DOTW : Man's Dilemma - Page 2

Originally posted by: fosla

Awesome DOTW Zehra.. You just stole my next post : A tale of two sisters😃 I was wondering the same thing. Ram and Karthik at the end of the day are gonna be stuck in between their wife and family. however Nutz may behave with Karthik's family, I don't think her love for Karthik is fake. She loves him a whole lot which showed in her adjusting at the Sharma's till the abortion issue came up. On the other hand, Ram and Priya didn't have a great relationship to begin with and finally found love. Their families have always been their strength but the love for their respective half is gonna be the cause for their dilemma. If Karthik, throws Nutz out, then Ayesha is gonna be happy. If Ram throws Priya out, Nih is gonna be happy. But how will the men work out a strategy that ends up making most of them happy?! I think the key lies in their respective wives. Unless Nutz lets her love for Karthik over rule and realize her life at KM is nothing, nobody can force her to get back to sharma's.. And here Priya should remain neutral instead of taking her family side and work out with Ram.

i don't think the Men's dilemma is gonna be solved without their resp wives' support!! The only other option is for them to run..😆

Originally posted by: ravichitra

Not just here even in real life men can get crushed between wife and family. It happens in almost every family at some or the other time. In these conditions, the man doesn't get the support of family for sure. the moment he supports his wife, his family starts taunting him calling him hen-pecked( this is what the issue with Karthik now). Although the wife isn't wrong, he can't support her so that he doesn't gain negative words from family( badduwa). Unless the wife doesn't understand the condition in which her man is grilled, he will be shooed to death. And i really wish Nuts to realise her love to be stronger than her anger and fury.

Originally posted by: ravichitra

But in the case of Ram, Priya will not put him in that situation. She will only support him.she will only think that his respect is her respect.even when Ram showed the divorce papers and asked her to sign,she did not question him. She loves him and trusts him enough to not question him. Even if he is wrong , Priya is matured enough to understand that it may be his majboori .and Ram loves,trusts and respects her enough to not put her in that kind of a situation.

Hey Sreedevi,

see how our thoughts meet. Nice post.

Originally posted by: fosla

Exactly!!It is a situation in every family!! the man would be called joru ka ghulam even he randomly listens to his wife.. So its so much imp that the husband wife relationship is strengthened by their love and the rest would fall in place. Nutz realization would happen when she thinks and differentiates between Nih and Shipra!! I still see hopes for her since she seemed to love Karthik!

Originally posted by: SriB

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So what we have come to is that the Man has no dilemma at all. 😆It's just how much his wife loves him😆😆

Originally posted by: ravichitra

That's true. Neither Ayesha nor Natasha is gonna lose anything, Its only Karthik who is ought to lose something or the other for no mistake of his. I think Ram will be in a same situation but I think somehow Priya will not give him an ultimatum to choose between family and wife. That would make it tougher for the man in question.

Originally posted by: monamie111

Finally the DOTW is here😃

first of all awesome DOTW leo..👏👏

thank you !!😆😆 i made the dotw adn priya solved it in a snap of finger!! however am glad it ddnt bring any storm yet in raya!

yes u r right..Kartik doesn't know what to do now..he is seeking his father's consolation that was he wrong? and what should he do now? yes I think Sharma family wouldn't reacted like this if it would be any other designer and not the daughter-in-law of the family..🤔 when a member of the family only has done so cheap thing with another family member..then of course the amount of pain is much more!! Kartik can't believe it that his wife could have done such thing with his own sister only! so he is trying to convince everyone that it wasn't nuts fault..why everyone is balming her only..it was just an accident! but i hope when the truth will come out his dilemma will not be there😊 so i think the best course of action would be Aysha should tell the truth to everyone that nuts has done an abortion and aysha actually blackmailed her and that's why nuts has taken a revenge!!..but i am afraid that this truth could hamper RaYa's relationship!!🤔 If this happen then nuts may reveal that Priya also knew this..Ram's trust for both Priya and Nuts will be broken after that!!😕

i dnt know somehow i still dont feel only nuts is to blame, yes she went to an extreme but i deep down wanted ayesha to fall flat in trying to get a break using blackmail, she with her snooping, bossy attitude and then the fake morals really bugged me!

and about Ram's dilemma..i am sure Golu will choose his guriya only!!😳 but i don trust nuts..she can do anything🤢..she can make fake stories to show her brother how helpless she was that she has taken such decision and hid that truth from everyone!🥱

i am really confused now..regarding this track!!😕 i just want to protect my RaYa from every evil soul!!😆 would love to hear from others what they think about this lovely DOTW😳

Originally posted by: SriB

Ram' s and Karthiks situations are different according to me. In Karthiks case ,both nutz and Ayesha will never compromise and would want Karthiks to side with them . So both will ask him to choose . Nutz has already given an ultimatum that she is not going to do any sacrifice for the sake of his parents and her respect is important to her if not to him. But in the case of Ram, Priya will not put him in that situation. She will only support him.she will only think that his respect is her respect.even when Ram showed the divorce papers and asked her to sign,she did not question him. She loves him and trusts him enough to not question him. Even if he is wrong , Priya is matured enough to understand that it may be his majboori .and Ram loves,trusts and respects her enough to not put her in that kind of a situation.

Sorry for such a long post .

Kind of got in a flow and rambling didn't stop. This is just my PoV.

Originally posted by: SriB

Thanks for your kind words Momamie.

I feel If situation arises that Ram HAS to choose, he will choose Priya. He will not have any dilemma. But Priya being Priya will ask him to reconsider.but he will choose Priya if the drastic as to take place. Because even during Asshwine track,even though they showed that he suspected but. They showed how he resolved because of the trust he has on Priya.and on Holi he said to Vikram that nw whatever he has to do is for inke liye hi karna hai which Vikram misunderstood as dadi but Ram meant Priya.

Originally posted by: ravichitra

But in the case of Ram, Priya will not put him in that situation. She will only support him.she will only think that his respect is her respect.even when Ram showed the divorce papers and asked her to sign,she did not question him. She loves him and trusts him enough to not question him. Even if he is wrong , Priya is matured enough to understand that it may be his majboori .and Ram loves,trusts and respects her enough to not put her in that kind of a situation.

Hey Sreedevi,

see how our thoughts meet. Nice post.