Originally posted by: divmath
@Neha - OMG ! why do you think you will be jailed in a golden cage??? Marriage is very beautiful..believe me and please dont go by these tv serials..I can vouch for it that its no where near what they show in these shows...I can say from my personal experience...in laws now a days are very open minded and friendly...if your partner supports you and is by your side and if you build a friendly rapport with your in laws everything falls into place...I am sorry to hear that you have seen BV like situations in your life...but you dont have to dread getting married ! I know it can be a different ball game altogether..considering you will start a new life in a new house away from you near and dear ones...but it wont take long before you start accepting your new family and start feeling a part of that family...you dont need to be a sacrificial lamb for that (as they show in these dumb serials)..a little bit of adjustment and friendly attitude is all it takes, of course it has to be reciprocated from the other end as well...thats when relationships turn into life long bonds...baaki agle 6 janam baad mein dekh lena hahahah....thats what I meant by live life as it comes..enjoy your present ! kal kya hoga patha nahin hotha..tho 7 janam mein kya hoga kaise patha kare? 😆 😆
👏👏 Hear Hear!!! Well said.
Our discussions are based on what we are seeing which is for the most part exaggerated for impact. It is not always done in the proper way or with a certain degree of sensitivity and reality but that is par for the course when one decides to watch TV.
My feeling would be take the good things from the serial and learn from the negatives how not to handle similar situations should something like that resemble one's own household.😊
Edited by groucho - 14 years ago