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hello hello
how are all you my guys?😊
well the pace of balh these days has picked up drastically ,and while we are thrilled with it and as a consequnce our forum is also getting more debates and more discussion 😆 ithought o pen dowen some of my thoughts!!
i always felt that indian telly wood always showed leads esp female leads as haivng no self esteem- self respect and that was evdient in bearing all humiliation never retaliting, dukhi atma, in that my priya was/ is a breath of fresh air!!
i remember in season one - when got rejected went in the washroom for a min and we heard the darlnig of ram to his osul mate, or the rebuttal to ashwin or when she broke of the engangement, the confession , asking rajat for a job instead o charity, paying back pihus ilaj expense, so many great eg ( m fav was tellnig ram that my family needs my job, i loved it) but now i am confused .
she knws she made a wrong decison in that time- thought her intentions were the best circumstances made it seem the most correct to her at that time but now she is prepared ot deal with the consequences, ( finally)
neha- she gave 17 of marriagebut in all the suspense it always seemed she was angry at vik, maybe at not being able ot move past it? maybe ashamed of the fact ? whatever the reason i hope that it gets discovered and explored soon by the cvs and use some good dialouges.
however my point being is that the male leads - spoke of thier hurt on betratal, being taken for granted, not being able to bear the pain caused by osmeone who gave thme so much love ,the females seem to be : yes mistake hui and mow just get over it, what else should i do am sorry na!!
this is not for me anytihng abt self respect of a woman, or being the " modern women" i would want ot see a lil remorse i would want ot see a lil guilt i would want ot see the eagerness ot mend, not just blaming the perosn for not being able to listen understand? i can understand the frustatuaion coz of being the guilty party but i cant understand the absence of remorse, i cant get the absence of acceptance that the reaction is coz of me, rather i see aceptance that was wong but the jump to now why arnet u listening ei kia karu when he is not listening, i need space!! all this dsnt make sense
neha and priya are two of my fav glas, and i want them to be practical put in the shoes of the thier hubby: neha i feel is too guilt ridden and it is maybe that vik forgave her that they cant gell in? ( cld explain her increasevd anger?) or that vik cant get over she hid it and she cant offer more explainations and say that hugya tha now what?
usually the deadlock is the most ocmmon in couples when one betrays/ cheats breaks trust, however i hope the show dsnt make it again a war btween the sexes for it is not!!
even if the ggulty party is a male or female , i would want ot see remorse, a scene would do but i want to see that!! i want to see a practical soultion rather than guys vs girls fight!! pls no that ruined the confession too i dnt want nay more complications!!
i want to see a scene of priya where she accpets that she was worng and she is understanding that all this is a reaction ( that she has done so) but more than that the simple, " hugai galti ab kia karu soli pe char jaon? " hugai na galti sorry bola na " this all is what bothers me the matter of fact tone!!
yes make them practical strong self respecting leads but dnt make them so matter of factly that every thing is simply just a speck of dust.
i dnt agree with neha leaving her kids to get her space, as a mother she needed to reasusre her kids that even if divorce it is not damaging the relationship the fact that already troubled son hears it from a firnd is shocknig and very callous!!
i dnt agree with priya saying k bas he isnt listennig to me and all, has she really made any effort to even approach? that is what i want to see, i dnt want just ram pihu priya battle i want to see the acceptance of the fact that maairage does come above both ( i want to see that from ram too majorly- i want a scene where he feels k aisa kia hua huga priya jk u went and did this, the min he gets this he will be normal agan) but more than that i want priya to show her love for that man, i want a scene where she talks of herl ove for him the fact that she was wrong ot imagine he cld ever be happy without her as she even cant be n she will get back his love!!
more imp i love the fact she is moving out but i sdnt want her to leave with the pretext of my marzi it shd have been said since maa feels so, i dnt want ot be a burden!! i cant accept that she is ready ot call a spade a spade even with ram but when it comes ot ayesha shipra she just mums up??
i want to see an active priya , energetic, ready ot get back her marriage and not the victim mode priya- want to clarify liken moqa hi nhn dete mei kia karu? not this !!
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