Why will Anuj and Anupama's relationship be successful second time?

They broke up because of certain reasons. Anupama was obsessed with her exes, the daughter felt neglected, the simp husband also finally dared to question her priorities. She felt that was unfair and ran away.

So what has changed now? She is still as obsessed with Vanraj and Shahs, still leaves everything and runs back to India when something happens at Shahs. We still have a million rituals and ceremonies coming up, Dimpy will have a kid, the grand kids are still there, Baa and Babuji still need attention. Her best friend Kavya, bahu like Kinjal all are there. Acche pita still needs validation and emotional support.

Why would Adhya or Anuj feel any different? All that will happen is that Anuj will keep scolding Aadhya and keeping his resentment inside while Anupama spends most time at Shahs again. And then one day he will again break and question her.

Nothing has changed, no one has learned any lessons, so how is this second milaap going to end any different than the first one? Maybe instead of running away herself, this time she will kick the simp out instead?

This time they wont have any expectations towards each other. The simp will marry her so that he can lie at her feet and Anupamaa will marry him so that she can satisfy her carnal desires while mentally loving the khada sona.

It will only work if Adhya dies or leaves, Majnu will weep for a few days/months/years and then crawl back to his lady love after being guilt tripped by her support army.

The bhakt army hates Adhya anyway, she is reduced to Pakhi and Toshu's level now. Better for her to exit ApMaAn lives instead of being apmaanit for eternity.

Anuj has realised that as long as he doesn't question Anupama about ANYTHING, doesn't demand, agrees to Everything Anupama says or does and provides for Shahs and her, she will be by his side.

The only technical hurdle in this is Adhya. I say technical because, he has stopped listening to her insecurities, her concerns, stopped understanding her or valuing her presence in his life.

Now, with Anupama repeatedly pointing out that she Cannot come into his life due to Adhya's hatred towards her, he is ALL the more becoming bitter towards Adhya.

I won't be surprised If he actually tells Adhya that she is a roadblock in their happiness just like how he has been recounting the sacrifices and favours done on her.

I hope Adhya's character is made to exit respectfully so that the "Not-at-ALL MaAn" couple can re-unite. This re-union will be seamless because the existence will not matter.

Anuj has learnt his lesson now.. hopefully he will work on his mistakes and try to be a better table..a foot stool to be precise..

Writers be like:

Nothing will change...except Anuj knows not to question Maa again. I don't understand when Anuj says "poori duniya se lad kar hum yaha tak pahuche hain..."I mean who is stopping them? They themselves are not able to live together because of certain reasons.

Originally posted by: Harish111

They broke up because of certain reasons. Anupama was obsessed with her exes, the daughter felt neglected, the simp husband also finally dared to question her priorities. She felt that was unfair and ran away.

So what has changed now? She is still as obsessed with Vanraj and Shahs, still leaves everything and runs back to India when something happens at Shahs. We still have a million rituals and ceremonies coming up, Dimpy will have a kid, the grand kids are still there, Baa and Babuji still need attention. Her best friend Kavya, bahu like Kinjal all are there. Acche pita still needs validation and emotional support.

Why would Adhya or Anuj feel any different? All that will happen is that Anuj will keep scolding Aadhya and keeping his resentment inside while Anupama spends most time at Shahs again. And then one day he will again break and question her.

Nothing has changed, no one has learned any lessons, so how is this second milaap going to end any different than the first one? Maybe instead of running away herself, this time she will kick the simp out instead?

Originally posted by: Harish111

They broke up because of certain reasons. Anupama was obsessed with her exes, the daughter felt neglected, the simp husband also finally dared to question her priorities. She felt that was unfair and ran away.

So what has changed now? She is still as obsessed with Vanraj and Shahs, still leaves everything and runs back to India when something happens at Shahs. We still have a million rituals and ceremonies coming up, Dimpy will have a kid, the grand kids are still there, Baa and Babuji still need attention. Her best friend Kavya, bahu like Kinjal all are there. Acche pita still needs validation and emotional support.

Why would Adhya or Anuj feel any different? All that will happen is that Anuj will keep scolding Aadhya and keeping his resentment inside while Anupama spends most time at Shahs again. And then one day he will again break and question her.

Nothing has changed, no one has learned any lessons, so how is this second milaap going to end any different than the first one? Maybe instead of running away herself, this time she will kick the simp out instead?

Such a valid question. I feel strongly about Anuj-Anu getting their happily ever after, but would that be possible in the face of so many unresolved issues.

Anupama has not shown remorse for her actions. Terrible writing and inconsistency on her leaving Anuj and Adhya on being questioned about her priorities. Anuj was wrong too in not being thankful that she returned home after a major accident, nevertheless, just leaving them behind was such a bad choice, especially when they had a 7-year old adopted daughter whose mother died saving you. Anupama realizes that her daughter is mad at her, but does she understand that no matter what a child does, a parent should never leave a 7-year old behind.

And Anuj, does he not realize that the Shah family would probably need Anupama more now with ageing Baa-Bapuji. Would he be okay in sharing Anupama all the time all over again?

And the writers can write at least one scene on Anuj remembering GK, Muku and his other family.

Similarly, they can also show Anupama at least thinking about Malti Devi, she is not even in her prayers now.

With the new track, it's all moot. Hopefully it is not a ten year leap. But I don't know why the writers are so sadistic.