The changed Simran - Page 2

Originally posted by: smileee

Thanks! I agree with you. Unconciously, I think Astha was an accident for Abhi (Although Sia was an accident to. Remember how he didn't want a child?), but she was very much wanted by Neha.

It was disgusting to see how Simran even dictated the times that Neha and Abhi would be physically close! That's extremely personal between a couple. K she is a doctor and she was concerned about Neha's health. She didn't pull herself away from their life (which was the best treatment), but managed to ask them to stay away .

I am sorry, I beg to disagree with that.

A doctor has every right to detemine what is wrong or right for her patient. She advised them as a doctor, not as an ex. She herself told Neha to choose someone else as her doctor but Neha doggedly kept coming back to her ( Incidently Neha never once had the sensitivity to understand that it might be painful for Simran as well to deal with a woman who was physically close to the man she was once married to and was going around with a proof of that.....might be Neha did go to Simran just to show off that fact......maybe unconciously). Neha was no less a hypocrite herself. She did nothing to make Simran know of her displeasure, except to make snide comments at times. Simran did not advise them that to keep them away, only to safe guard the child, especially when Neha had already undergone one miscarriage.

My own doctors advised the same to me during both my pregnancies. Personal or non personal factors do not come into play during such times. And I don't think any of my two different doctors did that with the aim of pulling us apart. Marriage is not always about being physical.

Unfortunately Abhi never understood that.

Well said Minnie... . I could not have said it better. I did not like the fact that Neha kept going back to Simran to be her doctor, like there is no other doc in town. When Simran was not comfortable and did tell Neha, that then, what was Neha thinking?

Originally posted by: wawahehe

It was too late when Simran told her to find another doctor. Neha did wanted to change her doctor but it was Abhi (Tumhara dimaag to nahin kharaab ho gaya - remember that favorite dialogue of Abhi). For me, Aastha is Simran's mistake for telling Abhi to marry Neha (Abhi always took anything Simran said as an order) and also an accident due to Abhi's desire for pleasure.

I agree that Abhi married Neha because Simran said so and I had expressed my disgust at that point at the fact that everything seems to revolve around marriage and that people cannot live without getting married... that was a costly mistake to make...

Simran had asked her to consider another doctor in the beginning itself.

After a couple is married, it is only ekta kapoor's serials that couple do not hit the bed... I am sorry, I do not want to sound rude or vulgar, but mating is nature's gift. Abhi and Neha were married, should they not be sleeping together then?

Originally posted by: vvrsun

GUILT!

Yes, it was guilt. But still that does not explain why she would do something good to cover up her guilt. She could have done something bad !!! I know a number of people who have no guilt over anything and keep adding more misery to other people's lives with giving them a moment's consideration even if they know they are wrong, just to justify themselves in their own eyes and feed their egos......

For example, till date Kiran has no guilt that she broke not one but two homes and deprived two kids from their father's complete attention ( Anil Shourie too was married and had a kid - a kid who was saved by Dr Manas at some point of time). She is still going about in her vicious vindictive ways.

Originally posted by: Minnie

Yes, it was guilt.

What was the guilt.. I asked this question earlier on too... Guilt as far as she being the second woman in Abhi-Neha's life... I can agree.. but how was she responsible for Neha's death?