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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lol@ Anmol for the biggest Hater of Jagya Title.

I am guys I deserve this HONOR!
lolol

I feel proud!

but naturally what you are proposing is great so why say no. But unfortunately I am sure Jag won't do such a thing u know... lekin umeed tho kar sakthay hain na!!

Lets see and wish for the best
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Anmol idea to Achcha hai but this IMPROVEMENT song kuchh suna said lagta hai 😉 kahin padosi forum se churaya to nahin 😉 😉 chalo IMPROVEMENT tak to chalega but don't steal DREAMS otherwise it will be too much 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit111

Hey Anmol idea to Achcha hai but this IMPROVEMENT song is very known 😉 kahin padosi forum se churaya to nahin 😉 😉 chalo IMPROVEMENT tak to chalega but don't steal DREAMS otherwise it will be too much 😆 😆 😆


i knew tera yehi jawaab hogaa😛😆😆😆dont worry i dont write dreams , and whenever i have written dreams they have turned into reality most of the time🤣except for those adult content we used to write😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

hello ji main phir se aa gaya aap logon ko pakaane😛😆

accha ji ab meri poori forum khub band baja gayi lekin main to main hoon , jo kehne hain kahoonga😆
ok see what i think should happen
i really want jagya to repent on what he did to anadi , he should take up the responsibility
and anadi problems r yet not solved, remember the episode when bhairon was suggesting anandi remarriage
but massa cut him, she said she would not support it😡
maasa still thinks anandi as her beendni and society will also think that
aandi remarriage issue will surely come sooner or later and jagya should support that,
he should stand up for anadi rights now, i think gauri will also help anandi in a way
i dont think anadi and gauri will be enemies , if they can be friends it will be like sone pe suhaaga
he should convince dadisa too that anadi deserves to start her life afresh
anandi remarriage if it happpens and it should eventually would be the true landmark episode in bv
and a perfect way to maintain anandi jagya friendship , improve jagya character and providing a correct mesage
ab chup chap meri post pe like button press karo😛😆


@ red practically A-J can never be friends now!!!
and dats a very practical thing i m not saying dis just as anandi supporter.
.A-G can also never be friends as Gauri will always be insecure of Anandi!!
n i think anandi should first become a doctor den only she should think abt remarriage and jagat should not only repent he should be punished. Jagat should go through d same pain which anandi is going through...
So for me if gauri turns negative dere z no prob unless she harms anandi!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vivacious_priya


@ red practically A-J can never be friends now!!!
and dats a very practical thing i m not saying dis just as anandi supporter.
.A-G can also never be friends as Gauri will always be insecure of Anandi!!
n i think anandi should first become a doctor den only she should think abt remarriage and jagat should not only repent he should be punished. Jagat should go through d same pain which anandi is going through...
So for me if gauri turns negative dere z no prob unless she harms anandi!!


I also first time agreeing with u .a cheater sd be first punished thn repent and also go thru the same which he caused to other.he sd not go Scott free and this sd be applied for all cheater 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with certain portions of your post anmol (hope u dont mind me calling you that, gather your name is that from other posts😊 )

I agree Jagya should repent, he should big time. But I dont think he deserves to be forgiven that quickly. I think the things that he did to Anandi and his family are not easily foregivable. I dont want Anandi to be his friend cos he dont deserve Anandi in his life in any shape or form. Neither does he deserve his family to be around him.
I think that Anandi should first and foremost get educated, to me that is more important than her remarriage. I am not sure if I ever want to see Jagat happy, I firmly believe that is abosultely the wrong message around child marriage. Jagat having a happy life with Gauri would only justify the actions of all these men who just uses these child brides and then dump them in the name of illegality of child marriage and then go live happily with somebody else. There that is my POV in terms of what I want to see.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If J had to play any role in improving A life he should have done that before getting married to G secretly and then coming to the Haveli to give every one a shocker. Now that he is married and cared less for A, I personally feel he has no business in interfering in her marriage.

