Originally posted by: tirchinazar
He was warned multiple times by his friends to come clear about his past with Priya. Even Vedika had tried telling him multiple times, he didn't. However, I still blame him based on his attitude during the birthday kaand. It was very creepy. Remember, we all were annoyed with him those days
That's why I said na he is holding onto his past too tight.
See the thing is he is scared to tell Priya for two reasons.
1. Priya naraz hoke chord na de ise. She already told him she will back out of this marriage if ever need be.
2. No matter how unimportant vedika is to him, he has serious abandonment issues. With all the losses he has had as a child he cannot bear to lose any other person in his life and by telling priya everything, this can open up that possibility. Priya could ask him to let go of vedika for life and that would mean killing a relationship with his own hand. And he is not good with death ( literal or metaphorical)
So this transformation is for that only. For him to realise that it's ok to let go of those relationships which doesn't add beauty to your life but only create misunderstandings and problems. And he will learn it the hard way. He will have to choose between his happiness with Priya and his memories with vedika that he promised he will always cherish. He will learn that he needs to live in the present only. He cannot expect his past and present to go hand in hand. He has a upbringing where he was taught to take everything and everyone together, and he was trying to do that. But that's just not possible everytime.
Vedika is first of such relationships.
And i also have a feeling that, his attitude will change with his family even. When Akshay will be accused of kangan kand and shubham will yell on priya, ram will be asking shubham to apologise to Priya which he has never done before. Ram is the one who always apologizes on his family's behalf but for the first time he will be commanding for an apology. Shocking nandini.
After holi nandini will start getting desperate seeing how emotionally independent he is becoming from nandini and her kids.
That emotional independency will be the next step.