I wish atleast one person asked this

Gauri was on and on saying about how she came to take their blessings, avithra rishta, what to be a part of family...

I wish atleast one personin singh family has asked her this...

Ok Gauri let us for instance accept you, then what should we do with her ( pointing at Anandi) ???
Your child marriage with jagya broke and by god's grace you went ahead and educated yourself. You are good enough to stand on your own feet with or without jagya. This girl here was deprived of her education for 10 years due to the same child marriage...You married jagya knowing his past I guess. So what is your Plan for anandi??? She has poor parents, no education and has to hear more things from society becoz her marriage unlike yours has blossomed from child hood to adulthood...So Gauri please let us know how you have planned to handle her???do you plan to take blessings from us and take your so called husband and run to Mumbai thinking nothing about her or do you plan to take any responsibilities of the consequences you have raised? We are asking you instead of Jagya, because we know he has proved himself as a liar and escapist, but you are a girl who herself went through the troubles of child marriage and also educated herself better than any other girl in the village...Pls answer

I would have loved to hear Gauri's anwer...That would have been interesting and let us understand her more...

She wud have just looked at Jagya with a "how can they talk to me like this?" and Jagya wud have just said what he told his mom on the beach - "maine usko apnizindagi se nikaal phainka he, forget about her".

Well Said TS.

Gauri is beyond understanding. She herself was a victim of child marriage but thankfully got saved, got a good education, have a noble profession and still have so many issues and justifying her marriage to Jagdish. Totally ridiculous. Gauri said she and her parents had to listen to villagers that is the only thing she had to undergo and rest of her life turned out well. What about Anandi? She does even think about her?????

Why is she not getting that if she was affected so much and thinks her life was ruined, she marrying Jagdish, what will happen to Anandi who lost her childhood, lost her education, lost her husband, in short lost so many things in life and nothing to look forward too. How hard will be her life and what child marriage have/will actually done to Anandi. How can Gauri cannot think all this considering she has so many problems with her so called child marriage from which she was saved. One victim should understand another very well but here that is not the case.

Gauri character shown is totally beyond any logical thinking.

Originally posted by: sweta01

Well Said TS.

Gauri is beyond understanding. She herself was a victim of child marriage but thankfully got saved, got a good education, have a noble profession and still have so many issues and justifying her marriage to Jagdish. Totally ridiculous. Gauri said she and her parents had to listen to villagers that is the only thing she had to undergo and rest of her life turned out well. What about Anandi? She does even think about her?????

Why is she not getting that if she was affected so much and thinks her life was ruined, she marrying Jagdish, what will happen to Anandi who lost her childhood, lost her education, lost her husband, in short lost so many things in life and nothing to look forward too. How hard will be her life and what child marriage have/will actually done to Anandi. How can Gauri cannot think all this considering she has so many problems with her so called child marriage from which she was saved. Once victim should understand another very well but here that is not the case.

Gauri character shown is totally beyond any logical thinking.

I feel, we should give Gauri some time (episodes). She didn't knew what the situation really was as she had only seen his family till then, only through Jagya's eyes. Going by her history, I feel she will think of her once her first confrontation with the family and later on arguments with Jagya over this are over.

Originally posted by: prime1985

I feel, we should give Gauri some time (episodes). She didn't knew what the situation really was as she had only seen his family till then, only through Jagya's eyes. Going by her history, I feel she will think of her once her first confrontation with the family and later on arguments with Jagya over this are over.

Sorry but what has it got to do with family? She knows the whole truth about Jagdish that he is married to Anandi in their childhood and Anandi for so many years is his wife as per society. Knowing everything she was shown justifying her now marriage to Jagdish cos of her marriage to him in the childhood. That plot is seriously wrong and CVs have protray Gauri in bad light. They have actually made a mess of her character. They should have shown Gauri rejecting Jadgish knowing what she knows. It has nothing to do with family and all to do with child marriage and Anandi and Gauri too being a victim.

