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Dhwani

@dwsc

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Posted: 14 years ago

I lloovvveddd today's episode..!!!

Bhairon was amazing..!!! Thnak god, i did not miss the episode and saw it at 11..!!!

Slap after Slap..!!

And the main idea of Balika Vadhu i.e. child marriage ws also highlighted today.!!! Just awesome..!!

And i'm already loving the new promo, where Bhairon says that Jagya's dead, everyone SHOCKED😲 and Anandi falls..!!!!!!!!

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

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andv

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: dwsc
I lloovvveddd today's episode..!!!

Bhairon was amazing..!!! Thnak god, i did not miss the episode and saw it at 11..!!!

Slap after Slap..!!

And the main idea of Balika Vadhu i.e. child marriage ws also highlighted today.!!! Just awesome..!!

And i'm already loving the new promo, where Bhairon says that Jagya's dead, everyone SHOCKED😲 and Anandi falls..!!!!!!!!

👏

Is there a new promo being showed? If possible could you please post a link to the same? I dont live in India and hence have to depend on video streaming to watch the episodes. I will much appreciate it if you could post a link to the promo if possible.

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Priya

@iloveidiotbox

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Posted: 14 years ago

Anandi...😡 Chalo yaar, yeh bechari ka drama bahut ho gaya. All her bravado seems to be gone in that one day that she yelled at Jagya.

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Angela

@Bidaaifan09

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox
Anandi...😡 Chalo yaar, yeh bechari ka drama bahut ho gaya. All her bravado seems to be gone in that one day that she yelled at Jagya.

Can you cut the girl some slack she is going through some very emotional things right now, her husband left her and the world as she knows it has been thrown for a loop so she is allowed to fall apart we all have been there we fall apart and then pick our selves back up to face life. I have been a silent reader of this forum and have seen alot of bashing going on and no compassion. I mean no disrespect to anyone but I was getting a little fed up with the bashing and not any compassion everyone seems to be team gauri while thats fine and dandy no one actually is stopping to look at the bigger picture. Child marriages are horrible, but Jagya seems to forget that without his wifes support he would be living in their village and helping to run the family business. she goes to bat for him time and time again, looked after him, been his friend, his confidant, took a bullet for him, and then when they grew up his lover and he has the nerve to say that he is above her shame on him I do not blame the other girl but there comes a time in womans life were blind faith in the one we love can come back and bite us in the butt as you can see with anandi, so no girl is safe doesnt she ever wonder why he fails to mention his family or have pictures of them. Is she dumb or just to trusting.

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divmath

@divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hey Dhwani could you please share the link for the new promo if you find one ! 😊 Thanks...

and Priya I agree with you...Anandi needs to be strong now and face life with dignity, enough of crying and I am so bechari and helpless avatar...she gets on my nerves when she does that...where's that fiery Anandi who fights for the whole world...now fight for yourself woman...

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sonia77

@sonia77

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Posted: 14 years ago

Such a good episode!..hats off to the creatives..they really brought both father and sons perspectives so well today...and i have to say...jagiyas accusations for the first time made complete sense!!!...and deep down bhairav knows this reality...but then again jagiyas lies all along need explanation...the episode clearly brought out the theme of the show...really brought out well...the point is how will they take the story further...since they are so strongly opposing child marriage..it really wont be viable for them to bring jagiya back to anandi..besides its more or less clear from todays episode that jagiya loves gauri and will stand up against his family for her!...now i just hope bhairav reveals the entire truth about jagiya to the family.

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Shaista Nasar

@Shaista33

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sonia77
Such a good episode!..hats off to the creatives..they really brought both father and sons perspectives so well today...and i have to say...jagiyas accusations for the first time made complete sense!!!...and deep down bhairav knows this reality...but then again jagiyas lies all along need explanation...the episode clearly brought out the theme of the show...really brought out well...the point is how will they take the story further...since they are so strongly opposing child marriage..it really wont be viable for them to bring jagiya back to anandi..besides its more or less clear from todays episode that jagiya loves gauri and will stand up against his family for her!...now i just hope bhairav reveals the entire truth about jagiya to the family.

he does not love anyone but himself. his a selfish little brat who has gotten everything in his life and now thinks that gauri is his status equal so she suits him. hence the so called love. lets see where that love goes when she's a busy doctor and can't be the traditional wife. then he'll compare her to anandi. either way, he does not know the meaning of the world love. all today's epi showed was that he blames everyone else... ok, since he's so intelligent, why has he not come clean with the so called love of his? if he was a victim, why did he not tell gauri so? would shge not understand? she would. this is all bs from his side. an excuse. at the end, its me me me for him...

