Sugna - Problem child???

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I sometimes wonder why for most of the issues in BV the root cause is Sugna..Firstly she became pregnant before Gauna..and then when asked to abort, she brought about this "Pratap ki aakhri nishani" drama not even thinking once about the childs future, leave alone her own...Then she stupidly blurts out about her pregnancy to Shyam..It is good that Shyam is a nice guy but had she done the same with maybe not such a nice guy, things would have been worse...
Above all, now that Shyam is being such a sweetheart and is ready to marry her, that too with his parents coming and asking for Sugna's hand, she is trying to be pricey and sati savitri..as "Meri Pratap .." and blah blah blah....
God knows why she is such a stubborn, stupid, crazy girl...maybe she has been pampered too much...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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primarily because she is quiet young and uneducated....has always led a sheltered life where the biggest problem she has encountered is dadisa's scolding. as someone suggested both shyam and suguna should be left alone to fend for themselves. life wud then teach them some lessons.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I also think its the writers (Or whoever is responsible for shaping up a roles) fault.
All children in this serial are either too mature and wise beyond their yeras (Gehna) OR stoopid (anandi and suguna)
Suguna, takes the cake though ... always in the wrong place at the wrong time. Make mistakes ... no blunders ... and still has the guts to scream and yell and cry and threaten. its unbeleivble how the writers are showing her character now!
she was a sweet, loving, a little spoilt (maybe) girl. She was also mature enough to fall in love with her husband and be with him. She was also intelligent (adviced anadi a number of times to aviod situations). She was goodness personified. She was not shown as a strong stubborn girl ... or she would have had her gauna long before schedule.
Then how come life's circumstances made her into such a immature, bratty kid with so much ATTITUDE. I don't feel any pity for her.
I also HATE this getting-Suguna-married-will-fix-everything track. It is predictably, forced wedding, not accepting husband, then realizing is is good as gold and then repenting! how boring ...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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She is just behaving as though she is hard to get. Silly woman, what other choices does she have? I would respect Shyam to the core as he is an excellent man...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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its difficult for a young, uneducated (may be literate but not educated in the the true sense of the word) to understand and comprehend the true meaning and responsibilities of life..thats the aim of the show ...young children dont have the foresight or the maturity to understand the harsh realities of life. Gehna has come from a poor household and has matured before her age..however thats not the case with sugna. Anandi is a kid and thats what the show is all about the psyche of balika vadhu!!! so sugna is actually doing a good job
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Posted: 16 years ago
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She has trust issues, and can't believe that humans can be as good as shayam. Maybe she is worried that shayam will leave like pratap. who knows!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinuji2004

its difficult for a young, uneducated (may be literate but not educated in the the true sense of the word) to understand and comprehend the true meaning and responsibilities of life..thats the aim of the show ...young children dont have the foresight or the maturity to understand the harsh realities of life. Gehna has come from a poor household and has matured before her age..however thats not the case with sugna. Anandi is a kid and thats what the show is all about the psyche of balika vadhu!!! so sugna is actually doing a good job

I would say sugna is just being the most selfish person in this world.. and deserves a big slap from her parents.. She is not at all immature or inocent..she is 18 years old and pregnant..
And she always cries in front of god that because of her, whole family is suffering...that means she knows that she is the cause of all problems.. But the thing is she wants everybody to accept her as she is..and doesnt want to compormise in any damn thing... I really hate her more and more day by day...🤢
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think that the creatives wanna delay the marriage somehow.
See, she wasn't this stubborn before. Just a few episodes ago, they showed sugna repenting and felling sorry that she caused all the problems to the family n noone in the family is happy anymore just cuz of her doings.Now that the whole family thinks that everything is gonna b solved with this marriage she isn't thinking at all ! Wht happened now? Does she not want the family to b happy again ? I think they r contradicting the character sketch itself. And whts up with blackmailing her mom? Seriously they have been supporting her a lot (may b not dadisa) and she is just not thinking from the perspective of the family [:S]


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinuji2004

its difficult for a young, uneducated (may be literate but not educated in the the true sense of the word) to understand and comprehend the true meaning and responsibilities of life..thats the aim of the show ...young children dont have the foresight or the maturity to understand the harsh realities of life. Gehna has come from a poor household and has matured before her age..however thats not the case with sugna. Anandi is a kid and thats what the show is all about the psyche of balika vadhu!!! so sugna is actually doing a good job

Please stop calling Anandi a "child". First of all this kid is atleast 11 or 12(she got her period so she is definately not 8yrs old) . But her IQ and talking is like an 8yr old. If Gehna was from a poor household and there for mature ... Anandi should also be mature as she is also not from a "rich" household according to the story line. Also, any kids will adapt to her surroiding and behave accordingly. She as been scoled by dadisa every episode and she still asks stoopid questions and gapes at everyone when yelled at!
Also, is marriage and answer to all the woes ? Isn't getting an education, being financially independent, confident etc a part of a Human being's development? be it man or women, widow or not!
I love this serial and was so Happy when Suguna started school! Why could they not show that she went on to complete her education. In the process discovered herself and got over Pratap and healed from the trauma in a natural way ( like most of the young widows). Then maybe Shyam came in. This would have been a little more realistic ( which is what the serial was for some of us). what they are showing now is filmy romance type of drama and off late I am not able to stand this Suguna drama anymore. Yes this girl emotes and cries very well ... but that does not mean EVERY episode she must do it.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Sugna has had the biggest shock of her life! Its not even been an year since she got widowed. She is merely 18 and doesnt know why life is treating her this way...Its easy for everyone to condemn why she is being difficult but she has been dealt a rough hand ...she is resisting everything because she cant see logic, she cant see anything except her own fear....she is like a bird who has fallen down from mid flight and her wings clipped...as far as anandi is concerned having periods doesnt guaranttee emotional maturity. She is a kid and she behaves that way..if all women married young and got matured and sensible quickly there would not have been a balika vadhu! Its all about the innocence of childhood taken away and the grim realities of life thrust on shoulders which are too young to handle them..

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