Anupama is so lucky - Page 11

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

What you are referring to is Mendelian Inheritance which was study conducted by Gregor Mendel on pea plants and focused on inheritance of traits from parent to child.

But in this context i.e. behaviour, we need to consider Behavioural Genetics which focuses on the relationship of genetic variation and psychological traits. Because well you know...Toshu, Pakhi, Samar and Aadhya's genetic makeup is slightly more complex than a pea plant.

Also the background of behavioural genetics comes from selective breeding that was done to get better horses, cattle etc in ancient times. And this change was not observed in a small sample size. The breeders bred for several generations before they saw a change in the traits of the animals changing from 'wild' to more 'domesticated' versions.

So then Toshu, Pakhi and Samar are too small a sample size. So we must look to the next generation as well. That would be Ansh and Pari, as Ishani is adopted. So we set her aside.

Now Pari seems to be a relatively settled child even though she is inheriting gene from Toshu who as you say inherited the dominant gene of Vanraj. So then by your logic, Pari should have been a wild spoiled child. Hmmm...but she isn't..

I said V 's genes seemed to be dominant in T from his behaviour.That doesn't mean this particular trait should be dominant in Pari.Pari can get traits of Anu which is dormant in T and Pari can get traits of Kinjal as well.

Okay, we'll call that observation 1.

Now let's focus on Ansh who is the biological child of Samar, who as you say got dominant traits from Anupama. Okay...so following that Ansh should have inherited an interest in dance and been a relatively calm, settled child. Ah...but the science seems to be going off course again...he's quite uh...let's say naughty...no?

Ansh can get V's trait also which was dormant in Samar but can exhibit in Ansh.Ansh can also have Dimpy's traits as she is his mother.

Okay well that's observation 2.

Of course we must also consider the fact that Behavioural Genetics has been mostly studied on twins. Monozygotic twins and Dizygotic twins. I am sure you are very aware of what they are since this is science and fact.

The monozygotic twins exhibited similar behaviour despite being raised apart because as you must be aware monozygotic twins share 100% genome and dizygotic twins share 50% of their genome. Which means genetically monozygotic twins are identical but even they were found to not be completely in sync when it came to psychiatric disorder or behavioural traits because even Behavioural Genetics admits that environment plays a role in human behaviour.

Science! Science believes environment plays a role in human behaviour and accepts that environmental influence can infact make members of the same family vary in behaviour.

Well now Observation 1 and Observation 2 are starting to make sense. How Ansh is more erratic in behaviour despite inheriting the traits from Samar who had the dominant traits of Anupama and why Pari is more calm and well natured despite inheriting traits from Toshu who had the dominant traits of Vanraj.

I have explained above that Pari can inherit Anu's genes which was dormant in T but can be dominant in Pari.Like wise Ansh can inherit V's genes which was dormant in Samar but dominant in Ansh.

Hmmm...so I guess even science can't save your nonsensical argument that Aadhya's behaviour is something solely inherited from Maya. It is not. It is the combined effort of genetics and environment in which Anupama sad to say did play a part. So we cannot negate Anupama's influence from the way Aadhya has turned out and the same is true for the other children as well, excluding the grandchildren where Anupama has remained a fleeting presence. And that my dear is the cold hard bitter truth

i said Adhya 's genetic traits can be comapared only with Maya as her father is not known.May be her father was also a psycho like her mom and may be she got his genes.

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P,S plz focus on points.no time to read essays .

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Did toshu pakhi make breakfast for every body like anupama do

Both are freeloader atleast anupama is not

Pakhi to apne bache ko adhik se milne nahi deti

But anupama ne kabhi va vanraj ko apne bachon se milne se mana nahi Kiya

Infact vanraj hi anupama ko apne teen bachon se milne nahi deta Jo quality pakhi ne vanraj de inherit ki ki woh apne father ke foot step pe chalte hue ishaani ko adhik se milne nahi deti

Jaise vanraj baithe baithe dominate karta hai waise pakhi baithe karti koi

To quality fo pakhi ki vanraj se milti julti hai

Yahan pakhi to doosre ke pyaar ko cheene chahte hi

Anupama ne kub doosre ke pyaar ko cheene ki koshish ki

Aisi Kaun si quality pakhi toshu ki anupama se li ha that anupama should get blame for what pakhi toshu are ?

Pakhi and toshu are more close to vanraj than anupama and both are following vanraj steps

Hence both toshu and pakhi are has effect of Vanraj not of anupama

Both pakhi and toshu gone to vanraj

This is true dear P and T are more like V. He has influenced them more than Anu. Both are arrogant ,thankless and selfish like V. Only Samar is like Anu.

Originally posted by: Paru...

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P,S plz focus on points.no time to read essays .

It is good to read essays they help improve your knowledge.

Instead of all the harping on things you don't know.

Once again why bring up a father who has had no interaction with Aadhya?

You keep on saying that genetics are playing a role. But even scientists accept that genetics alone don't shape a person's behaviour.

BTW if you had bothered reading the essay as you call it then you would know I have said clearly we are not bringing Mendelian Inheritance and claiming it's an exact science. It was conducted on pea plants. Human genetics are far more complex

You assume Ansh inherited V's trait and/or Dimpy's trait and that's why he is the way he is. But that science is not exact. He can very well have inherited Anupama's traits and still be the way he is. Because his environment also plays a role in his behaviour

Gulab ka plant lekar aao. Aur din raat usko shadow me rakho. And then behaviour observe karo. Phir ye mat kehna. Arre iske toh genetics me rose dena aisa hai. Phir kyun nahi de raha hai?