After being cheated big time by J, it will be very difficult for A to get married to someone else. Since her in laws are fully supportive to her she is not alone. I want to see her get educated and have a flourishing career and she should do this on her own accord and not with the help of J. He called her a gawar and unsuitable to be mended to a city culture, I hope she proves him wrong by changing herself on her own capability. She is much more intelligent than him and I hope the CV's show her to be more successful than him. That will be a slap on his face.

About A getting married, in my opinion unless A actually meets someone on a personal basis rather than an arranged marriage I really don't know if she would agree to get married.

Moreover I agree with Rach1, J should not be forgiven so easily. He needs to pay for all his actions and should experience the same pain he inflicted on his family. No one can build a happy life on the tears of others. It has to be payback time for him. I dont want G to improve him but A actions and what she makes of her life to make him realize how wrong he was. She should make him realize that one should be proud of their origin their family and rahter than being selfish it is much more fulfilling to use your education also for the needy.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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As wonderful as it seems to wipe the slate clean by settling Anandi with some nice young man - that is not going to happen so soon.

Remember, Anandi has had no choice in this matter at all. She never said yes earlier, never said no later and has no choice now but to accept that she is not loved back by the one person she has adored forever. Don't you all think her heart and her emotions are going to take time to heal ?? Just saying - - go Anandi go study - make something of yourself - you are a free bird now. Lets help you find another nice guy to marry and you can wear your beloved sindoor again is NOT a solution.

Try to remember how long it took Sugna to forget her first love after she knew he was dead and never coming back. She went thru so much anger and pain and took so much time to accept Shyam's sincerity.

On the other hand, Anandi has been lied to, misbehaved with, discouraged everytime she made an effort for self improvement and finally dismissed as ganwar and unworthy of a city slick doctor husband. Anandi wud IMO need to make a lot of investment in herself and build up her own self worth and self esteem. She may never want to marry again - unless she too meets someone as wonderful and as persistent as Shyam who can teach her to have faith in men again and to risk her emotions all over.

Its very frivolous to talk about getting Anandi remarried honestly.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Although i would like to see Jagya repenting and regretting the decisions he made in his life, from what has happened in the past i dont think this will be happening any time soon. Also as per articles and what been said about the nature of Gauri marrying Jagya, it seems like she has an ulterior motive to be marrying Jagya and that is to get revenge.

So with this in mind i dont think that Gauri will be help anandi. It seems more plausible at the moment that Gauri will be causing friction in the house and will try to undermine Anandi, since in everones eyes .she will be seen as the first and actual wife of Jagya and the family will see her as the saut so to speak.

But i do agree with you that i think there will be an upcoming track were there will be the talk of Anandi remarrying, this will bring up the issue of remarriage for women, it may go something along the lines of what happened in the film Babul, were amitabh wanted his widowed bahu, Rani, to remarry. Most of the family will be against it to begin with and slowly they will change their minds and agree to the remarriage

But before anything can happen Anandi needs to be asked the question of what she wants to do, all her life it seems people have been dictating what she should do or not. If she should study, who she should marry, if she should go back into study. It high time someone actually sits down with her and asks her what she wants
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank you guyz for putting such wonderful points!

I agree completely, that Anandi deserves a Great life..

Success and a Happy marriage with a guy who will treat her as the queen that she is .>!!!

but that will happen only after she agrees and is ready.

Anandi's success will be the slap on his face , rightly said. ANd this is exactly what will happen.

And today, the downfall of Jagya starts.

I want Anandi to emerge back , come out successful and strong.

But as I have said, Jagya helping is NOT going to happen and I do not want him near Anandi at all.

Also I will be surprised , he he actually does not start to feel jealous , by seeing Anandi's success , and if she meets a guy, he will be the first to oppose.

He would rather watch her ROT than to move on in her life.

So if he stays away from her life, will be a big help in and of itself.

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