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vidyasu1

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Posted: 14 years ago

I fully endorse and support Biddaifan. This is the first objective analysis of Anandi who has been mercilessly bashed as against Gauri who has been celebrated. First of all, contrast the support systems of the two girls. Anandi was up against the redoubtable Dadisa who was dead against the girl educating herself. PL LET US REMEMBER that Anandi was far superior to Jagya in studies. She topped without going to school and helped J with his homework after doing household work. She burnt her books only to keep peace in the family. She took a bullet for her husband and desite this DS got her grandson married off to another girl.

During the entire five years she was away at her parents, jagya secretly watched her grow up and was lusting after her. When she came home, he could not keep his hands off her. He had a long honeymoon with her. Remember he took her to Bombay and made her wear salwar kurtas? Anandi agreed to all his demands, and was prepared to mould her tastes to suit his tastes. She stood up for him against the family and ensured that he was able to study medicine. What did she get for all that? Insults and rejection. How did his beautiful, super bright beendni suddenly become an illiterate ganwar?

And please don't call Anandi a door mat. She studied on her own and topped the board in class ten. And what did Jagya, her good friend, do? He was so intolerant of her fame and success that he burnt up in jealousy -- and instigated DS to go against Anandi and stop her from studying further. Now he turns around and tells her she was just his good friend? That she is illiterate? Who made her illiterate? Why did he have such a long honeymoon with an illiterate friend? Why did he not think then that child marriage was wrong?

As for Gauri, despite what happened to her, she educated herself -- thanks only to Bhairon and Bade Papa. Despite this, it beats me that she doesn't even call her parents and bade papa. Years ago, when I set out to live on my own, my parents used to be on the phone constantly, asking to know how I lived, where I lived, if ate properly, how I coped at work etc. It is inconceivable that any parents will not call their child and have a daily conversation with her in this cell phone age. It is inconceivable that any girl will not tell her parents she has been hospitalised with typhoid. How the hell did G manage to hide where she is living, and all other things that happened to her, from her parents? It seems she is a consummate liar too -- good jodi I must say!. And all this despite being aware that bade papa disapproved of J. And where did bade papa disappear? I presume he is paying for Gauri's studies and rent. So how come he does not ask her where she is living? And how come he does not pursue Jagaya to know the truth about his dear Gauri's love interest?

Please let us be more balanced in our criticisms. It is not easy for a girl in Anandi's rural situation to dump everyone and say I will do what I want -- much as that would make a wonderful story. And much as I hope that is what happens.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vidyasu1
I fully endorse and support Biddaifan. This is the first objective analysis of Anandi who has been mercilessly bashed as against Gauri who has been celebrated. First of all, contrast the support systems of the two girls. Anandi was up against the redoubtable Dadisa who was dead against the girl educating herself. PL LET US REMEMBER that Anandi was far superior to Jagya in studies. She topped without going to school and helped J with his homework after doing household work. She burnt her books only to keep peace in the family. She took a bullet for her husband and desite this DS got her grandson married off to another girl.

During the entire five years she was away at her parents, jagya secretly watched her grow up and was lusting after her. When she came home, he could not keep his hands off her. He had a long honeymoon with her. Remember he took her to Bombay and made her wear salwar kurtas? Anandi agreed to all his demands, and was prepared to mould her tastes to suit his tastes. She stood up for him against the family and ensured that he was able to study medicine. What did she get for all that? Insults and rejection. How did his beautiful, super bright beendni suddenly become an illiterate ganwar?

And please don't call Anandi a door mat. She studied on her own and topped the board in class ten. And what did Jagya, her good friend, do? He was so intolerant of her fame and success that he burnt up in jealousy -- and instigated DS to go against Anandi and stop her from studying further. Now he turns around and tells her she was just his good friend? That she is illiterate? Who made her illiterate? Why did he have such a long honeymoon with an illiterate friend? Why did he not think then that child marriage was wrong?

