Why is everyone treating Jahnvi as the villain?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know this is just a serial that doesn't exactly follow logic but I am appalled at some of the things that are shown in the name of drama/entertainment. The way Jahnavi has been treated when she comes back is just so demeaning. But then, I suppose BT is known for sending these subtle regressive messages demeaning women, and so this should not come as a surprise.

So here we have Karthik whose cheating and scheming has ruined several lives including Jahnvi's . However, now that he is in a coma after taking a bullet, suddenly everyone out there blames Jahnvi when she comes back like she is the sole reason for all their problems. This is inexplicable. She is the biggest VICTIM here, and they are blaming her instead ?! Priya appears to be better than the rest in that she at least begrudgingly acknowledges that Jahnvi needs to be with her kid. The rest have lost all sense of perspective.

First , Nuts is shown saying how Jahnvi snatched Karthik from her and she won't allow her to snatch her kid. Hello ?! Has she forgotten that her husband was the one who willingly cheated on her, duped the innocent Jahnvi by marrying and getting her pregnant, all the while knowing fully well what he was doing ? ( And what is with her strange obsession with her husband's illegitimate kid ? It is the most abnormal thing. Why can't she adopt a kid from an orphanage instead ?! That's probably material for another topic altogether)

Next Ram and Priya yell at Jahnvi for being irresponsible and disappearing after leaving the kid behind. But wait, didn't she leave the kid with its father, who incidentally refused to acknowledge it's existence in front of his family until she left it behind ? Why is it that only she is called 'irresponsible' ? Does the father have no responsibility towards the kid ? Didn't Ram- Priya earlier talk about how disturbed she must have been to leave the kid behind after seeing Karthik with Natasha ? So why this sudden volte face and the need to blame Jahnvi for everything when she is as much a victim as anyone else of Karthik's misdeeds ?

Finally the things Rishabh said to Jahnvi. He accused her of 'trapping Karthik' among other things. What is he talking about ? Who trapped whom ? And the others watch as spectators even as he makes false and demeaning accusations on her.

Does no one else find this wrong and just plain absurd ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The behaviour in yest epi towards janhvi is purely on the basis of leaving chotu like this nd ran away bcoz no mother does that nd if she did this one time whats the guarantee she will not do this again.. I m not saying she has no right on chotu bcoz legally she has but what she did was wrong thats why this behaviour from both ram nd priya..leaving rishabh bcoz he is anyways not behaving acc to situation..
I only want raya to not let affect their relation in all this mess..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said!
The human-beings in this serial have been taken over by zombies who seem to be remote-controlled by Ekta and her group. Humans who become endearing to us because we can anticipate what they are likely to feel or say have been replaced by incredible opposites.

It might be best to change the story altogether, from A- Z. I suggest sending them all off in Ram Kapoor's private plane which then has to have a forced landing in a desert island where they will all either have to learn to help each other in order to survive, or destroy each other completely.
End of story.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonMUM

Well said!
The human-beings in this serial have been taken over by zombies who seem to be remote-controlled by Ekta and her group. Humans who become endearing to us because we can anticipate what they are likely to feel or say have been replaced by incredible opposites.

It might be best to change the story altogether, from A- Z. I suggest sending them all off in Ram Kapoor's private plane which then has to have a forced landing in a desert island where they will all either have to learn to help each other in order to survive, or destroy each other completely.
End of story.


Ha ha, I love that idea. Start from scratch like they did in that serial Kutumb years ago...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: obelix1

I know this is just a serial that doesn't exactly follow logic but I am appalled at some of the things that are shown in the name of drama/entertainment. The way Jahnavi has been treated when she comes back is just so demeaning. But then, I suppose BT is known for sending these subtle regressive messages demeaning women, and so this should not come as a surprise.


So here we have Karthik whose cheating and scheming has ruined several lives including Jahnvi's . However, now that he is in a coma after taking a bullet, suddenly everyone out there blames Jahnvi when she comes back like she is the sole reason for all their problems. This is inexplicable. She is the biggest VICTIM here, and they are blaming her instead ?! Priya appears to be better than the rest in that she at least begrudgingly acknowledges that Jahnvi needs to be with her kid. The rest have lost all sense of perspective.

