Aastha needs to learn a lession - Page 2

Originally posted by: peacestead

firstly if it were my mother and single then i would have faith in her and trust her, no doubt i would be disturbed but for gods sake simran is not being unfaithful to anyone, infidelity is not the question here, I would give her a chance to explain and not rush to conclusions and judgements, even if the person simran was hugging was not abhay doesnt simran also have a right to live her life, seek a companion, expect some romance in her life, her life cant and should'nt revolve around ashta and her father, shes a beautiful woman and still has the right to seek a companion for her life, god knows shes lived the life of a spinster long enough, no child who truly loves his or her mom would call their mom characterless, those are heavy words!!!!!!!!!!

i think simran and abhays decision to postpone telling the truth has made an already bad situation worse and the truth should have been told sooner, but astha needs to keep her language and temper in check, i would really have second thoughts about making astha my daughter in law after the way she talked to urmilla and sid in the hospital, after all as of right now Urmilla is asthas potential mother in law.and come on how many of us would talk to our mothers in this tone, I dont think a huge majority would, theres something called respect and astha is sorely lacking in that.

I totally agree with u.

Everyone has problems in life. But no one should go around blasting everyone.

Look at her tone with Shagugna and Surabh. The're not her servents...they love her. She just takes undue advantage cause she knows no one will say anything to her.

If I was Sia, i'd put her in her place too.

Does Aastha even realize that Sid and Sia were good friends at one point????

Aashta is out of control. Yes, I blame Simran.

Originally posted by: rak201

Yes, one must talk to mother first that why you have been consistently lying to me - why did you say that you are going to the office and were in someone's arm in hotel ?

I agree, she could have done so many things. Confront, Simran, Saurabh, her grandparents.

Stand up to these things.

Originally posted by: peacestead

firstly if it were my mother and single then i would have faith in her and trust her, no doubt i would be disturbed but for gods sake simran is not being unfaithful to anyone, infidelity is not the question here, I would give her a chance to explain and not rush to conclusions and judgements, even if the person simran was hugging was not abhay doesnt simran also have a right to live her life, seek a companion, expect some romance in her life, her life cant and should'nt revolve around ashta and her father, shes a beautiful woman and still has the right to seek a companion for her life, god knows shes lived the life of a spinster long enough, no child who truly loves his or her mom would call their mom characterless, those are heavy words!!!!!!!!!!

i think simran and abhays decision to postpone telling the truth has made an already bad situation worse and the truth should have been told sooner, but astha needs to keep her language and temper in check, i would really have second thoughts about making astha my daughter in law after the way she talked to urmilla and sid in the hospital, after all as of right now Urmilla is asthas potential mother in law.and come on how many of us would talk to our mothers in this tone, I dont think a huge majority would, theres something called respect and astha is sorely lacking in that.

No offence intended, but you are talking like the story is unfolding in the US of A. In India, people don't move on in life; I refer to your statement that Simran has a right to seek a companion. Look at it logically: when she has been single for 18 years, why the sudden urge (I am looking from Astha's eyes)?

When a teenager who has considered her mother a rock of dependability finds that she was living a lie, 'bewidered' would be an understatement.

Look at things in Astha's perspective:

Her mother said that Sia has gone back - she finds a hotel bill for Sia
Her mother promises to talk to the police commisioner (giving the impression that she didn't know the whereabouts) about her missing nani - she finds the asylum bill.
She says that she is in a meeting at the hospital when Astha calls her from the hospital reception!

What would be your emotions, reactions, when on top of all that she finds her mother cuddling with a stranger. The so-called pillar of strength on whom she has depended all her life has apparently deserted her. She feels alone, and as a teenager I know that is a horrible feeling. I feel that at least in this, Ajay Sinha is doing a good job. (Also consider that all of a sudden Sia has become the apple of everyone's eyes.)

Originally posted by: vvrsun

At least this story is showing that there is nothing wrong in seeking a companion at that age. It is at that age that the older people need more companionship. The kids go away for studies/work and have their own life. Is it so wrong for a person to find another person to share their life?

The story shows that they have moved 18 years in time, should the thought process also not moved to see if her mother needs somebody? Well, agreed Astha has been wronged. No doubt about that. But she has no right whatsoever to scream at people.

Rak, Scorpio,

You guys have made great points. If yesterday's episode was all I saw then I would understand.

But again after tonight's episode, if I was around Aastha, I would have to give her a lesson or two on manners, respect, appropriate was of communication, and obedience.

Hi and Namaste from Ontario, Canada:

First of all, Simran has brought up Aastha as her own child. She kept to her promise to Neha and Abhi. I think that Simran is a very courageous, brave woman full of values. Simran deserves the world's love and then some. She has been through so much. We can all learn to be brave and courageous like her.

Aastha needs to give respect if she wants to be respected. Respecting elders, especially parents, is respecting GOD. Disrespect for parent is Disrespect for God. PARENTS ARE OUR FIRST GOD. They remain undone so we can have. I think Aastha needs TO GROW UP AND MATURE. Also she does not deserve Sid. She does not know what Love is. Love is God in Action. Love is treating others the way you want to be treated. Forgiving others which she knows nothing about is loving others. What kind of a human being is Aastha. Even monkeys have more sense and gratitude and love than Aastha. She needs to do some form of community service in an institution where she can learn this from.

Everyone needs to now get on with their lives. Maybe then she will realise that the world and the sun does not revolve and set around her.

Sid and Sia belong together. There is true chemistry between them. When I look at Sid I see Sia's reflection. That is Love. When I look at Sid I do not see Aashta's reflection at all. Sid may love her but only as a true friend and nothing else.

I hope that we get to see Sid and Sia's wedding really soon.

Originally posted by: diamond148

Hi and Namaste from Ontario, Canada:

First of all, Simran has brought up Aastha as her own child. She kept to her promise to Neha and Abhi. I think that Simran is a very courageous, brave woman full of values. Simran deserves the world's love and then some. She has been through so much. We can all learn to be brave and courageous like her.

Aastha needs to give respect if she wants to be respected. Respecting elders, especially parents, is respecting GOD. Disrespect for parent is Disrespect for God. PARENTS ARE OUR FIRST GOD. They remain undone so we can have. I think Aastha needs TO GROW UP AND MATURE. Also she does not deserve Sid. She does not know what Love is. Love is God in Action. Love is treating others the way you want to be treated. Forgiving others which she knows nothing about is loving others. What kind of a human being is Aastha. Even monkeys have more sense and gratitude and love than Aastha. She needs to do some form of community service in an institution where she can learn this from.

Everyone needs to now get on with their lives. Maybe then she will realise that the world and the sun does not revolve and set around her.

Sid and Sia belong together. There is true chemistry between them. When I look at Sid I see Sia's reflection. That is Love. When I look at Sid I do not see Aashta's reflection at all. Sid may love her but only as a true friend and nothing else.

I hope that we get to see Sid and Sia's wedding really soon.

well said diamond148 , we people especially from the indian subcontinent place our parents on a pedestal, since i was a kid i heard from my dad that for him his parents are next to God, these are the same values that have been passed on to me and i hope to pass on these values to my kids too.Our parents give us life, teach us how to live life, differentiate good from bad, protect us and at the drop of a hat would be willing to sacrifice their lives for us, how can we even dream of being so insulting to our parents, and if i were to do that God would never forgive me and my conscience would not let me live a peaceful day on in this world.