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Posted: 14 years ago
A few things - I really like the flashbacks of Bharti as a 'kid' and her father going on the trip. How they tied the washing of his feet, the yellow chaadar to the yellow kurta and the recollection of Rupesh telling Bharti he will always be with her in her heart!

Bharti's acting was very realistic instead of breaking down completely. For a new actress, she is doing a good job.

Mridang and Gaushala are up to something. They want Murli to take the business so that they can get the money ... we have to watch out for them returning to their old ways. I was happy to see everyone together and mourning, but it will soon be over.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Rupesh's shradh ceremony is going on where the Chauhans and the Lals are performing the rites according to custom. Rupesh's ashes are immersed in the Yamuna (presumably) and his garlanded portrait is hung on the wall. Finally, they all take leave of Dhara & Bharti. The Lals return home, and Murli is still haunted by flashbacks of Rupesh's dying moments and the funeral. Murli then announces to his parents that in order to fulfill his promise to Rupesh, he's decided to take back Bharti as his wife. Everybody is surprised.

Next day, the Lals visit Dhara & Bharti, and Bansi tells Dhara that they want to get Bharti re-married to Murli a second time. Dhara & Bharti look shocked. Kamala explains to Dhara that since the misunderstandings have cleared, Murli wants to get back Bharti as his wife. Bharti tells Murli that she needs to talk to him in private.

In private, Bharti tells Murli that it's true that he promised her father to take responsibility for her, but that doesn't mean they have to be together. After all, their friends & relatives do help them. Murli agrees, but tells her that her father and he both knew what was being promised, and it's not the same as some wellwisher who just asks her how she is. Bharti tells him that they've seen the outcome of being married to each other, so how can they be married?

She also tells Murli that someone else would like a relationship w/ him, and she is more appropriate. Murli is surprised, and then, Sudha joins them. Murli asks her to explain, and then sees Sudha @ the door. Murli clarifies to Bharti that the only relationship he has w/ Sudha was one of humanity, and Sudha agrees. She tells Murli that she does have a place for Murli in her heart that is appropriate for someone who saved and sheltered her, but nothing more. Bharti asks Sudha not to do this to herself. Sudha tells her that she's a devotee of Murli, not a lover 🤣 Bharti tells her that Sudha needs someone like Murli, but Sudha tells him that Murli has done his duty, and her need is over. She knows that if she goes down the path he's laid for her, she'll be successful regardless of whether he's w/ her or not. She tells Bharti that she's contacted her brother and told him that she can't live w/ RA anymore, and her bro will be coming to fetch her and give her a new beginning. She therefore asks Bharti to reciprocate Murli's gesture, and puts Bharti's hand in Murli's. She asks Murli to take care of Bharti, and then leaves.

In the garden, Bharti tells Murli that when he made his promise to her father, the situation was different, and that he was unable to die worrying about what will happen to Bharti. But it wouldn't be right to gamble the rest of his life a second time. She reminds him that he tried to force his heart for the sake of others, and saw what happened. He knows how much of grief this marriage caused both their families. While some things have changed around them, she has not changed, and probably, neither has his image of his desired wife. She tells him that w/o love, it's not a relationship, it's a compromise, which will bring them to the same spot again.


Comments: I loved Bharti today - she did exactly the right thing by pointing out to Murli the pitfalls. I wish she had gone a step further and told Murli that she had changed, and while she still respects what he did for her father, she refuses to re-marry him. After all, in the end, she pointed out how he still doesn't love her, and so, had she told him that she doesn't love him, even if she's lying, she'd have lessened his guilt.

I thought Sudha made a graceful exit, but I was sad that Bharti wasn't more forceful in persuading them to accept each other. If Sudha could tell her brother to take her back, what stopped her all these days? Bharti was right - Sudha is a better match for Murli. Bharti could have said that she has made other plans for herself, and just refused.

If Murli marries her, even willingly, it will be unconvincing if he is shown to love her. In that sense, this won't be realistic. Of course, since Murli is going to re-marry her, hope that he doesn't have the same hang-ups as he did earlier.

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Posted: 14 years ago
Firstly Congo Vrish on becoming Viewbe! I know you will do a brilliant as you did on RS forum.. =)

And Thanks for the updates..

I am soooo gutted with how the story is panning out! =( Its not that I didn't like BharLi jodi but its so damaged that I just don't see how the couple can act like nothing happened??

Bharti should say NO. Yes, Murli has done a lot for her the past couple of episodes but he isn't marrying her from the heart? (or is he?) It just seems he finds he needs to marry her as she is helpess and alone now? but Bharti should remind Murli that w/o him she was able to work, and also marriage doesn't mean she will be happy?

Amit&Bharti are much better companions and though I didn't like Sudha's character much she was much better for Murli..
Bharti should say No, but I guess she loves Murli too much, so you want her to have her fairytale with him..

