Best Treatment for Astha? - Page 2

actually

SSRIS such as zoloft may help her chill out a little bit
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also a crash course in anger management and a good shrink to shrink her anger , hostility..

she may be able to direct her hurt and anger to do humaniatrian stuff, like feed the poor, go to the junkkles of africa or amazon to serve humanity etc etc
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I actually mentioned in some post that distance makes the heart fonder (unfortunately we can't search by word or phrase). Simran should move away from Astha for some time, as should the entire Mathur clan.

Originally posted by: Akshata

Hi friends,
This issue of "how to teach Astha a lesson?" has already been discussed under various topics.Maybe some of you missed it.With due respect to your post,I am writing this reply.

I'm really taken aback to see that most people see a slap or a good beating as Astha's "treatment".
I am not aware of the members' age or whether they are parents themselves.Please note that I'm not trying to make anyone change one's mind.But it does intrigue me.

I personally feel that the root cause of Astha's bad behavior is lack of communication.It has all started with the revelation of her identity,and has continued because they don't seem to be involving her in any family matter.Their intentions may be good but they have to give her the benefit of doubt.
I thought after the "simran moving to Abhi's house" episode,things would change.Saurabh and Simran had a discussion(excellent acting by both)which I thought would bring some difference.

Astha is not insane....she is hurt and misguided.Simran loves her and does not hold any grudge but that's not going to help.A tight slap as suggested will shut her up at that moment but what after that?It will humiliate her even more.Even the slap will have to be followed by an explanation.
We see Astha's joining hands with Kiran as foolish because we know Kiran.Astha does not...her parents and family won't tell her the truth.If Sia who knows everything can make the mistake of seeking sympathy from Kiran,why not Astha? Astha is oblivious of her vile ways.
Neha's diary is bound to aggravate any daughter's ill feelings.
We see the Saxena family as another family so it's easy for us to say" throw astha out".Would we really be able to do it to somebody we love very much???

Just give it a thought,friends.You have the right not to change your mind.

Cheers

Akshata, you are 100% right...I agree