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Vrish

@Vr15h

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

#51

I'm not getting this whole business of Anandi having self- respect and deserving to stay there. On the question of Gaga, I have mixed opinions here. Jagya did have the right to end his marriage to Anandi and then marry Gauri, but since it wasn't a legally valid marriage in the first place, a divorce would have been redundant. However, I don't doubt that Jagya would have done a divorce if he had to. Yeah, it's cruel to Anandi, and I do hate him for that. But it would be even more wretched to re-unite Anandi w/ him, no matter how good he was to her in the past.

As to whether Anandi has a right to stay there or not, my question is not whether she has a right to, but why should she even want to, in the first place. Everybody who is supporting this 'mun ka rishta' is really out of their mind - the rishta only exists, and Anandi only has bahu duties (doing arati, etc are duties, not rights) as long as she's Jagya's wife. Now that she no longer is, nobody in that house has any right to expect that of her, no matter how much they may love her. Nor should she mope over that ugly both inside & out hag who shows no signs of dying, and will be off to start a new drama after she recovers.

Yeah, morally, nobody has a right to throw Anandi out, but that's not what I, at least, am asking. I'm asking Anandi to leave on her own, not b'cos of Gaga but b'cos of herself. Dear, do recognize that you are a stranger in that house now. You're not an adapted daughter, you have your own parents who gave you in marriage. So your sasur-ji and saasuma have no business calling you their beti once your marriage is over. Point this simple fact out to them, and also the fact that you've had a miserable marriage thanks to that hag. And then leave.

As for Gauri, she has done her mahaan act by dragging Jagya there against his will. Now that she's seen how the family sees her, she should allow Jagya to take her and leave, and settle in Mumbai, or wherever. Enough of this 'I don't want to deprive my sasural of its aulad'. She made Jagya make that effort, he's done it, and once Dadisa is fine (or preferably dead), they should leave, regardless of whether Dadisa calls them back or not.

CVs, please get a new guy for Anandi, so that he can drag her out of there. A guy w/o his own parents & family.

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fuzzyface

@fuzzyface

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#52

@ intruderfast then the problem doesn't lie with Sugna or her past.
The problems lies with all the crap Jagat has filled the Singhs with. He is the one who never came clean about Gauri. He never said anything to defend her honour or pride or why he loves her. Jagat keeps saying he loves Gauri and doesn't love Anandi but his actions were only been to suit himself.
Now he has dragged Gauri into this mess and who has to pay the price?? It's not Jagat but Gauri! I don't blame Gauri for this nor do I think she deserves the harsh treatment but Singhs don't know the truth much like you said no one knows about Jagat n Gauri cohabitation😉

Since you compared Sugna and Gauri about making mistakes, hence my comment.

I think Gauri knew very well what she got herself into and this insult is just part of the deal. To everyone's eyes Gauri is the bad woman, that's just how society works, they always persecute the weak.

Having said that Sugna and Gauri's situation are two different things for even the Singhs to consider. It's one thing to have a child before marriage and another to from the Singh's POV to steal someone's husband.

No further comments on this matter. We all agree to disagree.😊

@vrish dude I agree with what you said. 👍🏼I don't see the point with Anandi hovering around there either Same goes for Gauri and Jagat.

Edited by fuzzyface - 14 years ago

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#53

ok fuzzyface but i had loads of fun arguing😆with u all

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ghotalaz

@ghotalaz

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#54

Thanks for the update!😊

I missed the first part So I'll comment as per the update coz I find it difficult to comment when I don't see the exact facial expressions of the characters😕Why the hell was Jag looking at Anandi😡It's good if Anandi didn't bother to look at him👍🏼 It's better if Jag leaves Anandi alone & just concentrates on Gauri

I watched it from the middle of the Sugna-Gauri conersation. I wasn't actually pleased to see Sugna telling Gauri all that. If Sugna doesn't consider Gauri her bhabhi then she can't talk to Gauri like that👎🏼 Plus she doesn't know anything about Gauri to pass on a comment like that. Sugna can throw her tantrums on Jag but not Gauri. It makes no sense at all👎🏼