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Posted: 14 years ago
Sanjana

Thanks - I agree w/ every word you said, and had been saying this for some time - Surli, Amarti and Jhumroo (incidentally, Jhumka has mysteriously disappeared)
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Posted: 14 years ago
Murli tries to persuade Bharti to give him another chance. He gives her a great bhashan on how great she is, how bad he was, how she completes him, waghara waghara... For love, he points out all the arranged marriages that happen around them where no love is involved, and where it comes later. He then asks her if she can forgive him and give him another chance, reminding her of the occasion when she requested the same from him?

They go back in, and Murli asks Bhushan to go to court and revoke the divorce documents. Bhushan is excited. So is everybody else. Dumroo is very excited and wants to take Bharti back, but Murli says that he wants to celebrate the new beginning by repeating the rituals and then taking Bharti home. Bansi asks him why, since they 2 are still married, and Murli tells him that he didn't understand the vows last time they did it, and so wants to renew them this time, and understand each one of them. Everybody is happy, except Bharti, and Bansi agrees w/ him. Dhara agrees to Bansi's request as well, and Dumroo is excited. Dhara later tells Bharti that she's regained her trust in god 😕 She tells her that for her father, her getting separated from Murli was his biggest source of grief 🤔

Later that night, Sudha comes to Murli and hopes that he wasn't embarrassed by what Bharti said, and Murli assures her that he wasn't, and that he understood. Sudha then offers him a jewelry box as a gift, and tells him that he gave her a new lease on life for which she could never repay him, so here is a small token of her appreciation. Murli opens it and sees a small idol of Krishna-Radha in it. Murli tells her that it's beautiful, but that she didn't need to do this. Sudha tells him that she's happy that he's re-uniting w/ Bharti, and this is for both her friend and her guru. She asks him to keep it as a reminder that there's someone who'd pray for him & Bharti. She tells him that she'll always pray that he'd be happy w/ Bharti. Murli smiles.

Sudha takes her leave, telling him that she has a lot to do, for both sides of the marriage. But after leaving the room, she starts crying 😭


Comments: A really boring episode. I thought that Murli's pitch to Bharti that she doesn't have to love or be in love to get married was really lame. I'd much rather that Bharti told him that she was in love w/ Amit, and not to deny her this happiness. The bhashan that Murli gave Bharti was really uncalled for.

Also, just revoking the divorce would have been enough. One thing they are forgetting - Bharti's father has just died, and once someone's father dies, that person cannot marry for a while - up to a year. Can't the family just, as the stand-up guy in that Tata Docomo ad says, keep it simple? Now, we'd be subjected to another marriage, another grihapravesh and what not. And Bharti walking into a house that's actually hers, as opposed to the first time.

I felt sad for Sudha @ the end - despite her brave face in encouraging Murli & Bharti's jodi, she can't bear to 'lose' Murli, and I don't blame her. I think Bharti would have done a lot better had she told Murli that she loved Amit, and then Murli couldn't have pressurized her to marry him. I'm just not seeing what's left in this serial.

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Posted: 14 years ago

I thought Murli would have fallen in love with Bharti, since he started understanding her better after all this drama. But looks like he is marrying her more out of guilt than love and Bharti....if she is not happy with this marriage, she should not agree. Any way I am expecting new twist in the story which will again seperate Murli and Bharti......nahi toh story aage kaise badhegi😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
i didnt like yday episode at all


its back to square one.. wud hv been better if bharti had said no or mayb said she needs time to think about it

and go on with her routine work etc.. but she succumbed so i think gaushala wud hv another idea in her head soon.. mridang confuses me a lot many times

at times he sides with his family and at times goes along with gaushala and her idiotic plans

and so where did jhumki magically vanish


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Posted: 14 years ago
they are taking bavd beyond a point 🤔 ...if there were no interruptions on bharli marriage then somehow my hunch is it may follow kuch kuch hota hai story 🤔 bharti might die delivering her first baby or something taking vachan from murli to marry sudha ..then they may show a scene of a year after or something of surli as couple and bharti in a big photo (like pkcm)
( i think too much of imagination 😆 )
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Posted: 14 years ago
The closing scene was Sudha in tears, so I'm wondering whether she'll turn vamp and try to get Murli for herself❓ After all, many of Krishna's wives were jealous of their co-wives 😆 If only Murli could have married all 3 - Bharti, Sudha & Jhumka, and let Amit have Veena 😈
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Posted: 14 years ago
After hearing Murli's bashan, this Bharti agreed to a remarry, Oi Vey!
Murli and his emotional atyachar was a total head spinner and this time Bharti succumbed to pressure. Her heart isn't clearly in it because I think she understand Murli's feelings for her but she did it to make others happy, which we have seen didn't do anyone good.

From what we have shown although Murli is the kind of person who will go for what he believes is right, so why didn't he get Sudha. 😕 I mean the girl basically poured her heart out, gave him some signals and even Bharti knew she liked Murli . On the other hand the mahan sacrificial lamb Sudha decided to bury her feelings for the sake of Bharti n Murli. I feel bad for Sudha and I hope she doesn't become a vamp.😛

Now they are going to have a wedding just after a funeral and before that there was shooting and kidnapping.

I am exasperated. 😕

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