Originally posted by: oye_nakhrewaali
I haven't read or watched FSOG, so can't comment on the comparison, but I think no one realizes that Pri doesn't have abandonment issues, reason why even a random letter could rile her up😅
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Well I think both ram and priya have abandonment issues but they just dealt with it differently. As ram said in one of the episodes earlier every girl looks up to their father and learn about men through them.
See abandonment issues have different signs in people
Ram shows signs like:
1)always wanting to please others (being a “people pleaser”)
2)giving too much in relationships
3)codependency
4) need for continual reassurance that others love them and will stay with them
5)persisting with unhealthy relationships( like with vedika)
Whereas priya shows sign like:
1)inability to trust others easily
2)pushing others away to avoid rejection
3)feeling insecure in partnerships and friendships( she keeping thinking that why would anyone pay special attention to her because she has nothing special to offer others)
Priya's issues are not as severe, strong and clear as Ram's because she had an actual family to provide love who doesn't manipulate her but she has issues related to her father, because like any other child she did loved Mahendra at some point and he broke her heart.
It's my opinion everyone is entitled to their own thoughts with a fictional character but to me I have always seen both of them dealing with their own psychological issues with different approach. And that's what make them more special to me.