Priya ka haq?!

I remember, in a sequence just after the wedding, Priya was having an internal battle and was so frustrated to question Ram about his elopement from the marriage. On getting a prompt from Ram, she blurted something along the lines that since it's the marriage of convenience, she doesn't even have the right to ask him anything. And then, Ram was like go ahead, ask me whatever you want to.

Is it going to be the same between the two? Atleast for time being until they are somewhat on talking and sharing basis? It's going to create more rift between them.

Priya thinking she doesn't have any right over Ram (despite the marriage), not even to ask him anything. And there Ram being oblivious to her internal battles and not understanding things bothering her?

Ofcourse, this is temporary till they get to know each other some more. But it still bothers me.

Thoughts, anyone?

It will take a lot of time for Priya to exercise her rights as a wife on Ram. That scene where she blurted out, that she can't even question his decision of walking out of mandap, clearly showed us the inner conflicts she is suffering from.

Also yesterday when Ram said, he is still in love with someone and immediately apologized , Priya told him to not feel guilty about it. At this point, she may not mind it, but surely she will silently suffer in future if she is the first one to fall in love, and firsthand witnesses Ram not being able to move on from Vedu. Neither, will she be able to question Ram, because she believes she does not have that rights, nor will she be able to take it lightly. Silent suffering seems inevitable. It would be better if Ram falls in love first.

At this point, Priya may only interfere on matters concerning his health and dependent lifestyle, but won't try to enter his inner circle/personal space and question his actions .....

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

It will take a lot of time for Priya to exercise her rights as a wife on Ram. That scene where she blurted out, that she can't even question his decision of walking out of mandap, clearly showed us the inner conflicts she is suffering from.

Also yesterday when Ram said, he is still in love with someone and immediately apologized , Priya told him to not feel guilty about it. At this point, she may not mind it, but surely she will silently suffer in future if she is the first one to fall in love, and firsthand witnesses Ram not being able to move on from Vedu. Neither, will she be able to question Ram, because she believes she does not have that rights, nor will she be able to take it lightly. Silent suffering seems inevitable. It would be better if Ram falls in love first.

At this point, Priya may only interfere on matters concerning his health and dependent lifestyle, but won't try to enter his inner circle/personal space and question his actions .....

Agree!

It's gonna be one hell of an emotional ride. Silent suffering is given. Priya would also be remembering time and again that Ram had said he won't be able to love again in the first meeting itself. So, it'll be like loving him is her problem and she can't expect the same from Ram.

Ram would definitely be shown confused about his feelings.

I definitely don't want Priya to keep other things (than love and feelings) to herself and conflicted in asking Ram, like asking why he left her at Mandap. Atleast she should feel comfortable enough to talk like a friend.

Whatever the reasons for the marriage & whatever the equation between the couple, if one of them is still willingly in love outside the marriage and wants to keep it that way, that is an emotional extra-marital affair and it is an insult to both the institution and the spouse.

It is extremly ungentlemanly of Ram to (unintentionally) flaunt this in front of Priya. If not her feelings it will definitely hurt the spouse’s dignity.

Originally posted by: Bana

Whatever the reasons for the marriage & whatever the equation between the couple, if one of them is still willingly in love outside the marriage and wants to keep it that way, that is an emotional extra-marital affair and it is an insult to both the institution and the spouse.

It is extremly ungentlemanly of Ram to (unintentionally) flaunt this in front of Priya. If not her feelings it will definitely hurt the spouse’s dignity.

Uhm what?

It would have been an extra marital affair IF Ram had hidden the whole scenario from Priya. He didn't. He was clear from day one that this is what it is going to be, and this is how he is going to act.

Priya isn't a child to not know the consequences of entering a loveless marriage. She knew. She accepted it.

They both are clear that this isn't a real marriage for them. It's just a living arrangement so that everyone around them can be happy. So what institution are you even talking about? They both have settled for companionship only.

Neither is Ram going and shaking up with Vedika somewhere. Vedika has moved on and Ram is just silently pining away for her. It is just unwillingness to not move on at best from Ram.

He has been the more transparent one in the relationship. He even asked her if she wanted to know who the ex-lover was. It was Priya who refused. Ram has told Priya that ex-lover left.

Priya hasn't opened up about Neeraj yet. And understandably so. They don't share that equation yet.

I am very confused about Ram's equation with Vedika and vice versa. He wants to hold on to Vedika's memories and still remember their good times says that in the presence of Priya( this was sounding very hurtful from audience POV). Priya on the other hand has definitely moved on and doesn't love anybody now, but there is scope for that in future. What about Ram? He still hasn't moved on after so many years and i feel he is going to hurt Priya in future, if not now.

Ram was saying how Neeraj is still present in Priya's life as he is married to Matri. H e was pretty salty about it. What about him? Vedika is not in his family, but still present in his life clearly. So where is the scope of love in this marriage? Unless Ram realizes his love for Vedika was an infactuation and she never gave him any emotional support...

Originally posted by: docritu99

I remember, in a sequence just after the wedding, Priya was having an internal battle and was so frustrated to question Ram about his elopement from the marriage. On getting a prompt from Ram, she blurted something along the lines that since it's the marriage of convenience, she doesn't even have the right to ask him anything. And then, Ram was like go ahead, ask me whatever you want to.

Is it going to be the same between the two? Atleast for time being until they are somewhat on talking and sharing basis? It's going to create more rift between them.

Priya thinking she doesn't have any right over Ram (despite the marriage), not even to ask him anything. And there Ram being oblivious to her internal battles and not understanding things bothering her?

Ofcourse, this is temporary till they get to know each other some more. But it still bothers me.

Thoughts, anyone?

Originally posted by: Bana

Whatever the reasons for the marriage & whatever the equation between the couple, if one of them is still willingly in love outside the marriage and wants to keep it that way, that is an emotional extra-marital affair and it is an insult to both the institution and the spouse.

It is extremly ungentlemanly of Ram to (unintentionally) flaunt this in front of Priya. If not her feelings it will definitely hurt the spouse’s dignity.

Originally posted by: Bana

Whatever the reasons for the marriage & whatever the equation between the couple, if one of them is still willingly in love outside the marriage and wants to keep it that way, that is an emotional extra-marital affair and it is an insult to both the institution and the spouse.

It is extremly ungentlemanly of Ram to (unintentionally) flaunt this in front of Priya. If not her feelings it will definitely hurt the spouse’s dignity.

I think, it's just a harsh way of putting things across.

It would have been an insult had Ram hid the fact from Priya. He had been very transparent with his intentions and expectations from this marriage.

Partly, I agree. It's not a healthy thing in a relationship but then that relationship was again founded on sort of a compromise for the family.

My concern is Vedika's presence around Ram even after his marriage. Would love to see his changed equation with Vedu now that he's committed.

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

I second everything with this one.

It's wrong on Ram's part to physically try to pin around Vedu now that he's committed to Priya.

And I think that'll be where the tables would turn for them and their upcoming change in feelings and dynamics