡
i she wanted she could very well take revenge, but no she wants to start afresh



yes her behaviour towards anandi is wrong...this might be becoz of insecure feeling of step wife of jagya🤔...and due to this only she looks -tive 🤔
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yes her behaviour towards anandi is wrong...this might be becoz of insecure feeling of step wife of jagya🤔...and due to this only she looks -tive 🤔

yaa i know and with ds pitting both of them and family always favouring anadi, she is boung to get insecure, though i hope she she will not harm her in any way
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanks for making this post i m fed up ,m not goin to speak on this topic any more finally its up to once understanding ,if some people cant understand beyond some things its all up to them ,when she asks to ds y did u do that with me when i was small ,people name it as madness ,arrey tell just becoz u become a doctor u give people the right to make mockery of ur life n marriage ,if the same person is sitiing infront of her y wont she question that?if we sit with person mistake we wont finish the list same goes to anandi ,a person goes selfish here n there to a certain extent one needs to ,self sacrising all the time is like puting ur self in danger for others is that right?no thats mahan.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Gauri cant be blamed since its not her fault that she was married to JAgya in childhood and later fell in love with him unknowingly.. But its her mistake to marry him now WITHOUT much clarification and consent of his parents and the ill treatment towards Anandi as if its Anandi who came in between her and JAgya. In fact its she herself who came between a couple ( whether legal or illegal) They should NEVER behave like this to Anandi. If she can remember all that happened during her childhood wedding she MUST remember that its was Anandi and only Anandi who was kind towards her and treated her as a human.
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Child marriage with Jagya was not Gowri's fault. But I don't support her decision to marry him again. When she was a child, she didn't know any better. Had she been in the village not studying and then Jagya had fallen for her somehow in the village itself, may be I would have sympathised more. Now she is an educated lady and she should know better not to spoil someone else's life (Remember she used to think this way before). Even if Jagya didn't love Anandi, she should have come to haveli and found out what the reality there was. Since Gowri is also from the same culture and background, she can relate to Anandi more. She should have waited to get married to Jagya until she got the ashirwad from Singh family or atleast waited till both the dr's completed their masters and were independent financially. So marrying now without Singh family's approval and then feeling bad that no one is giving the prominence to her is kind of lame.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammoos

Gauri cant be blamed since its not her fault that she was married to JAgya in childhood and later fell in love with him unknowingly.. But its her mistake to marry him now WITHOUT much clarification and consent of his parents and the ill treatment towards Anandi as if its Anandi who came in between her and JAgya. In fact its she herself who came between a couple ( whether legal or illegal) They should NEVER behave like this to Anandi. If she can remember all that happened during her childhood wedding she MUST remember that its was Anandi and only Anandi who was kind towards her and treated her as a human.
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👏 well said, exactly my thought . Till the truth came before G I think everyone hd sympathy with her, but once she came to know how big cheater is J, who can fool everybody for more thn 6 yr and thn took decision to marry in so hurry, without inquiring much and without thinking abt A, she lost all respect and sympathy. She became partner in J fualt. And now portraying herself as victim and putting all blame on J, show her manipulating talent 😆 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i can give justification for gauri😉
g should be thanking her stars, why she does not know what happens in this haveli, what has anandi been through, the rules , she must be thinking everything must be rody in the haveli
and she should thank singh parivaar otherwise she would not have been doctor, , why,
matlab shayad uski bachpan mein band bajaane se bach gayi toh woh singh parivaar ko dhanyavaad de😆
bcos of that family , her family had to struggle a lot, they were humiliated badly and still there is no proof that bhairon funded his education so i put singh family guilty for ruining her childhood,
she went out of this trauma herself, only she should be credited for that, i find it absolutely illogical to credit singh family for her becoming a doctor
in this way jagya should be credited that he did not make anandi pregnant, or due to his dumping only she is studying, chalo phir sabko jagya ki pooja karni chahiye😆(i was mocked heavily when i gave this statement 😆, i find the same logic in this situation many ppl r praising the singh family here and consider them as the one responsible for gauri sucess)😆
it was bade papa who helped her , not the parivaar, so why should she be thankful to singh parivaar
if she is blaming singh parivaar for ruining her childhood, then i think she is right
i have only one objection in her behaviour, her thinking towards anandi, rest i have no problem
everyone has some expectations from marriage and g is no different, she is trying her level best to make connections with her sasuraal, ab woh agar uska [uraana sauraal ikal gaya toh she is reminding them of their past

i find her extremely good that now she does not want to take revenge , she wants to put the past behind and start afresh,
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

i can give justification for gauri😉
g should be thanking her stars, why she does not know what happens in this haveli, what has anandi been through, the rules , she must be thinking everything must be rody in the haveli
and she should thank singh parivaar otherwise she would not have been doctor, , why,
matlab shayad uski bachpan mein band bajaane se bach gayi toh woh singh parivaar ko dhanyavaad de😆
bcos of that family , her family had to struggle a lot, they were humiliated badly and still there is no proof that bhairon funded his education so i put singh family guilty for ruining her childhood,
she went out of this trauma herself, only she should be credited for that, i find it absolutely illogical to credit singh family for her becoming a doctor
in this way jagya should be credited that he did not make anandi pregnant, or due to his dumping only she is studying, chalo phir sabko jagya ki pooja karni chahiye😆(i was mocked heavily when i gave this statement 😆, i find the same logic in this situation many ppl r praising the singh family here and consider them as the one responsible for gauri sucess)😆
it was bade papa who helped her , not the parivaar, so why should she be thankful to singh parivaar
if she is blaming singh parivaar for ruining her childhood, then i think she is right
i have only one objection in her behaviour, her thinking towards anandi, rest i have no problem
everyone has some expectations from marriage and g is no different, she is trying her level best to make connections with her sasuraal, ab woh agar uska [uraana sauraal ikal gaya toh she is reminding them of their past

i find her extremely good that now she does not want to take revenge , she wants to put the past behind and start afresh,


You are really in love with this character :-) 😉 I don't think for Gowri's progress Singh family is responsible. It is her determination that led to be what she is today and of course bade papa's support. It is kind of strange how Gowri didn't even think to get blessings from bade papa before getting married. Papa already had warned her regarding Jagat. He would have not approved this marriage. 😊 Also I feel Gowri should be angry with her parents who also were equally responsible in her bal vivah. Why blame just Singh family? This is my thoughts only.. I am neither Anandi fan nor Gowri's 😃

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