Why Shruti and Shah's are still in the show ??

SHRUTI - what's with Shruti. She knows Anuj can never love her and Aadhya doesn’t actually hate anupama but wants to be her mother’s priority. So how is Shruti just okay being part of their lives knowing she won’t get anything from them?

Shahs family especially babpuji ,pakhi and leela are useless and has no role in the show then why are they stil in the show.. dimpy and titu love story is kinda okay since they both actually looking good together but what's with babpuji and Leela ... Why they still exit in the show ??

Anupama always told that she loves all children equally to baar baar yeh choti ko pehle priority ki baat kahan se aa rahi jub anupama ne yeh baa clear kar diya ki she loves all children equally

Suppose agar aaj se 30 year ki pehle ki baat kare to.

Ghar ek 8 year ki bachi hai aur doosri 21 year bacho

Ek 8 year ki bachi ka pshaai hai aur ek shaadi Karni hai

Maa kaise priority decide kare ki ek beti ko shaadi kare ya ek beti ki padhaai karwayd

Priority decide karna aasan nahi Hota

Sub khuch saath saath hota hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama always told that she loves all children equally to baar baar yeh choti ko pehle priority ki baat kahan se aa rahi jub anupama ne yeh baa clear kar diya ki she loves all children equally

Suppose agar aaj se 30 year ki pehle ki baat kare to.

Ghar ek 8 year ki bachi hai aur doosri 21 year bacho

Ek 8 year ki bachi ka pshaai hai aur ek shaadi Karni hai

Maa kaise priority decide kare ki ek beti ko shaadi kare ya ek beti ki padhaai karwayd

Priority decide karna aasan nahi Hota

Sub khuch saath saath hota hai

Muh khol kar kuch bhi bol dene woh sacch nahi ho jata.

BTW meri great grandmother ke 5 bacche the 2 daughters 3 sons

And she never had any issue raising 2 daughters equally.

My Nani was a nurse and her sister a teacher. They were both asked by my great grandmother what profession they want.

And they were both allowed to pursue it.

Their brothers all picked their professions similarly

Ye toh maa pe hai ki woh apne baccho ko kaise paal rahi hai.

Maa chahe toh 8 saal ki bacchi ki padhai bhi ho sakti hai and 21 saal ke bacchi ki shaadi bhi ho sakti hai

Par maa sirf 21 saal ki bacchi ke picche hi padi rahe and phir nautanki kare ki 8 saal ki bacchi usse nahi samajh rahi toh woh hi dogli hai.

Isme baccho ki koi galti nahi

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

Muh khol kar kuch bhi bol dene woh sacch nahi ho jata.

BTW meri great grandmother ke 5 bacche the 2 daughters 3 sons

And she never had any issue raising 2 daughters equally.

My Nani was a nurse and her sister a teacher. They were both asked by my great grandmother what profession they want.

And they were both allowed to pursue it.

Their brothers all picked their professions similarly

Ye toh maa pe hai ki woh apne baccho ko kaise paal rahi hai.

Maa chahe toh 8 saal ki bacchi ki padhai bhi ho sakti hai and 21 saal ke bacchi ki shaadi bhi ho sakti hai

Par maa sirf 21 saal ki bacchi ke picche hi padi rahe and phir nautanki kare ki 8 saal ki bacchi usse nahi samajh rahi toh woh hi dogli hai.

Isme baccho ki koi galti nahi

Pehli baat, aap ek 21 saal ki shaadishuda ladki ke liye attention aur usse aadhe se kam ki, 8 saal ki bachchi ke liye attention ko compare kar rahe hain?

Agar Pakhi se Choti koi behan hoti toh kya tab bhi bade hone ke baad bhi Maa ke attention ke liye zidd karti? Kya maa khud apni sabse Choti beti ko zyada attention deti na. Forget that, Pakhi ke bachpan time bhi Paritosh aur Samar se zyada attention Pakhi ko mila hoga na? Nahin mila hoga toh Pakhi (jo abhi itni ziddi hain) usne bhi zidd nahin ki hogi? Har bachcha karta hain. How difficult is it to understand this?

Doosri baat, agar har shaadishuda ladki ko apne Maa ki constant attention ki zaroorat padti bhi hain toh isiliye ki woh Usi ke Maa ke saath reh rahi hain. Kisi aur ghar me bidaai hoti ya kisi aur desh me jaati like Kinjal toh kya karti?

Teesri baat, parenting and growing up itself means trying to make your "kids" to be self-sufficient, independent, take your own decisions and own up to your decisions and take the consequences.

Finally each to their own opinions.

So, if there words told to someone, the words will come back and people should be able to brace it.

To anupama time table Bana ke rakhe kya

Maine to aaj tuk na suna ki parents ne yeh kaha ho i subah 6 to 8 hum is bache ko first priority denge phir phir 2pm.se 3 pm. Bache ko priority denge phir raat ke 6 se 8 is bache hum third priority denge

How can priority bhi decide I don't understand

One question I have to ask how can mother decide priority among her children

I have never heard in my real life ki mother apni bachon ke beech priority decide karti ho

Kyon maa ke liye sabhi bachon ke kaam equally important hote hain

Age ke according to mother ke sabhi bachon ke kaam important hote hai so how can priority be decided I don't know

Originally posted by: surabhi01

One question I have to ask how can mother decide priority among her children

I have never heard in my real life ki mother apni bachon ke beech priority decide karti ho

Kyon maa ke liye sabhi bachon ke kaam equally important hote hain

Age ke according to mother ke sabhi bachon ke kaam important hote hai so how can priority be decided I don't know

Priority is based on the situation and age. Maa is not going to wash potty of a 18 year old but will do with a 3 year old, maa won't help a 21 year old dress but will with a 2 year old. Maa will prioritise a child who is ill over someone who is unhealthy

Ussi tarah smaller kids need more attention from parents, married adults get attention from their spouse.

At different stages you prioritise different thing, a good maa should also know when not to interfere in life of grown adult children. Too much interference causes children to never become mature adults but spoiled brats like Pakhi and Toshu

Ek baar toh sach hai agar maa Anupamaa jaisi ho toh aisi maa kisiko bhi naa mile. 😭

Bhagwan kare aadhya toshu pakhi jaise santaan kisi ko na mile