Originally posted by: fosla
Exactly!!It is a situation in every family!! the man would be called joru ka ghulam even he randomly listens to his wife.. So its so much imp that the husband wife relationship is strengthened by their love and the rest would fall in place. Nutz realization would happen when she thinks and differentiates between Nih and Shipra!! I still see hopes for her since she seemed to love Karthik!
Awww thanks angie! 😃, yes that is why i thot of the dotw that both in real and rel we could find some things that can be controlled and that cant.
like ruchi said, in every household this happens, sometimes men also do this, they never admit their moms fault in front of anyone, however when they are alone in the room they also show support to wife, i feel it could be best termed as not insulting anyone at the face and then talking to them alone making them see the others point of view. it dos work sometimes, and yes the joru ka ghulam tag is a further thing, poor creaky boy is labeled that by both his parents!
another point that i feel is that while the family squabbles if there are kids involved it increases the level of dilemma more at least in my point of view.,but if there is love then also angie there is always a dilemma, perhaps more so isn't it? if u love both equally and both a fight then either u stay indifferent or if u get in then u do have to take sides, a wife will not always understand being second will she? and is that even justified?
also another point i feel is required in addition to understanding and love is the level of integrity,u know it is ur fault admit it and apologise, dont fake and prolong the issues by fabrication and making it an ego issue?
what do u all think?😉
what can ease out the mans dilemma? we have angies love, understanding, ruchi and sris sacrifice and love, my addition is integrity in addition to love and understanding!
let me know and pls join the discussion😊