anupama’s not the maid anymore

She’s just a push-in for the Shah family at this point. She’s forcefully pushing herself in their matters and their home. And then she acts like the victim. What was her reason to call Titu to the restaurant? Who is she to Dimpy after she left everyone 5 years ago? Who is she to evaluate Titu? She’s very much saying that she wants to live for herself, her dreams, etc. Why is she now trying to become MAA now when everything is so convenient for her? Where was her MAA syndrome when times were tough with Aadhya?

Vanraj told her many times that please stay away from our matters for the love of God. The Shahs are not her family. Vanraj was right- life was very peaceful when Anupama was not there. Everyone was able to peacefully manage in their own way. Anupama is just barging into Toshu and Kinjal’s home like it’s her own when she’s even said that she HAD to live there to get Toshu to jail and she wouldn’t want to regardless. Now that her sending Toshu to jail plan went flop, she’s still coming? Why madam? Why are you still coming into the home for the people you supposedly despise?

She’s not the unpaid maid anymore. She doesn’t have anyone to be mahaan for anymore. She has to show Yashdeep that she does so much for someone and they don’t appreciate her bechari MAA.

She is the eternal maid of the Shahs.

Its her natural drive.

Her instinct.

Despite being a divorcee of Vanraj, she has absolutely no issue to stay under same roof with the ever abusive Vanraj n his cruella mom.

Bkoz she sees n senses utter love from their negativity towards her.

She regards her grown up arses of kids as her babies who consistently need her intervention in their lives, be it for big or small issues. Now i bet their hatred for her will not suit her. She will make sure that they realise her worth in their lives, be it for few hours, but still....

She has no reserves n guilt or shame or anything if ego in her that she is still simpering for the Shahs. A family that rejected her, time and again. Repeatedly.

But when her ex new family, the Kapadiyas, said something untoward to her, to hell she sent them...

Like we say...she tossed the baby n the dirty bathwater.

The parallels are so distinct.

Her ex hubby is still smitten with her. Her adopted kid is full of negativity n hatred for her, the family needs her....yet she opted for their betterment to stay away. N that too, so very firmly.

Why!?!?

I could only come with one plausible reason for her stark peculiar choice in marital things...or post divorce thing.

She thrives in being a doormat. At least, everyone will touch her as they trample on her n her dignity. She'll feel their warmth n clean them from dirt, keep their home clean n pure. Basically a typical doormat.

Whereas Anuj treated her as his queen. He had proudly put her as a crown on his family's head. But all she could do, as a crown, was being perched high up, where people only gaze at n admire, not dream or aspire to touch, hold or cherish. N nobody actually abuses a crown, koz its the role of a crown...to dazzle people n unfortunately made her hubby bore her with cheesy poems . A cold n pathetic life.

Anupama is hypocrite. After saying so many times that she does not want to be involved in any relationships she is happily involving herself in all shahs matters.

Where is her adamance now? When she talks to Anuj she becomes so firm and adamant. But with shahs she behaves as if nothing got changed in 5 years.

Kya anupama dimpy kinjal ki SaaS nahi hai

Kya pakhi toshu anupama ke bache

Nahi hai

Kya, anupama Pari ki dadi nahi hai

Yeh kya baat hui ki vanraj keh raha hai anupama Se ki mere parivar se door raho Kya matlab hai mere parivar se door raho who is he stop anupama meeting from her children daughter in. Law grand daughter

Jaise dimpy kinjal vanraj ki bahu pakhi toshu anupama ke bache hai usi Tarah dimpy anupama ki bahu toshu pakhi anupama ke bache hai

Divorce ho Gays hai Iska Matlab yeh thode hi dimpy anupama ki bahu nahi hai toshu pakhi anupama ke bache nahi rahe

Aur vanraj se aisa,Kya kiya hai dimpy ke liye swayed control karne ka

Anupama ne tabhi samar ke jaane ke baad emotional support Kya,hsi anupama ne tabhi dimpy ko justice dilwaya hai

Toshu pakhi are will remainchildren of anupama kimjal dimpy are still will remain bagin ansh Pari will Remain grand children of anupama no matter what kind of relationship they share with anupama

