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Posted: 16 years ago
#11
Dear Ladoo again! :-)

The emotional attachment to a child comes when you have some feeling for the man that you have had sex with. In this case, Gehna has only animosity, no love is shared between the two.

I am also a mother of two and I can assure you no one in the right mind would say they are anti-life. I kind of don't approve of the word people who are against the abortion use, it is as if they are pro-life and every one who is for the rights of woman are against life in general....I am against indiscriminate sex outside marriage and young kids getting pregnant and aborting indiscriminately. I hope most people are like me. But when a girl/woman becomes pregnant, and if she does not have the support system, she is abused by her family, she is not in a mental state to care for the baby and carry the baby for nine months, a woman should have the right to have the baby aborted without feeling guilty and or being branded emotionless.

I agree with lovablewinz - the emotional state of Gehna is very fragile, I don't think she is in a state to bond or think about the baby....she has this enormous hatred for dadi-sa and she feels that she has been given a death sentence...so her not showing emotion is plausible.

-- S

Edited by Sheena_Row - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#12
haan is baat mein to mai Jamuna ko hi support karunga.

jamuna jaanti thi ki aise jeene se to achcha hai mar jana jahan par kya guarantee hai ki ladka hi ho?

Jamuna ka death decision hi sahi tha varna masa aur basant to us par zulm karte he jaate jaise ki sumitra par.

for Gehna i think she shud give birth to child.
agar abortion ho bhi gaya to kaun si khushi mil jaayegi use????

phir masa aur basant .....aur ab to jamuna ki tarah physical torture bhi....

jo ho gaya use badla to nahi jaa sakta.haan agar Gehna bhi Champa ki tarah bhaag jaaye...to ...

par abortion ke baad kya wo sukhi reh sakti hai???
aise bhi phasi aur waise bhi....

thats all i can say in thistopic but an interesting question!!!!😊😊


i agree that she shud give birth to child chaahe ladka ho ya ladki ya uski death ho jaaye.
kyunki jeene ke baad bhi Gehna samaj aur ghar ko akele badal nahi paayegi.

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Posted: 16 years ago
#13
This is like encouraging suicides.. I mean just because she will be unhappy when she aborts a child does not mean she should sacrifice her own life.. too much importance is attached to the woman's virture in sacrificing for others in our country.. its high time in some matters we live for ourselves... Lets always try to put ourselves in others situation before we can decide...

Originally posted by: flute

haan is baat mein to mai Jamuna ko hi support karunga.

jamuna jaanti thi ki aise jeene se to achcha hai mar jana jahan par kya guarantee hai ki ladka hi ho?

Jamuna ka death decision hi sahi tha varna masa aur basant to us par zulm karte he jaate jaise ki sumitra par.

for Gehna i think she shud give birth to child.
agar abortion ho bhi gaya to kaun si khushi mil jaayegi use????

phir masa aur basant .....aur ab to jamuna ki tarah physical torture bhi....

jo ho gaya use badla to nahi jaa sakta.haan agar Gehna bhi Champa ki tarah bhaag jaaye...to ...

par abortion ke baad kya wo sukhi reh sakti hai???
aise bhi phasi aur waise bhi....

thats all i can say in thistopic but an interesting question!!!!😊😊


i agree that she shud give birth to child chaahe ladka ho ya ladki ya uski death ho jaaye.
kyunki jeene ke baad bhi Gehna samaj aur ghar ko akele badal nahi paayegi.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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What nonsense!!! Poor Gehna she might die if she tries to have the child and if Maasa and Basant persist in Gehna continuing her pregnancy then the child may be still born or both the mother and child's lives may be at stake where in the foetus may be dead in the mother's womb and Mother may die too on account of that. I think we should understand the complexity of the situation before criticizing Gehna.

The doctor clearly said that her body does not have the capability just yet to have the child and for the pregnancy. Which certainly means a lot.... How foolish can Basant be, he already lost his first wife on account of that. Maasa, when will she learn????
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I do not believe u understand the complexity of the situation. In this case it looks more like the foetus will die in the mother's womb which will in turn poison the mother's body....

Originally posted by: flute

haan is baat mein to mai Jamuna ko hi support karunga.

jamuna jaanti thi ki aise jeene se to achcha hai mar jana jahan par kya guarantee hai ki ladka hi ho?

Jamuna ka death decision hi sahi tha varna masa aur basant to us par zulm karte he jaate jaise ki sumitra par.

for Gehna i think she shud give birth to child.
agar abortion ho bhi gaya to kaun si khushi mil jaayegi use????

phir masa aur basant .....aur ab to jamuna ki tarah physical torture bhi....

jo ho gaya use badla to nahi jaa sakta.haan agar Gehna bhi Champa ki tarah bhaag jaaye...to ...

par abortion ke baad kya wo sukhi reh sakti hai???
aise bhi phasi aur waise bhi....

thats all i can say in thistopic but an interesting question!!!!😊😊


i agree that she shud give birth to child chaahe ladka ho ya ladki ya uski death ho jaaye.
kyunki jeene ke baad bhi Gehna samaj aur ghar ko akele badal nahi paayegi.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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arre kaise bhool gaye ki Gehna ne khud hi kaha tha ki wo ye ghar chod kar nahi jaayegi.

agar jaayegi to uski arthi hi jaayegi...

to bas use apna vachan poora karna chahiye.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well I think the problem is that she will die if she doesn't abort the child b/c she is too young!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: flute

arre kaise bhool gaye ki Gehna ne khud hi kaha tha ki wo ye ghar chod kar nahi jaayegi.

agar jaayegi to uski arthi hi jaayegi...

to bas use apna vachan poora karna chahiye.



Wah Wah!! 👏

So you want to see her dead because she said that if she goes only her corpse or body will go!! You are very kind to Gehna....you are so kind to her that you want a fully alive 18 year old to die to give birth to a fetus that didn't even taken shape that might one day be a chiraag of the family!! 👏

Extremely good logic! Now my question is are you a friend of Dadi-sa or Basanth?
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-- S
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheena_Row



Wah Wah!! 👏

So you want to see her dead because she said that if she goes only her corpse or body will go!! You are very kind to Gehna....you are so kind to her that you want a fully alive 18 year old to die to give birth to a fetus that didn't even taken shape that might one day be a chiraag of the family!! 👏

Extremely good logic! Now my question is are you a friend of Dadi-sa or Basanth?
👎🏼
-- S

Hahaha, Sheena ..that made me laugh! but okay.. giggles aside..i agree with you.. im sorry "flute" but that is a very narrow minded way of thinking. .we dont mean to be mean here..but that is not reason enough for gehna to sacrifice her life. women make way too many sacrifices in our country..and she is 18.. "jeeta -jagtha insaan" like i said before...and i actually wanted to change my earlier post..i am pro-choice.. she has the RIGHT to abort the baby is her life is in danger. Basant and Dadi-sa cannot be so selfish just so they can have a Vansh! and the fact that Basant would bring her parents in to talk it over with them just proves how selfish he is. Basant has simply grown up as "mama's boy" and nothing else..otherwise he would have the sense to see, after what happened to his earlier wife, that the right decision to make is to abort this child. aur gehna ne jab kaha tha ki voh us ghar ko kabhi bhi chod ke nahi jayegi, usee thodi na pata tha ki uske zindagi main aisa bhi mod ayega? we change with the situations on our lives..and gehna is right where she stands
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i don't think gehna is dumb,she is just 18 yrs old and wen dr. saya that she is nt old enogh to carry a pregnncy, its right.....its dadi sa and basant who r actin dumb

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