First , Nuts is shown saying how Jahnvi snatched Karthik from her and she won't allow her to snatch her kid. Hello ?! Has she forgotten that her husband was the one who willingly cheated on her, duped the innocent Jahnvi by marrying and getting her pregnant, all the while knowing fully well what he was doing ? ( And what is with her strange obsession with her husband's illegitimate kid ? It is the most abnormal thing. Why can't she adopt a kid from an orphanage instead ?! That's probably material for another topic altogether)

Next Ram and Priya yell at Jahnvi for being irresponsible and disappearing after leaving the kid behind. But wait, didn't she leave the kid with its father, who incidentally refused to acknowledge it's existence in front of his family until she left it behind ? Why is it that only she is called 'irresponsible' ? Does the father have no responsibility towards the kid ? Didn't Ram- Priya earlier talk about how disturbed she must have been to leave the kid behind after seeing Karthik with Natasha ? So why this sudden volte face and the need to blame Jahnvi for everything when she is as much a victim as anyone else of Karthik's misdeeds ?

Finally the things Rishabh said to Jahnvi. He accused her of 'trapping Karthik' among other things. What is he talking about ? Who trapped whom ? And the others watch as spectators even as he makes false and demeaning accusations on her.

Does no one else find this wrong and just plain absurd ?



Very good post
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Posted: 12 years ago
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honestly... they're reacting like a normal family... think about natasha. how would you feel if the woman your husband "married" came to live at your house and said she's not leaving until her husband tells her to. He point blank told her a couple weeks ago he loves natasha and won't do anything to hurt her. Now she's not gonna leave until her husband tells her to leave? Hello woman, have some self respect. Take your child and bounce, plus Karthik isn't her husband. According to Hindu Marriage Act, Hindus and cannot more than one wife. Jhanvi's equally a dumbass if youre gonna call the rest of them stupid.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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very well said...

i do think it is totally biased supporting nuts. jhanvi is right. she did not left the kid as orphan. she left the kid with his father. what is wrong if she left the kid to her dad. after all responsibility of being a parent is karthi;s too. jhanvi is cheated by karthik. the so called father is not ready to accept his own child in front of the family and wanted to keep them secret.

leave the humanitarian talks. jhanvi has no support and she is devastated so he left the kid. it is her baby what ever she do how come nuts have right on the baby. If jhanvi has a little support she would never leave her child and go and it is mere stupidity to think she may again leave the kid. I wonder where did the social reformers of BALH went wen nuts aborted. isnt that anti social. it is so sick if the right mother do not get justice..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hundal

honestly... they're reacting like a normal family... think about natasha. how would you feel if the woman your husband "married" came to live at your house and said she's not leaving until her husband tells her to. He point blank told her a couple weeks ago he loves natasha and won't do anything to hurt her. Now she's not gonna leave until her husband tells her to leave? Hello woman, have some self respect. Take your child and bounce, plus Karthik isn't her husband. According to Hindu Marriage Act, Hindus and cannot more than one wife. Jhanvi's equally a dumbass if youre gonna call the rest of them stupid.



hmm in that case karthik has to be in jail for the accident of jhanvi's brother, for marrying her saying he has no family and he is unmarried, and finally for cheating a innocent women. why should jhanvi leave her only own her baby to nuts. yes she is a dumbass to help RK and PRK in trouble. she should have left with blank check of ayesha,
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hundal

honestly... they're reacting like a normal family... think about natasha. how would you feel if the woman your husband "married" came to live at your house and said she's not leaving until her husband tells her to. He point blank told her a couple weeks ago he loves natasha and won't do anything to hurt her. Now she's not gonna leave until her husband tells her to leave? Hello woman, have some self respect. Take your child and bounce, plus Karthik isn't her husband. According to Hindu Marriage Act, Hindus and cannot more than one wife. Jhanvi's equally a dumbass if youre gonna call the rest of them stupid.


Um...what is being shown is anything but normal. What do you make out of Natasha getting obsessed over her husband's love child and acting like a maniac when Jahnavi arrives ?

About Jahnavi getting emotional and saying she will stay with Karthik - well Natasha was hell bent on punishing Karthik and did a U turn when he took a bullet. So , going by this logic, Jahnavi feels equally guilty now that she was harsh with him after seeing that Karthik is in a coma. Yeah, all of Karthik's sins are now forgiven and forgotten just because he is in a coma.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree
they shoudnt do it

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