As for Gauri, despite what happened to her, she educated herself -- thanks only to Bhairon and Bade Papa. Despite this, it beats me that she doesn't even call her parents and bade papa. Years ago, when I set out to live on my own, my parents used to be on the phone constantly, asking to know how I lived, where I lived, if ate properly, how I coped at work etc. It is inconceivable that any parents will not call their child and have a daily conversation with her in this cell phone age. It is inconceivable that any girl will not tell her parents she has been hospitalised with typhoid. How the hell did G manage to hide where she is living, and all other things that happened to her, from her parents? It seems she is a consummate liar too -- good jodi I must say!. And all this despite being aware that bade papa disapproved of J. And where did bade papa disappear? I presume he is paying for Gauri's studies and rent. So how come he does not ask her where she is living? And how come he does not pursue Jagaya to know the truth about his dear Gauri's love interest?

Please let us be more balanced in our criticisms. It is not easy for a girl in Anandi's rural situation to dump everyone and say I will do what I want -- much as that would make a wonderful story. And much as I hope that is what happens.

Bashing of Anandi to me seems more like bashing of Pratyusha; since some of the members are still unable to accept her as the grown up Anandi. I still remember one of these members saying that bring the little Anandi(Avika) back and i'll start rooting for JAAN. Hypocrisy at it's best.

And as far as Anandi is concerned i have time and again said that it is She and Gauri who are the sufferers. But Gauri too at times seems to be fishy. I mean how on earth can a girl who is so traditional in her values will agree to live in. Her parents never call her. They never ask her where she is and how she is doing? Bade Papa disappeared suddenly. And i am just amused as to how can a girl from such a rural background can agree to live in with a guy. It would have seemed more realistic had she been showed as an urban girl. And ofcourse i won't say much about this track else I not being a "broad-minded" will be thrown on my face. Actually this thinking of some of the immature people of India is what baffles me; Anything western is good. And most of them rush after the western tag. I mean we too have a rich culture and is it not our responsibilty to preserve it. No, why should we? We should become "BROAD MINDED". If this is Broad-mindedness then thank god that i am not broad minded. I have been raised up in a metropolitan city and i too have stayed away from my family for like 5-6 years in Delhi but still i couldn't become "Broad-Minded". It's very easy to adapt to the western culture and if someone finds fault in that then he/she is not "broad-minded". Definition of Broad mindedness has changed over the years and how can u expect a man from a village to accept this so called "broad-minded" relationship when this thing doesnot goes down well with the urban people.

And yes i am reading those staements "stand up for urself stop crying" and all, i would love to know what if suddenly their husbands come and say i've found a more suitable and better match for myself and you go now. What will be there instant reaction? The first reaction is of hurt and the person is bound to cry. Especially when she has sacrificed so much for a person. Dont expect her to just straight away start planning for herself. And yes no saying that Anandi's case is that of Child marriage and all. please! For Anadi and Jagya this marriage was valid and Jagya accepted her in his full senses. If he found her a gawar and then why did he consummate the marriage?

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vidyasu1

@vidyasu1

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Posted: 14 years ago

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agree with cutie. I have no problems with live-in relationships. but i don't see why that becomes a measure of your broad-mindedness. Broad-mindedness is when you support a girl brought up in the village to study and become self-reliant. On this front, Jagya showed how small-minded he was: he just could not accept that his wife was so intelligent. So by subterfuge, through DS, he got Anandi to end her studies -- while slimily supporting his girl friend's career prusuits. And then he throws the fact that Anandi is illiterate at her face. This is skullduggery of the worst kind: Deliberate suppression of gender rights. And that stupid Gauri thinks he is very progressive and supportive. Am sorry I cannot find a relationship where one person (both in fact) is so deceitful cute. Forget everything else J's shifty eyes should tell you something is seriously wrong. And when G discovers his truth with what face will she dump him: after all she lied to her parents too just to be with J. There are girls hostels galore in mumbai, which also has a tradition of working girls together renting apartments. Let Gauri say she wants to live with J instead of making all sorts of excuses. I would have said bravo, if she had said I want to live with you.

I for one will not be unhappy if G suffers because of her stupidity. And why is her stupidity not an issue?

Also look at the CVs == they are justifying child marriage by showing Gauri-Jagya relationship. The reason J was able to put sindoor on G is because she was married to him. Why could he not find any other girl except the child bride he was married to? This is a symbolic justification of child marriage: meaning they fell in love because they were destined to.

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