Nandu dragged into the whole mess

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JanFer

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

I feel children should not be draged in any familz probm infact the elders must make them understand in some other way

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Nisha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Absolutely agreed with everything by woman11 & Suchi-NivReniac.

Gehna did exactly what any mother will do so I think Gehna is right at her place even if people feel it was rude or whatever.

Gauri...why is she trying so hard to impose? It just shows her desperate need to be recognized. That sindoor really has caused this girl to loose all sense and maturity. Scream out loud when all the elders are around that YOU ARE LEGAL WIFE of Jagiya but don't get the kid involve in your desperate need of acceptance overnight!

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rgattu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

I feel Gauri trying to tell the kid that she is his bhabhi was not required. She knew perfectly well the situation and yet went ahead...

She loves J so let her assert her position in J's life, no issues there ...but why try and force your way into other's affections...why use a child to assert your position when he is in no position to understand the complexities of human relationships.

A has been a part of Singh family for 16yrs which is a v v long time. Her relationship with the family is very strong. And they all believe that she has been wronged by J.

And Gehna is one who was very vociferous about her feelings to J and told him in no uncertain terms that he is undeserving of A!

Now Gehna is a thinking woman, she has understood that G has married J despite knowing about A. Being a woman, a strong minded one at that, is probably not able to rationalize G's behaviour in betraying another woman and hence her anger to G.

And when they themselves are so raw from the hurt of GaGa wedding her silent lashing out by dragging away Nandu is true to form...

And imagine Basanth's wrath if he finds out that Gehna let Nandu socialise with G...all in all for self protection and peace within the circle of family...it was an expected reaction!

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Rachel

@Shineon

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

@Woman nice post.

1) Should Gehna have allowed Nandu to talk to Gauri on the terrace and not dragged him from there?

Its Gehna's right to decide whether it is right for Nandu to be interacting with Gauri but she could have been a bit more tactical in taking Nandu away, after all he is just a small kid and just yanking him away without an explanation is only going to make him more curious about this mysterious lady in his houes.
2) Should the adults explain to Nandu what is happening in the haveli?

They should in due time. Right now they are dealing with a lot like the shock this has caused themselves and DS's sickness but once things are settled his dad and mom should explain it in a manner that he can understand.
3) Should Gauri stay away from Nandu and not try to form a bond with this unsuspecting kid?

Absolutely she should stay away. She can only talk to Nandu with Gehna's permission.
4) Was Gauri right in explaining her relationship with Jagya to Nandu?

Not at all. That should come from his parents. What Gauri told Nandu is going to confuse him a lot and was definitely insensitive coming from Gauri.