Adhya being a brat?

Recently came across an article which mentioned the "effects of childhood abandonment don't go away when the child gets older "

One study as per that article found childhood abandonment may also contribute to violent offenses.

Here adhya has been shown having repeated panic attacks which is not a small thing. It's a deep rooted childhood trauma

Not supporting her behavior but fully understand where she is coming from as even if we forget all those incidents where she was neglected by her mother for abusive people we can't forget the day anupama so causally and without blinking an eye left a fostered child who was so much more understanding and loving then her own trashraj products ( well she was understanding until Balti devi didn't Brainwash her and anupama gave her more reasons to trust balti devi and no i am not talking about the car incident at all )

Car incident could have been explained better to CA by anupama . Instead here we have self proclaimed best mother who left CA after an argument proving all CA's doubts and insecurity right .

So there is a strong reason behind her being a brat. Sympathy here is given to the wrong person by dkp as instead of understanding adhya useless shahs were behaving as if they don't know what they have done to traumatize poor child

Try explaining to her fans - they refuse to understand.

Me runs away

Originally posted by: Radhiii

Recently came across an article which mentioned the "effects of childhood abandonment don't go away when the child gets older "

One study as per that article found childhood abandonment may also contribute to violent offenses.

Here adhya has been shown having repeated panic attacks which is not a small thing. It's a deep rooted childhood trauma

Not supporting her behavior but fully understand where she is coming from as even if we forget all those incidents where she was neglected by her mother for abusive people we can't forget the day anupama so causally and without blinking an eye left a fostered child who was so much more understanding and loving then her own trashraj products ( well she was understanding until Balti devi didn't Brainwash her and anupama gave her more reasons to trust balti devi and no i am not talking about the car incident at all )

Car incident could have been explained better to CA by anupama . Instead here we have self proclaimed best mother who left CA after an argument proving all CA's doubts and insecurity right .

So there is a strong reason behind her being a brat. Sympathy here is given to the wrong person by dkp as instead of understanding adhya useless shahs were behaving as if they don't know what they have done to traumatize poor child

When children do not get love & affection in their childhood, they tend to grow up to not trust others and have difficulty finding contentment in adulthood. This is a fact. But there are many families (especially in rural pockets*) who do not know how to express love since they were never exposed to it themselves and they don’t think/know that it can have an impact on children.

It will take generations to understand and take correct steps at the right time, so the cycle stops. This show has done more damage than good, sending out wrong message to the masses. Unfortunate, isn’t it?

PS: I mention rural because bulk of the rural population tend have less education, exposure and are economically underprivileged. In such circumstances, love/affection etc will be considered secondary, unfortunately. I don’t mean to generalize making blanket statements, there are certainly exceptions. Just stating my observations.

Not been watching the show since Doshu got out of jail but I am guessing they are still focusing on pseudo-udaan and have completely forgotten about the "dard maine diya to dawa bhi main hi dungi" track.

Don't worry, this time some more goons or a bad guy will try to molest Adhya and Maa will save her before Shruti can, and within half an episode all her issues will evaporate and she will become bhakt again. Who needs trauma resolution when you have plot armour?

Meri nazar mein toh uss bacchi ka behaviour normal hain. Haan maanti hoon ki badtameezi karna bohot galat hai parr woh bechari karre to kya karre? Usne choti si umar mein itna dukh dekha hai ki uske andar mein dard ka aag jall raha hain. Isliye toh uski zabaan bohot karvi hain. Sabne uska dil toda hai aur usse matra dukh, dard aur taqleef diya hai isliye woh insaaf chaati hai. Mere saath bhi bohot logo ne galat kiya magar maine kabhi palat ke jawab nahi diya Aadhya ke jaise kyunki mai uski jaise mazboot nahi hoon. Iss dard ne usko ek fighter banaya jo at least acchi baat hai. Lacchar aur bechari banne se you accha hai.

I've stopped watching. Her negativity is ruining the show. It's really horrible to watch

Originally posted by: noodle2808

I've stopped watching. Her negativity is ruining the show. It's really horrible to watch

The main lead running to Shahs and getting insulted and abused everyday is not negativity? She crying and being depressed 90% of time is not negativity? But a small abandoned kid being angry with the woman who abandoned her and ran away is?

Ppl have no idea whose a brat

The entitled boys in delhi who take gun and hit jessica bec she refused an extra drink are real brats in childhood

The men who drink and run over pavement dwellers are real brats

Someone like toshu who steals and than acts like saint is brat

Someone like pakhi who uses anuj credit card but never respect him or thank him is a brat

Couldn't agree more

Show is doing damage and yet some people have audacity to say that this show and titular character has empowered lot of women in real life