Aur uske baad jaa kar thode essays padho taki ye regressive thinking nikal jaye

Get well soon

Originally posted by: Paru...

Everything is available in internet,then why should i read ur half cooked knowledge.?

When did I say that genetic alone plays to shape a person's behaviour.But even u can't disagree that Genetics also plays in the behaviour and traits of a person.I was just stating that.

we were talking about genetics ,So had to talk about Adhya's bio father.(why is it bothering u??)

mein essays padum ya na padu TUM KO KYA??

khud ki regressive thinking ke baare mein soch lo.

Get Well Soon

What bothers me is the tone in which you call out Adhya's bio father.

Baap ka pata nahi sound regressively low and demented.

Just imagine going to an orphan and saying oh iske toh baap ka pata nahi. How hurtful does it sound.

And once again genetics might make you like sweet over spicy or science over dance or red over blue it has nothing to do with trauma, and social surroundings

Adhya's issues stem majorly from her environment pre and post leap and Anupama did play a part in it. No amount of genetics can change that fact.

Thoda socha karo. Bolne ka bhi tarika hota hai. The way you speak about Aadhya's biological parents is extremely derogatory and I will keep condemning it

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Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

What bothers me is the tone in which you call out Adhya's bio father.

Baap ka pata nahi sound regressively low and demented.

Just imagine going to an orphan and saying oh iske toh baap ka pata nahi. How hurtful does it sound.

And once again genetics might make you like sweet over spicy or science over dance or red over blue it has nothing to do with trauma, and social surroundings

Adhya's issues stem majorly from her environment pre and post leap and Anupama did play a part in it. No amount of genetics can change that fact.

Thoda socha karo. Bolne ka bhi tarika hota hai. The way you speak about Aadhya's biological parents is extremely derogatory and I will keep condemning it

what to write when i am actually unaware about her bio father. Btw being a South Indian my Hindi isn't very good. So if u can suggest me any Urdu words to to make CA's bio father look more respectful Plz do.

In all these 12 years of her life Anu was with her just for one and half or two years and Anuj has been living with her since last 7 years. So if Adya has any mental issues who is more responsible for it?According to me Anuj only is responsible as he didn't make any attempt to reduce her hatred for Anu by giving her pep talk or counselling.

Btw panic attacks are also one sort of mental disease which can also be genetically transmitted as everyone don't get traumatized when their parents get separated..

Originally posted by: Paru...

what to write when i am actually unaware about her bio father. Btw being a South Indian my Hindi isn't very good. So if u can suggest me any Urdu words to to make CA's bio father look more respectful Plz do.

In all these 12 years of her life Anu was with her just for one and half or two years and Anuj has been living with her since last 7 years. So if Adya has any mental issues who is more responsible for it?According to me Anuj only is responsible as he didn't make any attempt to reduce her hatred for Anu by giving her pep talk or counselling.

Btw panic attacks are also one sort of mental disease which can also be genetically transmitted as everyone don't get traumatized when their parents get separated..

And why wasn't anupama with her???? Why was only anuj with her when she was both's responsibility and THEIR child???

kids mostly don't get traumatized when their parents gets separated WHEN both the parents sit down and explain them. Not one parent running away and other had no idea how to deal with a traumatized kid

That I agree that both parents are responsible. But here as the mother was absent as they were divorced then Anuj should taken more care.

It was shown that she has left KM. But after that divorce happened , the custody of CA solely went to Anuj. But he leaves U,S with CA .Then how was it possible to discuss about the trauma and panic attacks of the child with Anu.??

Originally posted by: Paru...

That I agree that both parents are responsible. But here as the mother was absent as they were divorced then Anuj should taken more care.

It was shown that she has left KM. But after that divorce happened , the custody of CA solely went to Anuj. But he leaves U,S with CA .Then how was it possible to discuss about the trauma and panic attacks of the child with Anu.??

Vanraj humiliated her more than anyone ever could, told her to never come back, she said koi mishrer shah mujhe apne bacho se door nahi kar sakte, unke bole se kuch nahi hota etc. When pakhi felt neglected while kavya was manipulating her she didn't leave her right, she tried to make her understand inspite of all her badtameezi.

Anuj questioning her in that moment was WRONG but what was an 8 year old's mistake in that

Originally posted by: Muskie

yes dear that's what I'm asking why was the mother absent??? She was never absent during toshu, pakhi Or samar

Vanraj humiliated her more than anyone ever could, told her to never come back, she said koi mishrer shah mujhe apne bacho se door nahi kar sakte, unke bole se kuch nahi hota etc. When pakhi felt neglected while kavya was manipulating her she didn't leave her right, she tried to make her understand inspite of all her badtameezi.

Anuj questioning her in that moment was WRONG but what was an 8 year old's mistake in that

Nahi just question karne see maa apne 7 years ke bacche ko chod kar bhag jati hai. This is the logic of Anupama stans. If a husband or wife has a fight, Har maa apne chote bacche ko just chod kar bhag Jaye.