What about SIA, her rights and needs? - Page 2

Originally posted by: vvrsun

She (Sia) has had only one lie in her life. On the other hand, Astha's 'mother' tells her lie after lie, her boyfriend deserts her. Simran at this stage is only mouthing 'love' to Astha. she doesn't spend even a fraction of the time she used to, with Astha.

How would you feel, if the life you lived was proven to be a sham?

I agree that simran is now caught in a web of lies, this lying should never have taken place in the first place, everything should have been in the open and simran should have been upfront with astha BUT the way ashta has behaved in the past i think simran just wanted to buy some time but tell me what is so wrong if simran spends some extra time with sia now? astha has been with simran since her birth and simran has just found her daughter after 18 years who by the way was presumed dead, any normal person would go crazy with happiness, why cant simran spend time with sia, what is so wrong about it? why does everrything have to begin and end with astha, and why does simran need asthas stamp of approval to meet her own flesh and blood? no one is saying astha did'nt face problems but we have to give simran a break here too!!!!!!!!

You are right rak201 ! If that was right for Simran to interfere in Neha-Abhi's married life then she should'nt have any objection in Abhi and Kiran's friendship...actually Simran always has double values for everything...she is really a hypocrite. Remember what she was doing when she was about to get married to Dr. Abhimanu Joshi, always showed love and care for Abhi even in front of Dr. Joshi.

Originally posted by: peacestead

... BUT the way ashta has behaved in the past i think simran just wanted to buy some time ....

By the same token, when will she ever tell her? Another suicide attempt, this time successful?

How is she buying time? Avoiding Astha?? She leaves early for 'work', doesn't share breakfast with her father or Astha, isn't home for dinner... Boy! is she really going overboard!

Originally posted by: peacestead

... but tell me what is so wrong if simran spends some extra time with sia now?

My point exactly! She could have told Astha that Sia was her own daughter, taken her in the house and then get to spend time with both Sia & Astha. Astha hates Sia just because Simran was partial to Astha.

Pranay, if he is a psychiatrist worth his salt, should have played a part here in 'counseling Astha. But then, he didn't do much for Radhaji, did he, except for some inane cliches like 'mein yeh davayian likkhe deta hoon ..."

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Originally posted by: vvrsun

By the same token, when will she ever tell her? Another suicide attempt, this time successful?

How is she buying time? Avoiding Astha?? She leaves early for 'work', doesn't share breakfast with her father or Astha, isn't home for dinner... Boy! is she really going overboard!

My point exactly! She could have told Astha that Sia was her own daughter, taken her in the house and then get to spend time with both Sia & Astha. Astha hates Sia just because Simran was partial to Astha.

Pranay, if he is a psychiatrist worth his salt, should have played a part here in 'counseling Astha. But then, he didn't do much for Radhaji, did he, except for some inane cliches like 'mein yeh davayian likkhe deta hoon ..."

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VVrsun i agree with your point here that simran should have brought sia straight home and told Astha the truth regarding sia,I never did agree with this deceptive game that simran is playing right now,who knows maybe the situation would'nt have gone so out of hand if simran had been honest from the start, I never could understand why they had to make it so complex, with sia first in a hotel, then a new home for abhay with sia moving in, the grandparents joining them everyday, it did'nt have to come to that if simran had been honest and straightforward about everything.Maybe it would have been a bitter pill for astha to swallow but at least she would have MAYBE tried, here i do understand her feeling cheated and lied to.

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wawahehe wrote: Not sure if Aastha is shameless - but sure that Simran in a hypocrite shameless woman.

Why would you say that? In this day in age, I believe that there should more more woman out there like her.

What makes you think she is Shameless and a hypocrite? Isn't she normal like any woman. Can't she have a few flaws like everyone?

But to the extent that she be a shameless woman.....sorry buddy....I totally disagree....😒


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the age diff between asstha and sia is one year and all says sia as mature and aastha as kid and immature sia sacrifices everthing actually main thing i want tto tell is aastha cant tolerate sia was loved by all especially sid and mom and all other family members and regarding simran she is not at all shame less noone has right to say anything to simran

oh dear wawaa - calling simran shameless - isn't that a bit toooo much from the "astha camp" of saying characterless? steady on old bean...

You guys are having way too much fun at the expense of these characters.. this is more interesting than Astitva... glad I joined this forum...

What is life without its share of arguments and debates....and healthy participants who at the end of the day...agree to disagree...👏