Aastha needs to learn a lession

I think if I was simran I would have already slap her. For god sake if she do has her personal problems then she sort it out herself, oh come on she can hardly do that, muchless to handle sid (her dream husband)😆 after marriage (if possible) how would she handle their problems?

Originally posted by: wawahehe

How would you feel if you see your own mother in someone's arms in hotl (not knowing the person was your father) - she called Simran "characterless" in heat of the moment, and although not right, I still will give some benefit of doubt here. Why was Simran lying to both Saurabh and Aastha all this while - why cannot this bold, honest and staright forward woman cannot face the truth. Simran has become quite disgusting and mean .....

firstly if it were my mother and single then i would have faith in her and trust her, no doubt i would be disturbed but for gods sake simran is not being unfaithful to anyone, infidelity is not the question here, I would give her a chance to explain and not rush to conclusions and judgements, even if the person simran was hugging was not abhay doesnt simran also have a right to live her life, seek a companion, expect some romance in her life, her life cant and should'nt revolve around ashta and her father, shes a beautiful woman and still has the right to seek a companion for her life, god knows shes lived the life of a spinster long enough, no child who truly loves his or her mom would call their mom characterless, those are heavy words!!!!!!!!!!

i think simran and abhays decision to postpone telling the truth has made an already bad situation worse and the truth should have been told sooner, but astha needs to keep her language and temper in check, i would really have second thoughts about making astha my daughter in law after the way she talked to urmilla and sid in the hospital, after all as of right now Urmilla is asthas potential mother in law.and come on how many of us would talk to our mothers in this tone, I dont think a huge majority would, theres something called respect and astha is sorely lacking in that.

Just because you are upset about something, you do not scream at others. Astha should have been controlled earlier on by Simran and now it is late, but not too late. She needs to be taught that life does not revolve around her alone and everybody has their share of problems and that the sooner you learn to deal with them the better.

Like peacestead said, talk to your mother first, before you put allegations on her... I guess with Astha, it is only what she sees and believes. She does not believe in communication. The world begins and ends with her.

Astha could have asked her mother why her mother was lying... she has all the right to do so. Why does she always take the anger approach. Stop being an amateur detective, when you do not know what to do with the facts or analyse the facts.

I am not defending Simran in the fact that she lied. Every parent thinks the best for their kids. Give the parents the benefit of doubt. They are double our age and have seem more life than us.

Originally posted by: anju0930

i partly disagree with that,, yes, astha is rude and abnoxious and a real brat, but come on, give her a break...
she is going thru a tough time,,,
she just realized that simran was not her mom, her dad who abandoned her is back, shes got a half sister, who is her fake mother's daughter, and the love of her life, loves someone else... and on top of all that sia is making it worse, she just had to get her parents married so soon, and start showing loveling feeelings towards sid.. ... its just too much to handle,, it would have been different if things happened one after the other, but astha's life changed so fast...

I understant that this is rough on a person who is her age. But what Aastha did, and how she spoke to her elders is a reflection of her true character. Why did she blast Urmila. Urmila has nothing to do with this matter and she starts calling them "liers and can't be trusted". How dare she make that accusation on them? If I was Urmila or Simran I would put her in her place.

No matter what, there is no justification to be rude to anyone who is speaking to you in a civilized fashion.

That is my point.

Originally posted by: wawahehe

How would you feel if you see your own mother in someone's arms in hotl (not knowing the person was your father) - she called Simran "characterless" in heat of the moment, and although not right, I still will give some benefit of doubt here. Why was Simran lying to both Saurabh and Aastha all this while - why cannot this bold, honest and staright forward woman cannot face the truth. Simran has become quite disgusting and mean .....

Yes, Simran is at fault, I'm not saying that Aastha doesn't have a rigth to be upset at her mother, she does.

But there is away of carring ones's self and speaking to elders.

If Aastha has soemthing to say, come out and say it. Confront Simran and say at the very moment she saw her. Say to Simran "I saw you with someone who is he". If it is then prove that this is another man, then call her a characterless woman.

Obviously, we all know what Aastha is going to look really stupid when she knows the truth.

I agree Simran's biggest fault is raising Aastha as a brat and keeping her truth from her.

She should have jsut told her everything and if was not "mature" to handle it....Oh well!