And this kinjal was crying Mera Ghar ka kaam nahi aata and baa was saying to anupama ki tumne breakfast nahi banaya ??it was said after baa come to America .koi milk wash nahi hai baa vanraj Kitni baar vanraj baa anupama ko call Kiya hai please aa jaao Pari ko dekh lo

Baa khud hi keh rahi thi an se tum function mein itna ate kyon aayi ho

Aur yahi baa bol rahi thi anupama murrabba banaygi kyonki anupama murrabba Acha banati hai Kitni baar to baa bapuji kinjal vanraj ne anupama countless call karke khud anupama ko shah house mein Bulaya Hai

Ek baat to taye hai

Ki jub tuk yeh serial chal raha hai shah aur anupama ko connection kabhi nahi chootega .chahe jaise connection dikhaya jaaye but writer will show it anyhow

Agar anupama shah house nahi jaayegi to to bhi kya hoga ise shah Kapadia mein chala jaata hai

Ab writer chahte to vanraj baa ko America nahi bhejte woh chahte to America ke bajaye vanraj ko kahi aur bhi bhej sakte they

Magar nahi writer ko anupama vanraj baa ke beech connection dikhaya Bina raha hi nahi jaata

So let's forget ki vanraj baa aur anupama ke beech connection ke band ho jaayega

Aise to anupama anuj ka divorce bhi ho gaya hai bit writer showing connection between anupama and Anuj and aadya

To yeh connection writer dikha ke rahenge how much we dislike it

Only choice either we stop watching serial or tolerate such type of connection because writer connection dikhana band karne wale to hai nahi

It has almost 3 year anupama ko divorce liye ho jub in 3 year mein anupama ka shah se connection band nahi hua yo ab kya karenge

One koshcen:

Why did Anupama stay away from everyone for 5 years as "jogan"?

What did she do as "jogan"?

Was there like a cooling period where she would no longer be a matkadhari?

Nothing new happened that day,

even after repeatedly warnings from Vanraj to "stay away" Anupama and Kinjal planned a "picnic" --> which turned into a nightmare of an accident --> ALL hell broke lose at Shah House and Vanraj banished her from Shah House and mohalla --> This time, for a change, Anupama confessed to her dedication to Shahs At The Cost of her family (Kapadias) --> Anuj, fed up of the constant drama due to Shahs and Anupama's neglect, questions her priorities or the lack of it (the only new thing in the 3 years of Anuj-Anupama marriage) --> Anupama conveniently walked out on them never to look back --> Anuj looks for her in vain --> Anupama moves to Vadodara and leads a recluse life of a "jogan" with NO contact with the outside world except Devika who acts as a bridge with the outside world and a khabri to Hansmukh to keep him informed of her wellbeing.

1. This was a time when a pregnant Dimple was just getting back on her feet after her world completely changed.

2. Choti Anu was battling insecurities and fears of abandonment which was reflective in her rude behaviour.

So staying away 5 years from children is counted nut what about anupama given ti children 28 year

Exactly, 28 year old were NOT "children". Definitely not ones who "needed" her for whom she did everything.

The only people who needed her, she abandoned with her convenient reason "Aapki khusi ke liye".

Even now, Vanraj is giving her what she needs, a reason to leave. What is her reason to stay abhi?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Exactly, 28 year old were NOT "children". Definitely not ones who "needed" her for whom she did everything.

The only people who needed her, she abandoned with her convenient reason "Aapki khusi ke liye".

Even now, Vanraj is giving her what she needs, a reason to leave. What is her reason to stay abhi?

When only Vanraj and Baa came to America (and Toshu and kinjal were in a different house) Anupama still went to serve baa and talk to vanraj. At that point none of her kids or grandkids were with them, even Babuji was not there but she still was very happy to serve and meet baa and vanraj. The happiness she showed at meeting Baa, she never showed on meeting Anuj and Adhya.

Originally posted by: Harish111

When only Vanraj and Baa came to America (and Toshu and kinjal were in a different house) Anupama still went to serve baa and talk to vanraj. At that point none of her kids or grandkids were with them, even Babuji was not there but she still was very happy to serve and meet baa and vanraj. The happiness she showed at meeting Baa, she never showed on meeting Anuj and Adhya.

Dekho, it is said, she went only for her "kids".

Even now, she did not want naate rishte (only directed to Kapadias).

She seems to have shifted base to Paritosh-Kinjal's.

Koi sense banta hain insab ka?