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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ok.. After watching the episode couple more times and just to understand what made P say what she said made me think ..
Based on the episode we saw yesterday, we concluded that P never loved R and was never worth his love.. Yes, to a certain extent I agree.. But, we have not seen any positivity from R either.. So my question is what is that he wants?. We can see glimpses of Jealousy seeping slowly in him.. So can we say that he wants P back?? He will not take the first step towards reconciliation (I don't want him to either..) But based on how P's character is being played out by the Cv's, she will not take the first step to claim her hubby either (because she thinks that he no longer wants her back ) unless she gets assurance from R himself.. (I will not take he KC convo into consideration because it was not complete)... She has always maintained that she will go by what R decides.. So is it he turn of R to do something to initiate the fighting spirit in P? Or should it be through Vik or Neha?.
Guys, please don't make this into a P or R bashing (more of P bashing in this case) post.. We have had too many of that so far..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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it shud be vik
both ram n priya will not talk on this issue only vikram can tell the truth to priya
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I second u.per me ram now realy needs to clear his mind,so as to wat he wants exactly frm life.if he dusnt want pk back,den feeling jealous of rajat or having problem over sharma surname is pointless.if he wants pk back,den he needs to do smthng regarding ayesha.marriage is not a joke.if not emotionaly or physically but socially he is bonded with her.again i understand he needs time,but he should for once keep anger aside n see the real issues at hand.the hurt part may take years to lessen,or may be d lifetime,but he just cant go ahead in life vith 2 wives.its just nt done.he by far seems to be d most confused soul to me,n dis comes frm a ram fan.cvs redeem raya,plss.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Guys, please don't make this into a P or R bashing (more of P bashing in this case) post.. We have had too many of that so far.. i will try to remain neutral but for me it is more lacking form priya but will keep it straight to facts!!

Ok.. After watching the episode couple more times and just to understand what made P say what she said made me think ..

Based on the episode we saw yesterday, we concluded that P never loved R and was never worth his love.. Yes, to a certain extent I agree.. here i disagree, she loves with all her heart , they both love each other but the problem is that priya is basically someone who never attaches imp to her happiness and tries to make things such that all are satisfied before she is this is the habit which is making life mushkil for her, her love for ram i never doubted

But, we have not seen any positivity from R either..
darling his fasting for a dead wife, his fasting for a wife who still hasnt cleared y she suddenly left why, fasting for a wife who kept the daughter away, and still has not said the reason or any real apologies, for a wife who was ready ot give divorce milte hi, for a wife who was leaving india without even meeting him for a wife whom he is not sure of ever wanted to be found out, so if he is fasting for her is there no love?? that was a serious blooper on cvs not to show it to priya!! the cvs have shown his turmoil, he is shown trying to still remain angry, however he feels still for her shares with vik we have seen many scenes where we know . love is ebbing out his anger so i feel he is quite clear, what he needs is a assurance that priya will not leave she needs to get his trust, make him realize that even though it was chance she met she still hoped to be found she still wanted ot be with him not yeh k she is here coz it was found by accident😊😊
So my question is what is that he wants?. We can see glimpses of Jealousy seeping slowly in him.. So can we say that he wants P back?? my ans above in blue

He will not take the first step towards reconciliation (I don't want him to either. ditto 👏.)

But based on how P's character is being played out by the Cv's, she will not take the first step to claim her hubby either (because she thinks that he no longer wants her back ) unless she gets assurance from R himself.. (I will not take he KC convo into consideration because it was not complete)... She has always maintained that she will go by what R decides..

here see, she says one thing that i will do what r says, then says i will never destroy a marriage if r says i want u will she stand by her promise to mum?? i feel she will , and this possibility is what makes priya more at fault!! more then that even after two instances not once does it occur to her to ask of ram ayesha realtion, ram said i did it for u , ask sudhirr ask nuts, ever wonder why ayesha is not still attached ot any of kapoors? why still no one in family meets her? what has she done how does she conducts? why is only shipra after her?? the desire to not even find out how ram lives is baffling!! pocho tou k kia tha arrangement se kia matlab?😡😡?

