Juhi acting was excellent.
Also murli despair moved me, he just can't lose his wife.
I was somehow disappointed in the script because first Bharti wanted to give a child to murli but murli clearly doesn't want it. But now she is doing it for herself : she wants her baby to live no matter what.
We can say that she is stubborn but murli is also stubborn in his own way. If it was an occidental show, everyone would have hated him because it's bharti's life and she can do whatever she wants with it.
But now that it's a indian show, we all focus on the fact that bharti is egoist and selfish... and this happens every time she takes a decision, no matter what the decision is about (jewellery, family, her house).
Maybe it's what the Cv meant when they started the show telling that she was a independent woman, maybe they didn't mean that she is a tomboy (not exactly a tomboy, but i'm referring to preeto character in the serial with the same name) but that she doesn't need anyone approval to do what she thinks is right.
And yes, she slapped him. A lot of people are wondering how she could do that to his loooving hubby when she didn't do anything to Gaumti.
I don't think a lot of people will understand what i'll say (i always lose my way in my own thoughts) but i'll still try to make it clear :
Bharti is dealing with a lot of rudeness from people that she doesn't even know : when she walks down the street or whenever she goes to a public place. So even if she is strong, there is no way that the good option would have been to beat the crap out of them every time.
First it would have made him a bad person, also she couldn't have fight every single one. So i guess she channels her anger and keep it inside.
That's why she look very nice and goody whatever, it's because she grew with the strength to forgive a lot. If she hadn't do so, she would have sunk into her anger long time ago.
Being nice is her own way to save herself. I know that sound cheesy and weird but from real life experience, i can relate to her on this particular aspect of her personality.
So to get her mad you have to cross limits that she puts very very close to her. Her child for example is very precious to her and no one should even think of harming it, even if it's the father. That's why she slapped him in my opinion.
All what Gau doing was taking her money, and she is screaming over roof from day one that she DOESN'T care about her money. Gau in fact, never crossed any of Bharti's limits while Bharti keep crossing Gau's limits since they don't care about the same things at all.
Also, it wasn't that weird of her to slap Murli : by grabbing her arm, he was also using strength and no one is making a fuss about it. She is short so he knew (or better he thought) that he could easily control her but she didn't let him do so. By slapping him she made him realise that she isn't a child and if she tells him to stay away from her then he SHOULD STAY AWAY ! You can't say that she didn't warn him !!!
Last but not least, when Bharti sits down and listen peacefully to what people say (or just bash her for no reason) she is goody whatever, but when she gets angry then she is insane. Whatever she does, it seems that she is wrong.
Yep, MAYBE MAYBE Murli didn't deserve to be slap because he loves her. Yes, but wasn't he also egoist when he wanted to abort a child that half belonged to Bharti?
From my personal pov (without considering any articles), Bharti is going to die in both of the case so Murli should be the one to give up already. He shouldn't play with a life like that, (the baby's one) and should treasure whatever he can save (the baby) as a memory of his beloved wife 😊
Because she is actually in pain, I don't except her to act all reasonable. I don't think that she is in her best mood : ) Seriously, guys, this wouldn't have been realistic if she sat down, hugged Murli being grateful for his love!
For once in her life she didn't put anyone else than her before herself and still it seems that it's wrong. I'm confused about the other reaction in this forum, without saying that any one is wrong.
Murli treated her badly in the past yes, but it was all about money. In the other hand he also saved her life (let's put it like that). Now he is trying to abort her child, I can understand that she changed of perspective.
She absolutely called him a liar but she is tired, crying, feels betrayed and I don't expect all her dialogue to make sense. Yes, she also lied to him but that doesn't mean she'll be okay if someone lied to her. That doesn't work like that.
All Murli did was for her, but that's defo not what she wants because she put her baby before herself…
EDIT : @addicted : i largely completed my post after you liked it, if you don't agree, i don't mind you deleting your "like" :)
Anupamaa
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