Originally posted by: flamingoAK
I totally understand her emotions. It takes time to get over these things. When Vikram and Kiara got married, Kiara didn't want him to tell anyone because she felt like people will think she is cursed. So I do feel bad for her. But I will not support her unhealthy obsession.
It's actually pretty easy to say "be happy in your lover's happiness" but it's hard. It's only for saints. I may get happy seeing my lover happy with someone else but it will pinch me forever that he is happy with someone else and not me. One sided love is only for people like Birju, who is seriously the epitome of love. That's why I keep praising him. Because what he is doing is really hard. Killing your own feelings to just see your love happy, that's the top kind of love hehe. 😆
But in real life, you get over it. It may take weeks or months or sometimes even years, but you do get over it. And if not over it, you learn to live with it and you move on. Kiara will get over it too. But her unhealthy obsession for someone who is not even interested in her is creepy. Imagine if roles were reversed, then we would not shy away from blaming the guy or calling him creep.