Bade Achhe Lagte Hain 2 EDT #4 - Page 66

Priya is the only relatable sensible character in this show.

Ram kapoor is a colossal disappointment.

Today's episode when priya was telling off ram..I was nodding at every sentence because SHE WAS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.

Ram is a fool and has not even a sense of responsibility towards priya..priya ne toh gusse mein keh diya it's not a real marriage but from day 1..she has done everything for the marriage with all her heart..but rams retort saying shivina priya ki kuch nahi lagti was so insensitive.

And for heavens sake. Tone down this gullible man child portrayal of Ram..he is 38! And he is shown as a man who can be manipulated by his step mom,ex gf at every instance..its unbelievable that he has a successful business when he doesn't even have a spine.

And the needless drama from the moment the 2 marriages have been fixed..it just gets worse.everyone keeps plotting and planning in every episode without a break .Even s1 was never this dramatic till the generation leap.

Cvs should calm down and take a look at the mess they have made and sort it out before even the regularly watching viewers also stop watching. I have already decided to stop watching till things settle in the show and the drama stops.

Not really, only the step mom, her son and mamaji were plotting. There were no Ram's ex lover and her husband, were never such characters; there was no villanious Priya's step family who are also plotting. Almost all of it was light hearted with little drama till the first separation. That's what i meant.

Viji

I want to know why Ram's easily manipulated nature and gullible traits can judge him as how he became a successful businessman,how does it relate to his business & work

Ram is a emotional man infact highly emotional man and family is personal relationship while business is work

Ram being a successful businessman through his mind & not his emotional heart. Whatever he does in his business ventures & deals decisions areade through his mind. He has been manipulated for years w/o Priya in the picture and his friends knows that Ram his being used by his step🐍family but still he brought his business to the top

He designed his own farmhouse security system & he advise Priya abt 22% loan is not a good decision all this are made by his mind & not his heart

Ram being a successful businessman has nothing to do with him taking emotional decision for family. He is a successful business through his mind skills dedication & hardwork

Originally posted by: Mages

I want to know why Ram's easily manipulated nature and gullible traits can judge him as how he became a successful businessman,how does it relate to his business & work

Ram is a emotional man infact highly emotional man and family is personal relationship while business is work

Ram being a successful businessman through his mind & not his emotional heart. Whatever he does in his business ventures & deals decisions areade through his mind. He has been manipulated for years w/o Priya in the picture and his friends knows that Ram his being used by his step🐍family but still he brought his business to the top

He designed his own farmhouse security system & he advise Priya abt 22% loan is not a good decision all this are made by his mind & not his heart

Ram being a successful businessman has nothing to do with him taking emotional decision for family. He is a successful business through his mind skills dedication & hardwork

But yaar someone who applies his mind in business deals and has taken the business to new heights, can't be so easily manipulated in other instances of life na. Someone who is intelligent applies their mind in all aspects of life. Why should he let these people use him , and that too so blatantly? I would not mind if they would be doing this in a carefully planned, intricately plotted manner such that Ram never got a hunch of what they really want to do.. but they are doing all this so openly. Earlier I used to think he knows that the family is using him but is afraid to accept it , but now toh it seems like he has no clue about their intentions whatsoever. I get that Ram is emotional, and it's okay, but somewhere a line needs to be drawn so that he doesn't look stupid. And like I have always said, the makers go overboard with everything and in the same way they have just over-enhanced the gullible and emotional nature of Ram to the point that it is becoming difficult to believe the character.

Imo everything can be tolerable- ram bahu quietly listening to sautela taunts and shed tears, pri being pissed and between two homes, Nandini subhu shivi akki. They are part of story and it's drama.

But damn why the heck vedu is there? Is she actively trying to dore dalo ram? Can't she focus on her marriage why's she bothered if ram can't divorce pri or later it drags? This woman loves that he's pining away for her and couldn't handle he's moving on. 👎🏼 where is her husband he's least bothered about her. Her waltzing in with papers and ram almost signing them- nope. Someone needs to tell her it's a matter of family and she's just a friend.

Also amidst all this sid shivi drama bhi pending hai. I have this feeling akki will mu the two and himself break up the relationship and maybe shivi try to commit suicide so that this wedding happens. But have to say these two love eo so much. It's sweet. And love how she taunts her mom on middle class remarks 😂❤️

Originally posted by: YeojaNextDoor

But yaar someone who applies his mind in business deals and has taken the business to new heights, can't be so easily manipulated in other instances of life na. Someone who is intelligent applies their mind in all aspects of life. Why should he let these people use him , and that too so blatantly? I would not mind if they would be doing this in a carefully planned, intricately plotted manner such that Ram never got a hunch of what they really want to do.. but they are doing all this so openly. Earlier I used to think he knows that the family is using him but is afraid to accept it , but now toh it seems like he has no clue about their intentions whatsoever. I get that Ram is emotional, and it's okay, but somewhere a line needs to be drawn so that he doesn't look stupid. And like I have always said, the makers go overboard with everything and in the same way they have just over-enhanced the gullible and emotional nature of Ram to the point that it is becoming difficult to believe the character.

