Who is more wrong? Evil Saas v. Mami

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Posted: 14 years ago
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If you have seen the June 1st episode, you know that the Evil Saas took Saachi into the bathroom so she could strip search her. Clearly, that is wrong. You are there to see a prospective bride, not buy cattle.

But, for me the person who is more wrong that that dunderhead Saas is Mami. The saas is a stranger to the Sharma family and strangers will behave the way they will. Mami is Saachi's own family. It is beyond me that she would reduce her niece, who she claims as her own daughter, to such degradation. How desperate are you to unload Saachi that you would subject her to a strip search, and that too by someone she just met!!! When they came out of the bathroom, the look on Usha's face - full of disappointment, like 'Oh Saachi, you couldn't even handle the search, what will we do with you - you ruin everything.' sealed it for me. Mami is by far more wrong and disgusting in this case.

I never forgot, no matter how many times later she would say she's my daughter, that she made her go through that. And I wondered if they would make Shreya go through the same pareeksha or would they off the bat, turn down any alliance with such a family.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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The person who is to blame for that stripping is ,mami mami mami mami mami all the way😡
I felt she never saw sanchi as her own daughter at all.Sanchi was her responsibility and she want to get rid of it as soon as possible.All her tears for sanchi sometimes was crocodile tears.Whenever mami claimed sanchi as her daughter when she was among jaiswals i thought "oh really".Her concerns sometimes towards sanchi was a fear, of what people would say regarding her upbringing.There was NO LOVE AT ALL.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Totally agree what if the same thing happened to shreya would she do the same like she did to sachi or did she let the happen to sachi becuse she not her own blood. shake my head.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Both are equally at fault.
The evil saas - for her attitude
Mami - for her disregard of Sachis feelings
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yeh Anu
Even though at first it seems that the saas is more evil, I feel mammi is more to be blamed...No sane person would subject her daughter to undergo such an ordeal at the hands of such twisted mind..
You wld never want ur daugther to be desperately married off, into such a kind of a family; It wld be better of for her to remain a spinster...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Maami disgusting character ...knowing what was the evil saas's intention she allowed 'her beti' to endure the humiliation...
Evil saas despicable character ....i dont understand what is there to be checked....what if she has a scar or a daag is it going to be a hinderance in producing offsprings?? whats her doubt?? If she wants to find out if there is any physical disability she can find out even without stripping...God knows what was her intention...
Sachi a sad character not able to go thru the humiliation but enduring it cuz of her 'supposed parents's' satisfaction
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I would blame them both.

@ mami- I was furious with her, for subjecting Saachi to undergo such pain. Her repeated insistence that Saachi is like her daughter, just shows that it is not so. You do not have to keep assuring a person, if it is true. 😡😡 Am sure, she would not have allowed her own daughter Shreya, to undergo such humiliation.
@Saas- very very annoyed, to see such people, do exist. A woman subjecting another woman, to go through such an ordeal,......Shame.😡
Wonder, if she had to go through, this Pariksha, too!!!!!😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think that mami is much more evil!! i thought it was more then evil for that saas to check saachi like that, it was really wrong and horrible. but this could have been stopped from happening only if mami said no, but instead she said yes. i thought that only person to be blamed is mami, she was far more evil then the saas for sending saachi with that woman!!😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mami all the way
actually i can never understand

was under staying at Usha's home or were nanu nani staying at inder's home

if it was the former case then i can understand that nani being so rude at least to some extent but if it was the latter case how could Inder tolerate such things about his own niece in his own home?

and nani taunting sharmila when nani herself was staying at her daughter's home?

mami is a two faced creature completely

saying she is my daughter on one hand and then saying that she needs to get sanchi married quickly

why was sanchi such a burden

and that girl had only completed her BA just a graduate , what if she wanted to study further?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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The evil Saas is absolutely DISGUSTING, but the real horribleness comes in with Mami. Evil MIL is a complete stranger, but Mami is Sanchi's mother figure. She's raised Sanchi since the latter was a small child, and there was a lot of trust put in her. She had a lot of responsibility to be fair to Sanchi, and she completely let her down.

This is the reason I couldn't take her seriously when she began to cry over sending Sanchi to that 'horrible Shravan' later in the series. She's already caused a lot of pain to her niece herself, and Shravan and his family are still better than evil MIL and Rameshwari.

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