Btw I don't think Gauri should feel bad that nobody is accepting her. She should be happy seeing what's going on. At least nobody tells her to make tea or samosa. She's a doctor & can remain one😎 So stay chilled Gauri!😉 Above all, Jag doesn't want to live in Jaitser, so what's the point in proving how good she is as a DIL😕 Let Gaga go back to mumbai so they can start their doctor doctor life. Gaga staying in the haveli will neither give happiness to Gaga nor the family🥱

I can understand that Anandi loves everybody in the haveli & thus she's staying there. But... Anandi's medical entrance exams are nearing but instead of telling her to concentrate on her studies, don't tell me the Singh family is making her do the household chores😡 Didn't DS tell those people not to make Anandi work & let her study😡

When will Khajan & Bhago get to know what Jag did to Anandi. Anandi has said she's not going to tell them anything until she totally recovers from this shock. It's been a long time the CVs haven't shown Khajan & Bhago, not even Govind kaka. Where have they all disappeared. One thing is for sure, once Khajan gets to know it, he'll first attack Bhairon instead of his Kanwarsa Jag😆

The confrontation between Shyam & Jag was great👍🏼 I knew Shyam would react in this way & I knew Jag would have hopes that at least Shyam would be able to understand him. However I think it was an incomplete conversation. I want Shyam to hear Jag's story first then put his opinion. That would be interesting to see whether Shyam still sticks to what he said & believe it was infidelity or will he understand Jag & believe it was bcoz of child marriage...😕 Btw the facial expressions of Shyam was just too good...loved it!👍🏼

When Anandi just walked into the room ignoring Jag, I was so happy to see this new change in Anandi👍🏼 Tomorrow's precap looks interesting👍🏼 Anandi showing her attitude to Jag👏 I wish Anandi stands strong & shows that she doesn't care about him😃

I want Anandi to leave the haveli but that seems impossible until & unless she tells everything to her parents. If Anandi continues to stay there then she's going to make tea, samosa & everything for everyone over there. Then what about her studies...😡

Anandi already seems strong enough now to reveal the truth to her parents. So what's she waiting for now😕

Come on Anandi tell your parents everything & just leave the haveli right now!!!

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#55

[yeah vikrocks(tumhara naam kyaa hain) sugna has all the right to shout at jagya but not at gauri

thats why i like bhairon and sumitra so much,

they r blaming the right person here👍🏼, they have not said a word against gauri

yeah i believe thats shaym jagya convo is still incomplete , maybe jagya will say his side of his story tom

i think someone is peeping in this forum ,😆 i made a post that shyam would be the first one to understand him and he may well be

his opinion on this will certainly be intersting, cos he is the only one in this show who can be totally unbiased

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#56

@ vik I want Anandi to leave as well and I think she will go to the hostel instead and study.

ActuallY i didn't see hte precap properly and when I saw Jagya apologize to Anandi and gauri standing there I am like

Good Gauri welcome to reality.

HE did WRONG and you were stupid enough to believe him without checking out first. !

I had predicted before that Gauri did marry jag cause she loves him but, its cause of Jag's betrayal she will despise him and his family more.

He cheated her and is still cheating her by not tellign the complete truth that they were in love at one point and he did this whole comparison thing and fell out of love or what ever.

She needs to know that.

and She needs to also know that , the same thing can happen to her as well because Jag is not a person who takes up responsibilities very well. He is the kind of guy who abandons his family on the middle road just for his own selfish needs.

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Avie

@avyarima

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#57

Hey why trashing Suguna, She has the right to e angry, remember she doesn't really know whats going on. she doesnt know about GaGa's relationship. so its normal for her to think for Gauri like that and say what she is saying...I personally feel Ok about that. And if your Grandma is sick you will go home to e with her...So i feel her being there is very necessary.First put things in real life aspect. and tell me its not normal!

