Isn't 6 years a long time to fall out of love?

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Riamonk

@Riamonk

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Posted: 14 years ago

I cannot wrap my head around the fact that Anandi is still so much in love with Jagya and is crying bitterly for him😭. I understand that if someone has a good marriage where there is no room for suspicion, woman would be shattered when she knows about adultery...but in A's case, her husband left her 6 years ago. If J never called her, they had no romance for 6 years, no lovey-dovey talks over phone, no love letters...what kept her going? In fact J was always mistreating her and calling her gawar. If I were A, I would have fallen out of love with J long time ago and wouldn't waste my tears on a guy like him😡.

Does anyone else think like me?

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divmath

@divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

@Riamonk

Absolutely !!! My thoughts the same...Anandi's reaction is nothing but a clear case of exaggeration of emotions...CV's also are to be partly blamed for it...for stretching the story line to an extent that it doesn't make sense...For me Anandi's breakdown looks too dramatic...over reacting to a situation which she was partly if not fully aware of...Any sane woman would have known something is seriously wrong in a relationship, if her husband has been treating her the way Jagya was treating Anandi...(IMO) all said and done I am just waiting for her to move on and do something for herself...its tedious to watch her crying and whining round the clock...

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Riamonk

@Riamonk

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Posted: 14 years ago

I am also waiting for her to put everything behind and start a new life. I think the drama will continue this week. Lets hope we see strong Anandi from next week.

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Its not that she didn't have any doubts , but she just believed in him , that no matter what , Jagya will always be there for her.

She just waited and there are many women like that :(

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TANUM

@TANUM

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Posted: 14 years ago

it is mind set.

anandi as a normal indian bahu had dreams that her husband is a world to her as taught by her mother.

her life was stagnant only under the hope that her husband will return to be with her.

jagiya saw different angle of life, his life has been moving very fast.

anandis reaction was very natural.

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 14 years ago

dear looking 4 logic, not good😆😆

i am very surprised ki anandi ko thoda sa bhi shak nahin hua tha, she was blindly believing him

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Rolzz

@Rolzz

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Posted: 14 years ago

You have to think from her point... she was a married woman from childhood...all her life was spent as a wife...it will be devastating for her to see the life going all shattered... I think it has more to do with the voidness of life than love for Jagya per se... The same goes with other members as well... Now they are realizing that they destroyed a young girl's life!!!!

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PKYEK100

@PKYEK100

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

anandi is indian women...who think husband r everything for her...more over anandi have not thought that jagya will leave her...she thought that this might be due to the stress of study...and she have hope that this will be fine when jagya will come home and stay their...but when she knows that jagya have affair with another girl then she couldn't tolerate it at all...her hopes went all down...

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Riamonk

@Riamonk

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Posted: 14 years ago

I can see the POV for people in support of Anandi's reaction. I was brought up as mentally strong and to be in a marriage if it is good for both so I have trouble understanding the other side of the coin. But I have started to see your point. God bless such girls who have to suffer.

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maya sethi

@Mayavi-26

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Posted: 14 years ago

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yes even i dont understand y is she overreacting she knows this tht J has not only cahnge but also doesnt love her any more still she is giiving him too much of importance , wht messages is cv,s given ireally not geeting it.

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