I get what you're saying - the fact that the country's #1 businessman continues to make such silly decisions is incredibly frustrating. However, Nandini and co have had many, many years to manipulate and basically gaslight him into thinking that he needs them in his life and for them to be in his life he has to do whatever they ask of him. I don't know how young Ram was when he lost his dad, but I'm assuming it might have been before he met his friends, so the damage was already done. They can all see how awful Ram's family is, even Shivi who I don't think takes advantage of him purposefully, she's just used to it because Ram has always given her anything she wants. In Ram's eyes, Nandini is a saint because she has had years to get him to believe that she is. As an audience, we know that Nandini is an incredibly toxic figure in Ram's life, but if I were to be part of this universe, I too would think Nandini could no wrong unless I happened to hear her monologuing in public.

I think that I'm probably reading too much into and the writers wanted to show that Ram is an incredibly emotional human being, but in my absolutely insane brain, it makes sense for Ram's character to be so devoted to his family. He absolutely knows that Shubham is a piece of trash and his "mama and mami" are a joke, but I think that Nandini is his weak point, not Shivi or Vedu because she knows exactly how to take advantage of him.

However, she could feel her grip slipping because of the Soods. Ram is getting a mother's love in the form of Meera, Priya's siblings all make a point to include him in whatever they may be doing and not just because they want something from him - they treat him like he's already family and that terrifies Nandini. Like, what if Ram realizes what families are actually supposed to be like? What will happen to me then? I think it's less about their status and more about the fact that the Soods, and evidently Priya in particular, can easily take Ram away from her.

Originally posted by: foreverlazy

I get what you're saying - the fact that the country's #1 businessman continues to make such silly decisions is incredibly frustrating. However, Nandini and co have had many, many years to manipulate and basically gaslight him into thinking that he needs them in his life and for them to be in his life he has to do whatever they ask of him. I don't know how young Ram was when he lost his dad, but I'm assuming it might have been before he met his friends, so the damage was already done. They can all see how awful Ram's family is, even Shivi who I don't think takes advantage of him purposefully, she's just used to it because Ram has always given her anything she wants. In Ram's eyes, Nandini is a saint because she has had years to get him to believe that she is. As an audience, we know that Nandini is an incredibly toxic figure in Ram's life, but if I were to be part of this universe, I too would think Nandini could no wrong unless I happened to hear her monologuing in public.

I think that I'm probably reading too much into and the writers wanted to show that Ram is an incredibly emotional human being, but in my absolutely insane brain, it makes sense for Ram's character to be so devoted to his family. He absolutely knows that Shubham is a piece of trash and his "mama and mami" are a joke, but I think that Nandini is his weak point, not Shivi or Vedu because she knows exactly how to take advantage of him.

However, she could feel her grip slipping because of the Soods. Ram is getting a mother's love in the form of Meera, Priya's siblings all make a point to include him in whatever they may be doing and not just because they want something from him - they treat him like he's already family and that terrifies Nandini. Like, what if Ram realizes what families are actually supposed to be like? What will happen to me then? I think it's less about their status and more about the fact that the Soods, and evidently Priya in particular, can easily take Ram away from her.

@green...With such toxic attitude and manipulative nature Priya will definitely take away Ram from them

You spoke my heart abt Ram & there is nothing more that i want to add nor can add👍🏼

Originally posted by: YeojaNextDoor

Yeah the drama is a bit too much . Instead of some light hearted scenes between the leads and the development of their love story, all we are getting is a huge bunch of people constantly trying to break off their marriage..and separate ShiKki. At this point it seems pretty illogical how Nandini had initially agreed at once to get Shivi married to her love (and hence Ram-Priya married) when they thought she was pregnant. Then toh she hadn't researched about the Sood family ! Par ab isko itni problem ho rhi hai

So many people against them feels really toxic and is giving off negative vibes.

And yeah, at the cost of making Ram a soft, good-natured, goofy man they are making him silly and stupid by making him a katpootli in the hands of his family and Vedu. CVs really don't know where to draw the line. A character can be kind, good and soft but still intelligent, smart and strong.. esp if he is a huge businessman like he is shown to be. Itna gullible hone se kaise chalega.. ??

agreed too much drama

what else to expect from an ekta show 🤪

i m not liking this week’s episode

vahi ghasita pita misunderstandings, drama, manipulation, blaming game 🙄🙄

i liked one scene in yesterday’s epi

it was that scene where PriRa were in the car and the radio plays KHNH music

and for the first time all Ram thinks about is Priya, not a single moment he thought about Vedu 🤣

Ram himself doesnt know he has started to move on from Vedu

I wish the way Ram realised about Subham’s true nature, he realises it soon for Vedika