Spineless family members

How come these people are even talking with a disgusting person like mahendra sood🤬?? Please ekta it's a request don't show this disgusting man doing the kanyadaan for the sake of society please don't show this wrong message 🙏🙏🙏. And this family members doing seva of this sick man😡. Doesn't priya's mother have some self respect🤢

Absolutely disgusting that they even let him in and believed his words within a second... How come man! Years of betrayal and bad blood between them is pushed aside within seconds? Like really?

I mean, it's a shame that he's even a father of those pretty girls... And who the hell is that Mami is... She's just worried about her son's marriage... 😡😡

Priya's mom should do the kanyadaan...

Originally posted by: EXOL

Priya's mom should do the kanyadaan...

I hv zero expectation fm Meera. She is the kind who will still be doing karva chauth every year.

My heart just broke into several pieces today !!

Had imagined that Mahendra Sood will try to do Kanyadan and Priya will bash him left , right and center and give that position only and only to Meera with some nice speech .

Yaha to kuch aur hi ho ho raha !!!

And Priya's mom was like papa ke liye cot lekar aao bachhoo . She pains me to various levels sometimes.

And ab to ghar bhi mama ji ka nikla 💔 . Don't know how Priya will be able to stand up for her self-respect amidst so much chaos.

They should have thrown him out of the house🤢 After telling all those disgusting things about Priya, he is coming to attend Priya's marriage, why didn't Meera throw him out? 😳

I am really disappointed after today's epi.

😔😔

This is actually way more common than you think. It has happened innumerable times in my family.

But to give you a more solid example, I was raised by a single mom with an absent father. My grandparents helped raising me and my Maama-Maami were pretty close growing up.

I went through the arranged marriage process(Inkid you not, I was Priya lite. At one point, my mom requested me to look out and find someone I liked. I told her I'll buy a condo and adopt andog instead 😆). There is a helluva lot of stigma involved with a fatherless daughter. The politer ones would decline nicely. The rude alliances would sometimes immediately put down the phone, or worse say mean things to my mom/grandparents.

My relatives, just like Priya's maami, kept pressurizing to bring my dad back for the period of the marriage. They convinced everyone in my family, including my mom, that I would never get married without my father present. My mom was willing to go as far as writing off a property to him so that he would show up for the stipulated period.

It took a few years- but finally when one of the alliances worked out- my inlaws were initially hellbent on trying to mediate between my mom and dad. But my mom and maama explained the entire situation to them.

Eventually it came down to me- I vehemently refused to be given away by my absentee father. I essentially told everyone, including my in laws, that they could bring my father in- but I would not show up. And this involved me facing a lot of pressure, scolding, lamenting from my relatives. Finally, they all agreed and I was married away rather peacefully.

The only sad part is my mom couldn't do my kanyadaan- that was the only part I could not convince everyone. My grandparents did my kanyadaan. But on somedays my mom really feels for it- she fought against the world, and brought me up, educated me, even sent me abroad for further studies- all without any monetary help from anyone(including her brother), but she did not have the right to give me away 😐

Sorry if it is TMI. But I just wanted to point out- this happens a lot. Most families and girls actually cave in and get their father during the wedding phase. I know a couple of families like that. It took out a lot of energy from me just to keep my father out.

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Exactly there's no written rule that only fathers can do kanyadaan👎🏼. Priya's mother should do the kanyadaan instead of spinelessly allowing her so called husband to that😡

Actually depends on the customs being followed- certain communities only allow couples to do kanyadaan- in which case single mother/fathers cannot do it.

But given that Ram's family is *ahem* progressive *ahem*, they can actually go with Priya's mom doing kanyadaan