guari can help anadi in her medical profesion right ,as gauri is senoir in that,y is everyone want gauri to think about anandi ,isnt the whole family along with anandi,yes gauri character is beyond understanding simply becoz no one can understand it ,whatever hapend with her at very young level of age ,such incidents create lot of damage to children ,although she got education she hated or feared marriage ,she spend sleepless nights ,it was like a horror incident ,her parents obviously i m sure dint allow her to forget the issue if she had got the right man she would have forgoten it but again cheated by her love who belonged to same family ,now she accepts everything wholeheartedly is good thing ,but what hapend with her is also very bad.another bad effect of child marriage.may be thats the reason they have turned gauri s character sought of complicated

i think gauri knows everything now..including shades of grey in jagiyas character!..she knew that even before if you ask me..and she has accepted him with open eyes...you see she herself is a smart forward going character in line with jagiya.with teeny weeny bits of grey..they are both selfish..its all about themself really!..she loves him..so she should get him..and vice versa..come what may!..thats their attitude...this is what they are showing that education and proper exposure can take you forward in life..whereas lack of either ends you in a soup!...the child marriage bit afcourse has been clearly shown...anandis has suffered the most..i dont know how they'll take the story forwad but i doubt it very much if they show anandi and jagiya getting back together...as that will mean ..alls well that ends well..so no harm in getting a kid married..😉...the point is their depiction of these characters has been done really well i feel...the evils of child marriage has also been shown and its all very realistic..except afcourse the fact that gauri turned out to be the same girl who dadisa had got jagiya married to!!...that is one big coincidence..😆

Originally posted by: tanvismile

guari can help anadi in her medical profesion right ,as gauri is senoir in that,y is everyone want gauri to think about anandi ,isnt the whole family along with anandi,yes gauri character is beyond understanding simply becoz no one can understand it ,whatever hapend with her at very young level of age ,such incidents create lot of damage to children ,although she got education she hated or feared marriage ,she spend sleepless nights ,it was like a horror incident ,her parents obviously i m sure dint allow her to forget the issue if she had got the right man she would have forgoten it but again cheated by her love who belonged to same family ,now she accepts everything wholeheartedly is good thing ,but what hapend with her is also very bad.another bad effect of child marriage.may be thats the reason they have turned gauri s character sought of complicated

Not only complicated they made her slightly crazy too...Marrying Jagya and getting in singh family is like going back to prison willingly because the jailer has turned sweet...jeez who in sane mind wants to get into such crap...and if she has too then wouldn't she take some time and investigate...that man has lied for 5 long years about evrything...how do u trust so easily...so that proves education has nothing to do with common sense...Well why doesn't she wait to prove his loyalty, ask him to set scores with his first wife, fhis family, complete their MS and then marry...Jagya loves her...so she need not fear for him to run away...She does not need to live with him too and fake for kunda thai becoz she can surely find a room mate from her college...SHE IS EDUCATED...WE ARE EDUCATED PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM...THE QUESTION IS NOT ANANDI...WHY WILL GAURI EASILY TRUST JAGAT WHO LIED FOR 5 YEARS AND MAKE SUCH DECISION...EDUCATED PEOPLE THINK BETTER THAN UNEDUCATED...THESE PEOPLE ARE SHOWING THAT HOWEVER EDUCATED WOMEN REMAINS A FOOL. I like Gauri...But no one can support the way they are portraying her.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Not only complicated they made her slightly crazy too...Marrying Jagya and getting in singh family is like going back to prison willingly because the jailer has turned sweet...jeez who in sane mind wants to get into such crap...and if she has too then wouldn't she take some time and investigate...that man has lied for 5 long years about evrything...how do u trust so easily...so that proves education has nothing to do with common sense...Well why doesn't she wait to prove his loyalty, ask him to set scores with his first wife, fhis family, complete their MS and then marry...Jagya loves her...so she need not fear for him to run away...She does not need to live with him too and fake for kunda thai becoz she can surely find a room mate from her college...SHE IS EDUCATED...WE ARE EDUCATED PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM...THE QUESTION IS NOT ANANDI...WHY WILL GAURI EASILY TRUST JAGAT WHO LIED FOR 5 YEARS AND MAKE SUCH DECISION...EDUCATED PEOPLE THINK BETTER THAN UNEDUCATED...THESE PEOPLE ARE SHOWING THAT HOWEVER EDUCATED WOMEN REMAINS A FOOL. I like Gauri...But no one can support the way they are portraying her.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

we still have to watch out for the character .regarding investigation ,since u have mentioned i would say that lalten should have opened the mouth ,bade papa should have been helful,goin to haveli before marriage i think it is completely unrealistic ,who would actualy tel the status of their relation to an outsider ,we all know all the family handles the issues ,if they come to know who is gauri then they would have thrown her out.

i agree dear...but it gets to my nerves when the serials always portray woman mahan or emotional fools...we are emotional but not fools...I wish Gauri turns negative...It will make me feel better that she is doing all this with some purpose and is not a emotional fool...After Gehna, she was one rational character who used her head, I don't mind her being wicked till she is sane...Anandi has always been mahan...