So is it he turn of R to do something to initiate the fighting spirit in P?

how can ram explain why he married to ayesha before someone who stil hasn't explained why she left and continued to stay away and kitna ara was planning to stay away? isnt that a bigger mistake which led to ram marrying priya, priya absence was the cause and ram ayesha were the effect, the cause needs to be resolved before u handle the effects . plus not once have the cvs allowed priya to show her emotion her desire her yearning of ram!! so even if am confused that what does priya want i guess so is ram 😕
i feel sometimes i feel she is happy content being a single parent again, for her- she has a bigger shop more profit, pihu met with her family, pihu can get visitations rights with dad, priya lives alone independent ram visits, priya has her family her fiends her job her daughter , ram is lucky to even know he has a kid and she is GIVING permission to take pihu to KM occasionally all is well . that is the vibe i am getting form priya🤢

Or should it be through Vik or Neha
neha is destroyed, she has been so far the worst friend for ram ,she was witnessing how painful. the years have been for ram and not once not once did she ever ever tell priya not once didi she tell of ayesha, even if priya isnt asking she can mend ways no???. no she is just like an ostrich hiding head in sand !! says dsnt want to chose between two but divorce is choosing rehan over vik and kids 😆 so really no expectations form her.

vik did clear out a lot to ram he showed him that he can deny but the fact is the love is still dre soemone nbeeds ot do that too priya!!sudhir is so close why the hell is he not advising nuts anyone? all they need ot say is that ram ayesha is a farce and ram pines for u!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 1itida7

I second u.per me ram now realy needs to clear his mind,so as to wat he wants exactly frm life.if he dusnt want pk back,den feeling jealous of rajat or having problem over sharma surname is pointless.if he wants pk back,den he needs to do smthng regarding ayesha.marriage is not a joke.if not emotionaly or physically but socially he is bonded with her.again i understand he needs time,but he should for once keep anger aside n see the real issues at hand.the hurt part may take years to lessen,or may be d lifetime,but he just cant go ahead in life vith 2 wives.its just nt done.he by far seems to be d most confused soul to me,n dis comes frm a ram fan.cvs redeem raya,plss.


additi why should ram take all the steps for someone jiska pata hi nhn k usku rehna b ha ya nhn, woh kab wapas chali jaye, woh kab kuch akre kisi ku kia pata|? see the mere fact that priya knowingly was leaving and was found by accident is the main thing, what if she never wanted to be found that means she is moved on she has adjusted in a independent single parent how can ram be sure she wants to give it up?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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But di dats wat i exactly want.i want ram to take the reigns of his life in his own hands n behave lyk a sensible man who clearly knows wat he wants.i dun wanna mention pk n her actions.v all hav diff pov over dat.i jst want dat he shud be wid jst 1 woman.divorce pk n fight for pihu's custody n live with/widout ayesha.or else divorce /annul his marriage vid ayesha,n then again choose to live wid /widout pk.in hospital,he disregards his mariage vid pk as non existent,flaunts ayesha as his wife in parties n still holds fast for pk,why? ,I ask. For a change,i want him to make decisions for himself which vil truly keep him happy in long run.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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here i disagree why shuld he rtake the first step for a woman who is not even sure what she wants? and i am 100% sure there is no marraige so she is still the only wife as u must remeber in all cases when he talks he says meri biwi priya never ex
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Posted: 12 years ago
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additi a man cant even be angry?? he did it in anger," u want me move on fine i have moved on" but still the burden of explaining herslef rests with pria her one decsion made all the changes she needs to own up to that
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i too want ram to divorce ayesha dont want ram to be bigamist
n just continue his RB mode n den priya can win his trust by showing her love for him
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leo4ever

here i disagree why shuld he rtake the first step for a woman who is not even sure what she wants? and i am 100% sure there is no marraige so she is still the only wife as u must remeber in all cases when he talks he says meri biwi priya never ex

not for any woman but for himself. For his own life n his daughter n his adopted son.v hav a grudge of pk playing god in his life na,den y nt do dis 1nce for ur own self.know wat u want clearly,n den set out getting dat.d ball is clearly in his court.

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