Why is everyone saying Poor Gauri

Hello guys WHy is everyone in this forum saying Poor Gauri this and poor Gauri that.
I feel sorry for this day and that day.

Please put yourself in there shoes. The entire families shoes. If you husband or son, nephew who has been married for what 10 years all of the sudden he denounces his current wife and goes and gets married to another girl that he fell in love with and brings her home would you guys accept her with open arms and be like welcome our new DIL and forget about the current one who has been living here all these years.

I dont feel sorry for a second for Gauri. She deserves all of the rude talking and the attitude that everyone in the family is giving her. But what she is not understanding is that they are also giving the same treatment to Jagya and its not only her. Our of them both it should have been her who used her brains.

She new exactly what she was doing when she got married to him. She forced him to bring her there to his family home and introduce and announce tot he world that she is his legal wife and not Anandi. To tell everyone that he loves her. He told her that his family had disown him, that they no longer want him in there life and that he is fine with that as long as she Gauri is with him. Why as that not enough for her. If she married him because she lvoes him then that should have been fine. They both could have gone back and finished there studies and moved on with there lifes, but NO her plan was to bring him back and to rub it in DS face that the girl who's child marriage was broken has gotten married to that same person and its legal way.

She wanted to hurt the family and see it in there face the hurt and pain, but she forgot that they too will give back the same about of pain and hurt to her. Its wrong for a grown person to tell a little boy who does not understand any of the things that is going on in the house to drop a bomb on him to say that she is his sister in law. Since the day he was born he has only seen Anandi as his SIL and all of the sudden someone else is calling them self that.

Each day I walk Gauri and her stupid expressions like "OH how dare you guys treat me like this" look that makes me really upset. She married Jagya to get back to Anandi and hurt her.

Its not to hurt DS but its to hurt Anandi. because it was Anandi who broke her child marriage with Jagya and it was Anandi who the family back during that time. She has a hatred toward Anandi


I thought one thing was funny today. DS was setting up and eating her soup and she seemed fine, and all of the sudden she was back sick again lying on the bed when J&G were fighting.

When i used to say poor gauri before revelation , I really meant it. nowadays it is pure sarcasm.
dadisa was very loving to anandi. she knew anandi was being bold and jovial for her...dadisa is smart, ache achon ki vat laga deti hein..all this acceptance is part of her big plan.

She will work alone and the whole family though try to be decent in front of maasa to the doc couple will continue giving dirty looks to gauri...I don't think that will change...

See i dont think she came here to hurt the family, nor did she come here to get back at Anandi, i dont believe she is that conniving and manipualtive. All the information that she got was one sided from Jagiya, he was the one that fed the information about the family and anandi, so any negative image she has about the family is from him and any remnants she has from when she was little.

I agree that she should have been more logical and knew deep down that this would not be an easy feat, so i agree she shouldnt be crying about her position now, she should have seen the family before getting married so she knew both sides of the story.

But i do agree that she is a bit naive if she thought that the family would accept her with open arms so easily

when gauri knew the family that jagat came from she instantly knew what she was in for. inspite of that she agreed to marry him. now if she expects that they will give her a red carpet treatment then something is wrong in her head.. she seems a clever girl and shes a doctor as well. but she lacks total common sense. moreover talking abt child marriages she also comes from a similar background. so these things arent new to her either...also considering the fact that she was married and rejected by this family once.

Again, repetitive discussions about Gauri and her actions. Please indulge in discussing this is other active topics that are of the same nature.

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