I support Jagya=my own story

Hello frends, Vikram here.

I am silent reader of the forum and have seen lovely posts on this forum. I like all of you supporting Jagya and his wedding to Gauri because I myself have experienced the same thing. Let me tell my story.

I was working a software engineer in the US when my parents decided my marriage with a village girl. I never saw that girl, only saw photo. My father told me the girl is very beautiful and also the girls father is giving us a lot of dowry. Now in my village, any good wedding has dowry, there is no crime, every father gives dowry for the daughter. Iam very educated and handsome dso the girl must be suitable. Also I respect my parents so I agreed to marry without meeting the girl. When I went to India, I talked to that girl for 3-4 days on phone and then we got married.

After marriage I took her to the USA to stay with me and it was horrible. She was full gawar---very uneducated, very black and did not talk English. I could not take her out because all my frends laughed at me--they said " your wife is not smart, how she live in the US". She cannot do any work--no driving, no grocery. She was also very fat and always wear sarees but my other frends wives wear jeans and skirts and smart dresses etc. I was very sad after marriage. After one year i became the father of a daughter, but the daughter is also very black and ugly like mother. I hated both mother and daughter and wanted to break the wedding.

There was another girl in my office---very fair and smart and beautiful. She also make good food and say good jokes and make me laugh. I felt happy when I spend time with her and slowly i became attracted to her. She also told me she love me. We decided to marry and i send my first wife back to India. All my family, specially my father got very angry and just like Jagya's family they said they will keep no contact with me. I told them i did not choose my first wife, they forced me marrying and now i want my true love.

Today i have married the girl i choose from office for 2 months, but my family still angry with me and they don't talk. I have paid money to my first wife but they are still angry. I saw the same happening in the serial and felt very sad. Why don't people give freedom to people? We should free to choose anyone and if we dont like free to divorce, what is wrong? Many people in this forum blame Jagya, but i am happy many people support him. Please support him, everybody can choose and if they don't like their wife they can marry a new girl. Nothing bad in that.

disagree ,your story is in no way like jagya anandi or gauri in balika vadhu...so no comments 🤔

That is digusting. You got married, you took the responsibility... no one put a gun to your head to get married. In Jagya's case, at least he was a small child when he was forced into the marriage... you are a grown man and if you cannot make your decisions by then, you have serious issues.

i cannot digest your comments about your own daughter ... I only hope one day u realize that "all that shines is not GOLD"

What is your daughters fault?? She has to live without knowing fathers love..

Originally posted by: pjyo

disagree ,your story is in no way like jagya anandi or gauri in balika vadhu...so no comments🤔

I agree with pjyo. If you did not like your first wife why did you consummate and have a child? Looks like you never liked her. Jagya initially loved anandi and decided to study medicine because she saved his life and she helped him leave village against his family.

Your story is different. I feel sorry for you as well as your first wife. I am no one to give advice but you should have been careful before destroying a girls life. That she is not fair, and wears only saris, can't drive etc was known even before wedding, just because she was rich you should not have married. Anyway, all the best for this one!

Hi Vikram,
U have my sympathies...it happens to lot of ppl.This child marriage/arranged marriage ruins lot of lives.But ur not completely innocent.Why did u marry tht gal wen u didnt like her.I know its difficult to oppose parents.Indian parents become extreamly unreasonable but ur anyways doing it now.Jagya's case is different he was a child but u were an adult.
If u had opposed ur marriage to ur 1st wife at the right time it would have saved 2 lives ur wife and ur daughter.
Imagine wat respect will ur daughter have for u??And dont think u'll escape this easily someday u'll have to answer her.u have abandoned ur 1st wife thts a diff issue but atleast show some responsibility towards ur daughter.Why should she suffer for ur mistake.And how can u dislike ur own child?? just because she's dark ??have ever thought of her as a parent ??Ur being very selfish.

I am not saying tht patch up with ur wife.but get a proper legal divorce.meet ur daughter from time to time let her feel tht she's got a father.Give her good education so tht in future she dosnt end up like her mother.
How would u feel is if she also gets abandoned by her husband.U cant change looks but atleast proper education will make her confident enought to face the world.

OMG.. another proof of Male Ego! and Superficial-ness..

OK for some reason this above story seems fake and more like a fake incident.

Vikram, do you even realize how abominable you sound in your post?? And you are really trying to justify yourself?? Seriously??