What about SIA, her rights and needs?

I've been reading some of the posts here and we all seem to favor Aastha so much more. I understand that's both Aastha's and Sia's situation are both different, but why does Sia have to make all the sacrifices here.

• First off.....Why does she have to walk on pins and needles for Aastha. She's happy that the she is now untitled with both her parents after so many years. If you were in her shoes what would u do?

• Second....She has as much rights over Abhi and his time as Aastha does. Why is that she has to be the one to be more mature in this case? Why does she have to act "grown -up" before her time? So she made an announcement about her parent's marriage......why does she have to bottle up her emotions for Aastha?

• Third....I don't know why Asthma has all these insecurities? She grew up with all the love and affection. She's just up set now that her mom's world does not revolve around her now.

• Fourth.....why is everyone protecting Aastha and sheltering from the harsh realities of life? Everyone has problems. Some day you have to face up to them and be mature about it. Life is not fair to some. Yes, we can sympathize and be sensitive to her feelings, but up to a certain point.

• Fifth.....People don't have control with they fall in love with. She is young and has needs and wants too.She too see's Sid as her frined and he loves her. Isn't it only natural she she start feeling something towards him. This is nature......why are we blaming her for falling in love?
  

Well any one be happy if Sid and Aastha get married?

Why should people's lives be altered to accommodate Aashta's stubbornness?

Tell me something....has Aastha been deprived in any way? She grew up with love, education, and friendship. What more does she want?

EXCELLENT points peaches, even sia has seen her share of hardship and deceit and lies in life, how much older than astha is she 2years and everyone wants her to act mature, people are just biased because simran is her biological mother and I have asked this question before also that why doesnt sia have an equal right on abhay, hes her real father too,will write more later.

Sia first fell in love with Anand, who turned out to be her father.

Then she loves Sonu, who is going to turn out to be her Rakhi brother!

Poor Sia. She needs all our sympathy, more than Gudiya-Astha.

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I agree with you , Astha is a stubborn shameless brat . have you heard that one "bite the hand that feeds you " and thats what she is doing !!

Originally posted by: wawahehe

Not sure if Aastha is shameless - but sure that Simran in a hypocrite shameless woman.

Why would you say that? In this day in age, I believe that there should more more woman out there like her.

What makes you think she is Shameless and a hypocrite? Isn't she normal like any woman. Can't she have a few flaws like everyone?

But to the extent that she be a shameless woman.....sorry buddy....I totally disagree....😒

Great points Peaches.. Well said.. 👏

I just have one comment on your second point, Sia got her share of time & love from Abhi, remember the time when Astha wasn't aware of her father being in town, and when he was in Goa with Sia? I think it's the right time to concentrate on Astha now.. So, I guess Abhi is doing well dealing with Astha now.. 😊

Originally posted by: peaches

But to the extent that she be a shameless woman.....sorry buddy....I totally disagree....😒

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yep - i totally agree with you on this peaches...😊

and totally disagree with rak201 😉

I know that Sia spent about a month with Abhi exclusively but does that
really make up for the 18 years that she was away. Astha needs her father
right now but that does not detract from the fact that Sia needs him too.
Yes Sia is well adjusted and is more mature as compared to Astha but I
think that Simran is unfair to Sia. She is asking Sia to give up Sid for
Astha. I do feel sorry for Sia sometimes coz it is like she is being
punished for being the more mature one.

This is one serial where the leading lady is shown with flaws and that is what like about this serial. All the devis in the other serials get on my nerves... do they never commit mistakes? give me a break. Simran does commit mistakes and then also corrects it. She is now destroying Sia-Sid relationship... she will realize she is wrong.

At least she is not perfect.. and she reminds us that she is just as normal as us.

Originally posted by: peacestead

EXCELLENT points peaches, even sia has seen her share of hardship and deceit and lies in life, how much older than astha is she 2years and everyone wants her to act mature, people are just biased because simran is her biological mother and I have asked this question before also that why doesnt sia have an equal right on abhay, hes her real father too,will write more later.

She (Sia) has had only one lie in her life. On the other hand, Astha's 'mother' tells her lie after lie, her boyfriend deserts her. Simran at this stage is only mouthing 'love' to Astha. she doesn't spend even a fraction of the time she used to, with Astha.

How would you feel, if the life you lived was proven to be a sham?