Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #13 - Page 55

More than negativity this wierd filmy poetic positivity is so irritating. More than I cringe on those negative rants I cringe on those positive kuch bhi! Like how can you be so delusional. It's just too evident that the makers cares for nothing! Not to keep the truth of the character, continuity, consistency, nothing! This kind of positivity looks like you are lying to yourself and gaslighting others 😭

Enjoy: Before I go to sleep, this came up.

https://twitter.com/theishita/status/1498513487278252033?s=21

Upar dekh:

I think missed many here.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

He body language showed he knows he is guilty for the day’s lie as well as going into his ex’s room like a dumb belle when Akki talked to him. Then why do all this at all is my question. If the CVs want to show him moving around both women similarly, then show him as a morally flawed man, not as the righteous and good man he is shown on the show. No good men in their senses will do this. Any sensible man would politely tell his ex to stay within limit and boundaries. He has to be more aware that he is dealing with his wife who is emotionally damaged and won’t take a second to leave him if she sense anything going behind her back. Here I see nothing of that sort making me think he wants best of both worlds.🤣 The viewers know that he loves his wife, she is his top priority and will never cheat her, but she doesn’t know that yet. Tomorrow he will get more of FDs love when he volunteers to buy apartment for his ex. He sounds so stupid who no one has ever seen or heard.🤣 Priya is on a different level trying to hide murder attempt and trying to extract truth from Ram. Sounds unbelievable! What if Ram gets killed while she’s hiding truth!

I agree they are wrong. No doubt in that.

I'm not going to even touch the murder attempt drama bcz it's bonkers on another level.

But ram not telling vedika off directly has something to do with vedika being his childhood friend I think.

You know i have this theory that vedika was always in Ram's life, his other friends came later on maybe in college but vedika has always been in his life so he doesn't let anyone speak bad of her, she is like shivina to him but he took his feelings for Vedika in different way when younger and now slowly slowly he is starting to see that. Now he gets a little uncomfortable around her but still he is not at a stage where he can clearly cut her off completely because she has been part of Kapoor's longer than his siblings.

Am I making any sense??

Originally posted by: Doodle

Enjoy: Before I go to sleep, this came up.

https://twitter.com/theishita/status/1498513487278252033?s=21

Ram is gonna swoon.

Ye to ekdm oxytocin pe high ho jayga😆

Priya to Khiladi nikli🤣 matlab she knows ram has feelings for her tabhi to vo ye sab karke sach niklvana chahty hai😆

Agr ke ander feelings nhi hoty to it would have not worked, and priya ne I think vo ILY sun liya tha 😳

Socha nhi tha ki priya player niklegi☺️☺️

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

Forget about ram and his attraction, these are spheres that are outside herself... As far as we have seen, Pri will sense things from Ram, even when unsaid... She is highly observant like that😆

But she doesn't sense herselfshe cuts her hurt self to not surface, and doesn't deal with the fact someone hurt her... she is self respecting ,yes! But not self mattered, that word doesn't exist, but let me explain...( As I I have made a post on it in psychological aspect of this previously)

She asserts constantly that she doesn't need anyone, veils her pain, and says she is fine... These things are symptoms of emotional trauma in childhood . You can be hurt but you can be fine ... She doesn't let the first part enter in her head while dealing with people and doesn't hold them responsible to it, she lets go multiple times, specially if 1.it's about herself, while being stern if 2.it is about the people who are dependant on her...

In the first case she just thinks that she should just handle herself better and does all things all by herself, just to avoid facing the fact that she has been hurt by the person she trusts..

While in the second case she can lose herself as well to stand up for what is right...

She is not healed in that aspect. Just like ram. But his defense is different from priyas. (For sometime later)

Now knowing that at surface, that is acknowledgement of a problem in self , is the first step to making amends and actually allowing herself to trust in being vulnerable , that she can be hurt , but she knows how to engage with that and actually heal and be fine with it, despite it.❤️

This is her charecter trait , that needs evolution... And it will be reflected in her relationship sphere, romantic or otherwise.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ True.

I made this post few days ago in one of oye_nakhrewali's topic.

Well I think both ram and priya have abandonment issues but they just dealt with it differently. As ram said in one of the episodes earlier every girl looks up to their father and learn about men through them.

See abandonment issues have different signs in people

Ram shows signs like:

1)always wanting to please others (being a “people pleaser”)

2)giving too much in relationships

3)codependency

4) need for continual reassurance that others love them and will stay with them

5)persisting with unhealthy relationships( like with vedika)

Whereas priya shows sign like:

1)inability to trust others easily

2)pushing others away to avoid rejection

3)feeling insecure in partnerships and friendships( she keeping thinking that why would anyone pay special attention to her because she has nothing special to offer others)

Priya's issues are not as severe, strong and clear as Ram's because she had an actual family to provide love who doesn't manipulate her but she has issues related to her father, because like any other child she did loved Mahendra at some point and he broke her heart.

It's my opinion everyone is entitled to their own thoughts with a fictional character but to me I have always seen both of them dealing with their own psychological issues with different approach. And that's what make them more special to me.

Originally posted by: Doodle

Enjoy: Before I go to sleep, this came up.

https://twitter.com/theishita/status/1498513487278252033?s=21

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ True.

I made this post few days ago in one of oye_nakhrewali's topic.

Well I think both ram and priya have abandonment issues but they just dealt with it differently. As ram said in one of the episodes earlier every girl looks up to their father and learn about men through them.

See abandonment issues have different signs in people

Ram shows signs like:

1)always wanting to please others (being a “people pleaser”)

2)giving too much in relationships

3)codependency

4) need for continual reassurance that others love them and will stay with them

5)persisting with unhealthy relationships( like with vedika)

Whereas priya shows sign like:

1)inability to trust others easily

2)pushing others away to avoid rejection

3)feeling insecure in partnerships and friendships( she keeping thinking that why would anyone pay special attention to her because she has nothing special to offer others)

Priya's issues are not as severe, strong and clear as Ram's because she had an actual family to provide love who doesn't manipulate her but she has issues related to her father, because like any other child she did loved Mahendra at some point and he broke her heart.

It's my opinion everyone is entitled to their own thoughts with a fictional character but to me I have always seen both of them dealing with their own psychological issues with different approach. And that's what make them more special to me.

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

I will be banned from writing after reading my errors wali ghatiya story😳

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Ram is gonna swoon.

Ye to ekdm oxytocin pe high ho jayga😆

Priya to Khiladi nikli🤣 matlab she knows ram has feelings for her tabhi to vo ye sab karke sach niklvana chahty hai😆

Agr ke ander feelings nhi hoty to it would have not worked, and priya ne I think vo ILY sun liya tha 😳

Socha nhi tha ki priya player niklegi☺️☺️

Ram will be like - "I'll lie if this is what I am gonna get". 😆😆😆