Go for it Rajat!!!:Mod note pg12 & 14 - Page 9

if you want to see the difference compare rajat's attitude with ayesha...hopefully you will know the difference between loving someone and not expecting anything in return and not loving someone and expecting everything in return (ayesha)

So what is she is married? He fell in love with not knowing about her past or who she is was/is married to. Now that he loves her and gets to know she is married but separated he can't switch on the "I hate Priya mode". Give him time to forget Priya. And even if he loves her what's wrong in that? He doesn't expect anything in return but is ready to live with the one sided love. He isn't turning the bad guy yet wanting her in his life. All he wants is her happiness.

As for the conversation with Daijaa, well she has been a mother liker figure to him. Don't we go and tell everything we feel to our mothers? We share everything with out mothers which includes what we feel, both good and bad. That's what Rajat is doing! He needs someone to pour his heart to. I didn't feel anything wrong or 'yuck' in. If pouring out what you feel whether good or bad to a mother might be yuck to you then I really don't know what to say.

Mod note

Plss avoid name calling (use of Ramu kaka comes under name calling) in your discussions as its strictly against IF rules and repeat of same might result in strict action next time...

BALH Dev team

WARNING

I know we all have a difference in opinions in the forum, especially with the characters being pitted against each other as they are. But that does NOT mean that we can attack each other and their opinions in our efforts to explain our point. There have been several instances of sarcastic/snippy remarks in this thread where members have literally passed out catty retorts to each other and I can assure you that did nothing but DESTROY the discussion.

Some people like Rajat, some hate him. Some think Priya is the epitome of grace and propriety, others think she lied. Some think Ram is justified and hurt, others think he's being unfair. WHATEVER your opinion may be, the point remains that at the end of the day it is YOUR OPINION. It is not a fact, not a truth of life, not a verdict. It is your opinion. One that you are entitled to have but not entitled to force or attack others with.

And attacking the TM for having a different opinion than the forum majority or attacking a member who feels differently than the majority on this thread is just a sad display of numbers and strength in my opinion. Because it takes far more strength to be patient and accepting of others than attacking them and being defensive.

Thankfully towards the last page or two the attacks have mellowed down and the discussion may possibly be revived. For that reason and that reason alone, this thread is being left open. If there are any more personal attacks (in tone, words or sarcasm) on other members, this thread will be close and warning levels will be raised.

We are grown ups here. We have been watching this show for a year and know exactly what the forum environment requires of us. This should not be happening. And I hope that this thread will not have to be closed.

Regards,
BALH Dev. Team