For this first time, I am seeing the strong Anandi i've always wanted to see. why should Anandi leave the Havali? this Old woman is very close to her, they had their good and bad times but she loves DS. if she leaves DS who is very sick at this point because of this Dr Lier and his wife, then she is making them very important. The truth is that she is not there to make anyone feel sad or less than her, she is there for people she cares about. And i know after DS feels better, Anandi will leave.
And her questing Jagya? Totally perfect! she didnt ask him why he doesn't love her, or why does he love Gauri, or saying "please come back to me". She just wanted to know if he got her letter and why didnt he answer?...she has the right to any question she feels like asking...its her God given right...dont forget...this is alsao about her life!
Jagya, Jagya,Jagya, he looks very uncomfortable around Anandi...ha ha ha .the main reasons for that am sure its because of how cool she is acting on all this. You know he wasn't here when she is screaming, crying and fainting. All he is seeing is a strong Anandi ...he never thought she is going to take it the way she is taking it. and he knows how wrong he has acted with her. I think she is giving him more slaps than anyone has given Jagya.

Lastly Gauri, I feel really bad for her today. But hey! she asked for it! she got just it. If she goes and talk to Jagya into making peace with Anandi first and helping her move on as friends, then even Anandi will help her get close to the family. But she she going around being Jealous and its not going to help her in any way. If she feels this bad...immediately after DS feels better just take your crazy husband and go! or be Patient and make peace with every one ...they are not stone, one day they will come to like her and give her her place. But she needs be very nice

Edited by avyarima - 14 years ago

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ghotalaz

@ghotalaz

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: intruderfast
[yeah vikrocks(tumhara naam kyaa hain) sugna has all the right to shout at jagya but not at gauri
thats why i like bhairon and sumitra so much,

they r blaming the right person here👍🏼, they have not said a word against gauri

yeah i believe thats shaym jagya convo is still incomplete , maybe jagya will say his side of his story tom

i think someone is peeping in this forum ,😆 i made a post that shyam would be the first one to understand him and he may well be

his opinion on this will certainly be intersting, cos he is the only one in this show who can be totally unbiased

well Anmol, i'm sneha but you can call me Vik that would be shorter i guess😉😆

I agree that Sugna was wrong with having a go at Gauri but it has nothing to do with Sugna's past. the reason i'm saying is sugna doesn't know Gauri's side of story so it's wrong to blast on Gauri. Sugna used to meet Pratap before the Gauna...that's a different thing. she was an kiddish teenager who used to meet her husband not an outsider. yes as per the traditions it was wrong to meet her husband before the gauna but then... he was her husband. but then if we go legally then child marriage is illegal so pratap is not her husband😲

This legality & illegality thing is seriously driving me crazy😕😆 this is the tricky game of BV😆

Even i'm waiting for shyam's full & final answer😉 i agree...his opinion matters a lot😳

I don't like Bhairon & Sumitra... all talks only. Didn't Bhairon say that he would help in the kitchen but not let Anandi do anything😆 & Sumitra just says meri laado laado... all the time. will somebody tell me is Anandi the daughter of the house or DIL???😕

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Pranjjal

@Pranjjal

Navigator

Posted: 14 years ago

#59

This is no more child mariage issue now as Gehna said this is extra marital affair actually. J and A had a physical relationship after maturity age it is only like there marriage is not registered but by law they are legally married. And J had excuse of child marriage. J is just attracted towards Gauri. whatever it is but Anandi sabko jail bhijva sakti hai lekin vo aisa nahi karegi.

Mere khayal se ANANDI ne in sab rishton ko pichhe chodke khud ki talash mein apana vajud banane ke liye apne asali maa baapu ke saath aage badhna chahiye. Aur ANANDI ke aage ki sangharsh ki kahani dikhani chahiye. Isme ab koi point nahi hai ki kon kitna achha hai G ya A. Vo to hume pata hee hai. G A ki jagah lena chahti hai lekin jaise Suguna ne kaha vo agle kitne bhi jannm leke bhi ye nahi kar sakati.