Adhya being a brat? - Page 2

Yes and on top of that pakhi and toshu didn't have troubled past but adhya does so it's understood why she is behaving the way she is . But what about trashraj products they don't have reason to be the way they are

Yup that track vanished away in thin air

You are right all they need is one episode to make someone an anupama bhakt and here to adhya was an ex bhakt so easy peasy especially if rumours are true about anuj dying then besht maa hi to apni bebli ko sambhalegi

Most unfortunate thing is that her own father who apparently loves her the most still keeps shoving those toxic shahs down her throat instead of letting her heal

Ajeeb hai ye aadmi. Arre tune apne Ex biwi ke sasural wale ke saath rishta hii kyun rakha hai bhai? Apne mangetar aur eklauti bacchi pe focus kado na. Isliye mujhe uss bechari aadhya kilye bohot bura lagta hai. Usse itne matlabi aur ghirre hue maa baap jo milla hai 💔

While Aadhya’s mental anguish is understandable, the reactions of the adults when she acts up is not normal. If anyone with mental health issues was behaving the way Aadhya is doing, the parents, caring adults, would have made sure to get her professional help. She is acting delusional and while there might be an excuse behind it, allowing her to continue behaving like that is not treating the condition, it will only further hamper her emotionally and socially.

So while Aadhya’s condition may cause one to feel sympathy for her, her behavior is still not acceptable and has to be dealt with/treated. Treating the symptom by putting a band aid on it and saying oh she was exposed to such and such is not what matters, the underlying condition has to be addressed professionally, meaning by a medical professional.

I also don't like Aadya's behavior. Makers are deliberately making her character go overboard. Showing a child harbouring so much hatred for whatever reason is incorrect. Overall it is not a "feel good" show. It is full of negativity.

Originally posted by: Time_to_move_on

I also don't like Aadya's behavior. Makers are deliberately making her character go overboard. Showing a child harbouring so much hatred for whatever reason is incorrect. Overall it is not a "feel good" show. It is full of negativity.

Because they want ww pakhi and toshu as being good kid while aadhya as bad kid

That's the only reason

For the last time.

Each of us have been teenagers. We, in real life, may not have faced what the girl has in her short life but any sane person can understand the pain and sincerely wish no person in real life ever has to endure what Aadhya's character has and is enduring. And if she needs help to heal, the adults around her, who are the reason for her state, need Professional Help to become sane, First.

Adhya is the Effect, the Cause is the parents she got who subjected her to pain which resulted in her reactions (which are justified).

So, if we want different results, first we need to work on the cause.

Adhya was shown as a chirpy, mature teenager who was a budding athlete. She wasn't shown as a misbehaved child at ALL. In fact it was shown she had begun to heal under medication and Anuj and Shruti's care.

Trouble ensued when she first saw Anupama and her bitter memories of the past cast shadows on her peaceful life. She had seen her father's struggles, his pain and had become bitter to whatever they had to endure and the person who was the cause of it. Their frequent encounters and her father's longing and relapse scared her of facing the painful past again and she started reacting. Slowly, the whole Khandaan coming to the same country, city and their frequent encounters brought back ALL her fears and trauma.

What does one do when one faces the source of their past trauma and Is frequently subject to such encounters even after clearly stating otherwise?

It is not about her needing treatment but Anuj and Shruti some commonsense to NOT subject her through Any interaction. How hard is it fir them to understand.

It is commonsense and sensitivity that the woman who abandoned her child "unki khusi ke liye" to stay away from her, uske mann ki saanti (shanti) ke liye. If she does NOT comply, it means she did NOTHING anyone's khusi ke liye but for her own twisted logic.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

While Aadhya’s mental anguish is understandable, the reactions of the adults when she acts up is not normal. If anyone with mental health issues was behaving the way Aadhya is doing, the parents, caring adults, would have made sure to get her professional help. She is acting delusional and while there might be an excuse behind it, allowing her to continue behaving like that is not treating the condition, it will only further hamper her emotionally and socially.

So while Aadhya’s condition may cause one to feel sympathy for her, her behavior is still not acceptable and has to be dealt with/treated. Treating the symptom by putting a band aid on it and saying oh she was exposed to such and such is not what matters, the underlying condition has to be addressed professionally, meaning by a medical professional.

One of the first thing any professional will tell you, is don't subject the child to the same trauma situation. Remove the child from situation which causes trauma.

The only solution to make her better is to keep her away from the source of trauma, aka Anupama. Which is also what she has been begging her dad and her finance to do.

No victim can ever heal from trauma if they are constantly subjected to the source of the trauma.

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Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

For the last time.

Each of us have been teenagers. We, in real life, may not have faced what the girl has in her short life but any sane person can understand the pain and sincerely wish no person in real life ever has to endure what Aadhya's character has and is enduring. And if she needs help to heal, the adults around her, who are the reason for her state, need Professional Help to become sane, First.

Adhya is the Effect, the Cause is the parents she got who subjected her to pain which resulted in her reactions (which are justified).

So, if we want different results, first we need to work on the cause.

Adhya was shown as a chirpy, mature teenager who was a budding athlete. She wasn't shown as a misbehaved child at ALL. In fact it was shown she had begun to heal under medication and Anuj and Shruti's care.

Trouble ensued when she first saw Anupama and her bitter memories of the past cast shadows on her peaceful life. She had seen her father's struggles, his pain and had become bitter to whatever they had to endure and the person who was the cause of it. Their frequent encounters and her father's longing and relapse scared her of facing the painful past again and she started reacting. Slowly, the whole Khandaan coming to the same country, city and their frequent encounters brought back ALL her fears and trauma.

What does one do when one faces the source of their past trauma and Is frequently subject to such encounters even after clearly stating otherwise?

It is not about her needing treatment but Anuj and Shruti some commonsense to NOT subject her through Any interaction. How hard is it fir them to understand.

It is commonsense and sensitivity that the woman who abandoned her child "unki khusi ke liye" to stay away from her, uske mann ki saanti (shanti) ke liye. If she does NOT comply, it means she did NOTHING anyone's khusi ke liye but for her own twisted logic.

Yep, these people keep talking about professionals and getting her treatment but the first thing a professional will ask is to keep the child away from the source of trauma and never let her face the source.

Isn't that exactly what adhya has been begging her dad and his fiance to do? Please keep me away from Anupama?